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June 27 2022
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RHP User
4 years ago
Hi MFMHotWife. I think we blokes are a bit more sensitive to first time pressure or anxiety nerves than we let on. The first time with my squeeze, which did catch me by surprise, I just couldn't keep it up. Slipped in first up for a while but then asked for a drink so took a break. Back for the second time, well that was it, too much thinking?? Second time around much better, still a bit soft going in but a bit of pushing and bobs your uncle. Now, 30 minutes no problem but she wants hours!! There is absolutely no problem with your wife I can assure you but for all the macho talk of doing this woman and that woman most blokes will suffer some performance anxiety some times in their life. Good luck.
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countrytouch82
4 years ago
The woman, and the action with the woman is often really hot, but it's often things that some men don't understand about the difference between fantasy (which might include porn) and reality. In reality, and something even porn doesn't show because the camera is always focused on the woman action, is that men basically have to be completely comfortable being surrounded by other naked men. If you can't see the woman at any time, you are just looking at men's naked butts etc :p Folks that may have got used to this might be sports or football players etc that have been used to other men's naked bodies in a change room. It doesn't matter if all the activity is straight, the focus might be arousing but everything else in the surrounding periphery has an impact on nerves and self consciousness. Experienced GBers will be less bothered by this, as with exhibitionists, so it's hard to go by a one off event. Eventually couples that do this a number of times will have a selection of their preferred men for whatever they need.
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Alex_Lover
4 years ago
We've read on blogs, and heard on podcasts the same thing endlessly. In unfamiliar/group settings sometimes cocks just don't do what they're told, regardless of how intensely erotic the scene is, and how sexy the ladies are. I've experienced the same thing at a club or group setting sometimes. The most erotic things are happening right in front of my eyes, it's hot as hell... but Mr D just isn't playing ball. It's infuriating, and difficult to get past, once you're in your head. One thing I've found to help, is disengaging from the woman do my own thing for a little bit ... masturbate to the action and get things hard. That way my brain isn't scolding my cock, while the woman is sucking it. That's a situation that is rarely going to resolve itself. - Alex.
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FeistyFatty
4 years ago
Haven't had this happen with hubby or invited guests. I personally would have been completely turned off by the camera and live streaming.....maybe they were too..... "Stage fright" 😜
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RHP User
4 years ago
Camera was your big downfall i have been fortunate enough to have been to a few for a word gangbangs, most guys me included would worry as to where the footage could wind up eg uploaded to a porn site. As you say live streaming to RHP thats a no no unless all agree to it, i would hazard a guess the guys were worried about who may see it.
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Hotasianwife
4 years ago
This is the risk you take with older guys particularly. They can’t stay hard and aroused like the younger guys. I organise gangbangs for my wife and I always get men from 25-35 max. After that, if they are not using viagra they are unreliable. It’s very disappointing for the woman involved to meet men like this.
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Mrs_Deep_Love
4 years ago
I think you are being very unfair on the men involved. Normal dicks go up then down. Most can't cum on cue. They aren't performing monkeys but humans. You may need to invest $$$$ in professionals. The pressure on men generally in our culture to be sex machines is terrible and damaging. A woman should never base her self esteem on an erection. I'm trying to be polite but quite frankly this post makes me cranky. If someone was on here complaining the women's vaginas in a group session weren't tight enough there would be an uproar.
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RHP User
4 years ago
I would definitely get rock hard for her see is beautiful and would stay rock hard after cuming for a few times
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RHP User
4 years ago
MFMHOTWIFE I could aggre on certain parts of this forum quality over quantity,satisfying woman sometimes are high on males agender weather they cum on que or cum depends on the situation and time just like females,but it comes down to who u select as guests and there satisfication level in them selfs ! i typically can stay hard and do mulltiple rounds and can keep up using any greet and meeting as a challenge to be the best u can and leaving the other person seeking more craving more until next meet leaving behind great experiences and memories !
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RHP User
4 years ago
Sean from the Whitsundsy plays with us consistent performance
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longLastinFuckin
4 years ago
Put cockrings on nd rub her tis. That works
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RHP User
4 years ago
Yeah your wife is hot.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Every pornstar is supported by some good fluffers. Keep the studs watered, fed and aroused ha.
