M45
Has anyone got any ideas
November 16 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm lost in the thought of what you just offered..siiiiiiiiighs...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe the lawn mowed, BBQ cooking and a cold Beer waiting kinda girl...pretty much my idea of being spoiled....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Wash her car.... those rims are so hard to clean
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RHP User
14 years ago
be a man for her, not a pussy whipped cur. be underneath your ute fixing the exhaust when she comes over, or be chainging the oil. FFS!!! do NyTHING a man is supposed to do, THEN greet her well, and cheerfully. wait until she starts cooking or preparing and MAYBE ask if she wants a hand. ORtell her you feel like a service station pie and sauce and a beer, and ask her if she wants to go for a drive and pick up something easy for dinner.. She obviously didnt attach herself to you because you were pussy in the first place, so dont BECOME one :) apart from that... enjoy her ....oh... AND change your status to "Attached" eh? OR are you keeping this profile... "just in case...." ?? caveman
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lift her skirt up as she walks in the door and have her against the wall. Us simple girls like that kida thing. Ohh yeah make sure you have a rose between your teeth. I think what your offering is rather nice, but you maybe could ask her what she would like.
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RHP User
14 years ago
maybe... she's just not that into you - seems like your expectations are different, she's wondering why are you going into this trouble, while you think that you need to earn her presence. Ask her (well - she might want you to "find out") and then do what she wants, she seems to be thinking like a man anyhow ;-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
.........that the woman in question does not want you to do anything but spend money on her. A day spa over the wonderful pampering you have just described? I am of the opinion that the day spa is way more fancy than those dreamy home comforts. It is a case of let me show you how much I care. The proof is not in the telling but in the doing....and you are prepared to do the doing. Fish and chips down by the ocean is simple and to make it fancy, throw in a tartan rug and a bottle of wine. Phhhht ditch the woman as clearly she is gonna be high maintenance and expensive and she does not appreciate your efforts and thoughts. Let me give you my phone number!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
First I have to ask - What's not fancy about a day spa? They charge a fortune to rub mud on your body and sheep guts on your face. I have found them to be a waste of time and money.And what's wrong with a massage from someone you find attractive? My partner isn't a qualified masseuse and wont win Mr Universe anytime soon but I think he's sexy and I would much prefer to have his hands on my body. It's also nice to have someone else do the cooking. It doesn't have to be fancy - plain and simple, properly cooked is fine.Why do some women take this stuff at face value and can't see that a lot of thought goes into these things. You may not like scented candles, your man may not be good at a back rub and his cooking skills are limited to snags on the barbie but surely you can appreciate that the guy is willing to put in the effort to give you a good time. How hard is it to say "thanks, that sounds wonderful" and just let it happen. If you enjoy a day spa why wouldn't you enjoy a pamper session from your partner? Holdenf you sound like a nice, thoughtful but unappreciated guy. If she wants something simple give her the simplest thing and don't give her anything at all.
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luvsilver
14 years ago
YOU COULD ,give the best a man can give to his special lady. Drink nothing but pineapple juice for a week-lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
pineapple juice lol..love it, If you can drink lots of it... she will get a surprize someone I knew to know did that and it really works tastes great
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RHP User
14 years ago
Every second RHP message I receive offers me a massage and I'm pretty sure they aren't all just wanting to give me a nice little selfless treat. When a man offers a woman a massage, it is pretty darn certain that he is thinking it will end up with his penis inside her. When a woman goes to a day spa for a massage, it is only for a massage.Don't offer her a massage when describing the evening to her if you want it to be a treat night for her. Yes, she may adore sex with you, but a treat night should not be presented as including something that leads to sex. Sex should be her choice on that night. Present a simple evening with no sexual implication and if she is feeling frisky you may get laid, but if she isn't then at no point is she to feel obliged that you might want to.Maybe walking in the door to a fully prepared meal is pressure to be hungry instantly and have to help with the cleaning up later. Maybe she isn't into baths and music whilst her guy is hovering around hoping she's enjoying it. But if she walked into a room with candles lit and a glass of wine presented to her. Pizza ordered in which means no-one is going to have to clean the kitchen or sit around waiting for anyone to cook. Her favourite movie on dvd and a bowl of her favourite choccies and lollies and ice-cream to eat whilst watching it. If she snuggles and gets cuddly and wriggly, then offer the massage. But if there is going to be any sex at all that night it is to be initiated by her.
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RHP User
14 years ago
take some tips from her........if shes not wishing to be spoiled, perhaps you should step back a little.......some take it as smothering and it may make her feel suffocated...or even controlled..........if shes had bad experiences previously with domineering and controlling men, maybe it just reminds her of this...perhaps shes experienced someone who put conditions on what he was doing for her...'if i do this, i expect that in return' kinda thing.....she may not like to feel 'obligated' ......do simple sweet things that arent necessarily about her personally.... buy a bunch of flowers...wash her car....listen to her....hold her hand and be available, but dont take her life over...you run the very real risk of being pushed away completely......
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Joe_Melfi'maybe... she's just not that into you - seems like your expectations are different, she's wondering why are you going into this trouble, while you think that you need to earn her presence. Ask her (well - she might want you to "find out") and then do what she wants, she seems to be thinking like a man anyhow ;-) Maybe she's a control freak. She wants to control the things she can, gives her a little power in her world. Maybe she's just not that into you ... OR maybe she's SOOOO into you, she wants to control you too...are you up for it???
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RHP User
14 years ago
What a strange response for such a romantic gesture. something ain't right!
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