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Hair pulling? A slap on the ass?

August 11 2009

Do women like this, or do they let us get away with it because it turns us on? Anxious to her your responses! Mr Sexy...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    For me i love to be slapped on the ass and my hair pulled while being pounded hard and deep!!Not sure if some girls only let their men do it because it only turns them on but I for one enjoy being roughed up a bit!!xx

  • playfulminx

    playfulminx

    16 years ago

    I don't see too many women putting up with things that give them discomfort, at least not beyond a one night stand. But it's like anything. Some women will tolerate some bad oral sex if she knows she's not going to shag the guy again. If he's someone she wants to see again (in spite of the bad oral sex), she'll probably eventually let him know that he should try something else :)So in short, if it's just a one night stand or occasional FB, sure she might actually not fully enjoy something you do but it's cool. Obviously you'll know about it if she just absolutely hates it, one night stand not withstanding. If it's a regular partner then I'd say she genuinely loves it. As OhSoBi said, some women just love it :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    in my experience a lot of girls like the hair pulling but the arse slapping hasn't been popular. one reckoned it was tacky and i've never done it again lol

  • RedHotCoast

    RedHotCoast

    16 years ago

    Years ago my then GF loved being spanked hard while doing it doggy. So hard my hand would hurt and I had to change hands due to the pain. Another GF I had liked it when I put my hand/s around her throat during sex. What ever ticks your boat or floats your box. :))))))

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    a cheeky slap on the arse at the right time is nice, and I wouldnt complain about the occasional hair pulling/head positioning either. Im with OhSoBi on that one. But not with a guy I'd just met, thats the kind of playtime I'd enjoy with someone you know and trust, and know there's mutual respect.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I am not a fan of the hair pulling, but the bottom slapping? I love it!!! Its one of the cheekiest things a man can do...make sure you leave a mark!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well as I always say.. nothing like a little slap and tickle to get the mood going..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    looooooooooooooooooooove both

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Im with OhSoBi i love them both with the right person :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    mmmmm to both :)  with someone I love and trust, and if they can do it with some finesse ... which he does :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I, for one, LOVE both........mmmmm, give me that over "nice" sex anyday!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i dont like guys get away with anything i dont like, i would never do anything i didnt want to, and i dont like hair pulling or ass slapping. Maybe we should pull a guys hair or ass slap them and why is it that guys think they can do lots of stuff to us but a lot would not like it done to them??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Im with OhSoBi i love them both with the right person :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yes very much agreed, loves being spanked on the ass, the harder the better sometimes, especially when you get some nice red hand prints, and the hair pullying love that too, especially when giving oral, always hot to be controlled a little. Agree with you sexshinecoast too on the throat grab/choking, absolutely love it...makes me "cum like a bitch" is our quote LOL....Princess

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well Well Well , A number of woman Mr Ink has been with didnt know they liked it ......And is very dominant, and a good at it.........done with care and limitations for those involved.......And Mrs Inkloves it to.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Lemme think bout this ................YES!!!! xx Miss Honey xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I love being pounded dogg and my hair pulled (not ripped out) but a nice firm grip and a slap on the arse is good too but not too hard or on the same spot for too long can get painful.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yessssssssssss to both and we both like it . Bit hard when Grav cuts his hair short tho ..lolChikeebabe ..mmmmmm must remember that ..hehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Love having my arse spanked and hair pulled while doing doggie style the harder the better i say, i would love to try the hands around the throat but  my partner is not to keen on it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    with people I know and trust....mmmmmm love it! Hard and slutty!! really love it girl to girl!!!! Miss Cris.

  • Ringleader

    Ringleader

    16 years ago

    Try hair slapping and arse pulling!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Gordon Bennett!  I can see I'm going to have to polish up my repertoire around here ... :) Hair pulling? Man, I used to do that in Kindy to teh girl in front and all it got me was a sneaky slap across the shoulders with a wooden spoon from a cranky old nun! Now, if you were to dress in a nun's habit and catch me pulling some sexy lil nymph's hair... so you can spank me with a ruler while I'm doing her doggy... now we're talking! Woooo hooo Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I the female here, definitely like my hair being pulled if I'm on my hands and knees being pounded into from behind, especially with anal which I love. I actually ask for my hair to pulled in these circumstances!! A sure way to send me into a huge shuddering orgasm. As to my butt being slapped at the same time, why not!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Love it all, different with each person.....I do find that hair pulling heightens my orgasms immensely!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    In the right context, in the right way and with the right person?   Oooooooooo yeah!!! ... Mmmmmmmmmm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hey desserts, i would love it if a girl partner would pull my hair and slap arse! mr dms2004 ps. mrs dms is always kind enough to be cruel to me :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    This is for Love bitten. When we catch up remind me to leave a mark.. hehe....andy_slosh get me on msn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I was with a woman once that asked me to take her from behind... we were going along great, and then she turned and looked at me, over her shoulder, winked and said "Pull my hair".  Of coures I did what she asked.  We were getting right into it, when she started panting "Harder!  harder".  Of course my mind jumped right to: "did she mean pull her hair harder or fuck her harder?"  What was I guy to do... I did both !!  In the end it seemed that was exactly what she was asking me to do.... worked out well for both of us in the end (no pun intended)!

