Has this happend to anyone or is it only just me

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  This happened to me once. A guy from here persued me for ages. We met up a cpl of times when we were both out in the city. Once we did sleep together I never heard from him again.   It actually put me off this site and I didnt come back for months. Actually he was the last guy I met off here. Still havent found anyone to try it with again. It really hurts the ego and its just not nice.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I think some guys think they're going to find some perfect dream woman and the reality never matches the fantasy - how can it.  Also it's all about the chase for them. You just gotta enjoy the journey!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I just so couldn't  be bothered to lie and bullshit, I am who i am! You either like me for who i am or nickensy offensy.   Lifes to short to waste it perpetuating lies, and women by and large are not stupid, they will see through the crap.Cheers  and have a great weekNev

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  If these guys youre meeting dont have the decency to give you a straight answer....then move on with the knowledge that they are just too farkin stupid to see you for the wonderful woman you are.They have saved you the trouble of finding out they are a fuckwit further along down the track.But dont let them put you off meeting people. There really are some great people out there!Maybe try a club or a meet and greet?? That way there are no expectations on anyone's part...and even if you dont click with the person you are going there to meet...you may just meet someone else that floats your boat!Good luck...and like I always say...ya gotta see alot of shit before you can recognise gold!Just my opinion...BJxxx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I was very tempted to give it away too kate_08 so hang in there too  because then as flirtyfun75 so rightly said just enjoy the journey which i did,then i moved on.Thankx for the reminder. flirtyfun75 Its a pitty that some guys dont have the same attitude Nev and your right when you say women arnt stupid,we soon develope the bull detector need it with kids..lolMissBJ what can i say babe but your a gem of a woman i luv your comments always your so spot on. I think thats why i let this situation frustrates me more due to the fact that i dont drive,and if i hook up for play it has to be my place and at certain times.Thus ive have been giving it serious consideration to attend a meet n greet as such,that way there's no expectations as you so rightly put it and not having to take other things into consideration..which i would have to normaly.So thank you all for your insight n pearls of wisdom, and i wish you all best wishes n a great day mwah

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I am amazed heymumma and also kate_08...what sort of dickheads are there up there?!!!......all i can say is phhtttt to all those losers....i had a look at your profile and i think u r delicious...mmmm-mmmm....i had an interesting experience, started chatting to a woman from here...moved to msn and chatted for a couple of weeks, as well as texting each other...made a few dates but each time one or the other of us had to cancel which was fine...then one day...BANG!!!...she didn't answer my text messages, my msn when she was online...I have no idea why...so, move on, and be thank the almighty that u have been spared meeting another dips**t...cheers and big hugsJose...ps...i just love these little icons...giggles

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I have much experience and to be totally honest have gone through the same experiences as everyone else has written about.   the answer is right in front of you....   for whatever the reason or reasons they stop communication is because you have been taken off their fuck ladder.  its as plain and simple as that.   they are no longer into you and your not their friends ur just one to add to the ladder.  Whatever the reason they stop communication is generally BS and they cant give a genuine reason or that they dont want to hurt ur feelings so they stop texting, stop calling and stop msn'ing you.   it is ridiculous for the other person to behave that way it is really deceitful and dishonest.  its stupid, disrespectful and a silly ugly game that has crept into our society.    but as other people have suggested the best thing is to move on and move on quickly you cant beat yourself over the head about it.....   there are great people out there unfortunately u have to go through all the crap and bad experiences to appreciate the good ones.   anyone wants to chat get better aquainted ive left my email address xoxoxo

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I have had much the same experiences as what other people have written about and have come to this conclusion.   the answer as to why this occurs is right in front of you.....     plain and simple your no longer on their fuck ladders thats the harsh reality of it.   for whatever reason or reasons your no longer on that persons "want to fuck or must fuck ladder"   and so they stop communicating with you they stop the texts, the msn'ing and phone calls.  They havnt got the balls to tell u cause the reason or reasons are never genuine and they dont want to hurt your feelings.   its a really shitty thing to do.  its very deceitful, dishonest and a stupid silly game that has crept into our society.   as others have mentioned the best thing to do is move on and move on quickly dont beat yourself about your head over it as it's not worth it.   there are good people out there but unfortunately you have to go through alot of crap first to find the good ones.  it takes time and makes you appreciate the good times more when you have them.   if anyone is up for a chat wants to get better aquainted i've left my email address xoxox

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