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LeaLot
4 years ago
Yeah I think it’s related to the camera
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HeathWild
3 years ago
As a guy that’s actually done porn & been a Male Perfomer, I can tell you right now, EVERY GUY reckons he can do the job. In reality VERY few can perform on camera. Most get nervous, performance anxiety. Believe it or not, our dicks & our brains are linked. You’d think getting hard & staying hard on camera would be easy, nope. Ask any porn director, finding reliable male performers who can get the job done consistently & reliably is hard (no pun intended). Dudes are full of crap, they talk a big a game, but then when it comes game time they bail like a b***h or can’t perform. It’s why I always say, stay humble & let your actions speak for themselves. If you’re not serious don’t waste people’s time. With all that said, the unfortunate reality is people WILL waste your time. Even in my industry, I’ve lost count of how often performers change their mind, don’t show up, ghost you, or do show up & they haven’t got clean STI test results ect. There’s an endless list of BS. But sometimes they’re awesome & reliable. Trying to organise strangers for such a confronting situation is rather difficult. I’m used to this stuff, but most people aren’t. They fantasise about it, talk about it, but get nervous & bail when the time comes. Chalk it up to anxiety & a lack of balls. 😂
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RHP User
3 years ago
When is you next rhp live stream..? Your wife is fucking hot 🔥 would love to catch up when out east
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Fraserguy18
3 years ago
I'd love to join next time or watch via live stream. Have met this lovely lady afew times. This couples is amazing and heaps of fun.
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RHP User
3 years ago
I know in some instances certain restrictions can result in moments where perhaps we might go a bit soft because we can't do as much or what we normally do. I was and sort still am in this situation with a couple. She's 22, hot as parter is late 30's and basically in a cuckold scenario where he is in the shower as I get to fuck his sexy gf. Now I had moments where we have been sweet where we both orgasm hard and have bounce back quick for round two and three. But the last time after the first round for each of us, she was getting ready to ride me reverse cowgirl, I went limp. I put it down to sorta of being out of my element where she was controlling things and I couldn't really be myself. When I asked to give me a moment and I started to finger her again, enjoying that feeling I was right to go again. So long story short, comfort zones can definitely be a factor especially if you like being in control and suddenly have that taken away.
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RHP User
3 years ago
Maybe they were frightened their wives would see them on camera.
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BombTom
3 years ago
I've attended small gangbangs on quite afew of occassions. 2, 3, & 4 guys sharing the beauty. Great fun! Generally there's no camera. I would say more than 60% of guys don't get/stay hard regardless of how hot the play is. I only accept the invite if i find the wife very sexy, so personal attraction is important. I've not had a problem getting/staying hard yet (i'll say yet though as it's no shame involved) & it probably happens to all guys at some point.
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Gentlelovers
3 years ago
This is abit off the topic but looking at your photos don't you make the guys use protection.
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RHP User
3 years ago
Supply them with viagra and a shot or two of vodka ..works for us 🔥🍆🍌💥
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Lightbulbs
3 years ago
We had the same problem He was a younger guy could only manage it once and then couldn’t get hard again
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TheaussieBull88
3 years ago
This post reminded me of a funny story, I was at a mini orgy once and a guy wanted me to have his wife, but he was a bit too eager haha As I was walking over, rock hard (his wife was stunning) he started yelling "fuck yeah! Get that big cock here! Fuck my wife! Yeah! That cock! Yeah! Put that cock to use! Yeah!" Was sooo awkward, and distracting. Safe to say i didn't finish. But I was lucky enough to have the wife alone at another time and redeemed myself.
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Hotwivesclub
3 years ago
As much as lots of people love novel sexy concepts the reality of those concepts rolling out with strangers makes it hard for some people (of all genders) to feel relaxed - and safe. As in safe to let go. Familiarity helps, it's not for all swingers or hotwife couples, obviously not practical in a GB scenario.
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RHP User
3 years ago
Big mistake with the camera imho. Something so small can turn a guy small lol see what I did there 😉😉. Maybe try leave the camera off for a bit.
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RHP User
3 years ago
Check my veri’s and you’d think this has never happened to me…but I think every person on there has had me do this to them unfortunately, at least for a short time. I think, after thinking about it, it’s performance anxiety. Doing it isn’t always “natural” and there’s a variety of subconscious thoughts that play into it. Luckily I’m a bit of a smart arse and half laugh it off and everyone has been the same and super cool with it which then helps me relax and do what I do 😉 but it can be difficult. Fucking a guys wife in front of him, no matter how cool he is, is daunting. There’s always that “what if” in my mind, even if it’s not consciously present. For the record, whilst I can only see 1 pic on your profile - I’d say it has ZERO to do with your wife, cus she looks absolutely smoking in my opinion 👌🥵
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RHP User
3 years ago
Sounds like the men are watching too much porn
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RHP User
3 years ago
I’m happy to oblige - I can go for hours and yes I’ve used video before and also been part of a gangbang video production lol performance anxiety is an issue for all men regardless of age. Discrimination isn’t the answer
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RHP User
3 years ago
I agree it may have been the pressure of the camera. I am older, but when I am in a group situation I can usually keep going for an hour or two. Though odd things can put you off... the wrong kind of dirty talk, giggling at the wrong time... it's not an exact science
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RHP User
3 years ago
I’ve never had a problem getting hard or staying hard after I cum and she is absolutely stunning
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