  • tripod8barbie

    tripod8barbie

    16 years ago

    I would have to agree that I love it too and don't mind returning a little rough play too if the case requires or the person is up for it, but there have certainly been times when the person I'm playing with has tried and really not known what they are doing  and it just ends being a little funny but when done correctly its definately a turn on

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    yes, the feel is amazing if spanked the right way to turn me on! but each to there own, we have meet ppl that arent into it. mmmm i luv it, it turns me on!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Barbs seeing ya in ya little pink skirt made me finks.....ya wanna play norty school girls together??? Getting off the subject...Barbs you are so right there, not much fun when they do it limp wristed or something, its a bit of a turn off really. I do have a funny hair pulling story though. I did have one guy who was doing me from behind and basically using my hair as his support for his whole body weight as he was leaning back, my hair slipped out of his hands somehow, and he toppled off the end of the bed in a heap, just at a crucial time...didnt know whether to laugh or cry really teehee.Smacks Barbs bottie and wanders off.....xxMiss Honeyxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hair always was an amazing erogenous zone.....from this feedback it looks like guys really need to get with the program and start pulling hair when you do your thing !! Had an amazing MfM recently and while I was sitting being sucked and the other guy was pounding away from behind I took all our our girlie's hair and piled it on top of her head....then I made a tight "topknot" ponytail out of her wonderful hair and was able to direct her orgasms by pulling her head around, controllling her.....she had one which she said "blew her head off ! where I pulled her hair UP TIGHT &  HARD  as the guy behind screwed her VERY deep........bear in mind this girl is very sexually submissive and loves being bossed about....as the sweat dries we always hug and hold her tight to bring her back down gently.... Not much sexier than hair pulling in my book. Take you sex to another level of intensity all together.....try spanking too !! lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    love getting spanked while I'm riding too

  • Frankiesgame

    Frankiesgame

    16 years ago

    honey, me wishes you wouldnt keep telling that story!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    One guy pulled mine without asking and that was it as far as i was concerned. He's lucky i didnt flatten him!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hair pulling is such a turn-on ....something very animalistic about it. Nothing better than being pounded from behind and having my hair pulled just hard enough to hurt a little...mmmm. As for the 'slap on the ass'...im not a naughty 5yr old and don't need a smack. YUK!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I love doing it & my lovely girlfriend love when i do it to her. Gets me going harder as i fuck her from behind, just to see that look in her eyes. She would love me to do it to another lady as she watches too. She may even pull the other ladies hair & smack her arse too. Hmmmmm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    As my new friend sent me Saturday night i would say some women love it........ "If I were to guide your fingers inside me right now you would feel just how wet I am thinking about how your hard cock deep inside me and the sting of your hand on my ass would would make me feel. How the thrust of you deep inside me and the pull of my hair would make me moan and how the touch of your tongue on mine would make me melt" Can I cross reference this post to the one about why younger guys like older women?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hehe Frankie, hows the hip going teehee .xx Miss Honey xx  <<

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I LOVE both mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm has anyone let the smacks wander onto their Pussy mmmmmmmmmmmmmm as long as its not to hard "MY GOD !!!" Wishing I could Smack jengirl while she rides me !!!Mmmmmmmmmmm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I was wondering if anyone was going to go into this territory.... waiting 4 u yes I have and have found the results to be rather hot !!   xxx honey - I am Dom sugar....I don't chase....you will have to come to Me for yr treatment ! lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Me not running anywhere, me is pooped from a couple of norty boys chasing me round the cyber palms in the chat room. I'm just seeking refuge in here until  I get me breath back teehee. xx Miss Honey xx <<

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    what a lovely way to get the juices flowing-- ok whos ready????lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    wots to talk about....its just fun and wen u have ur long hair pulled, uno a guy gently grabs a fistfullwhile hes behind u n then plants the perfect slightly stingy slap on ur arse...wellxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You me we all differentMe: I'm a wild woman who likes to be man handled.Give me some of that any time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hell the first time a guy slapped me on the arse I slapped his hard back. Made for a very fun afternoon. It has it's place. Now hair pulling I don't take to all that much. A playfull tug is fine but if it's hard with some derogitory comments I am likely to pack up my toys and go home. I do like it when a guy plays gently with my hair while I am giving him head though.   Miss K

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Definitely gets me going.  One short sharp smack can take me from sleepy to ready to go in less than a second.  Lee - perfect description...might go wake hubby up now;o)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sal here :)   A cheeky slap on the bum when I am not expecting it is cool. I love it when Andy pulls my hair, spanks, puts his hands around my throat, holds me down, puts his fingers in my mouth, ties me up.....   There has to be trust there to do all of that. We had a recent experience with one couple that was hot and we felt comfortable enough to do a little bit of that but it was very reserved compared to when we are alone.   We had another experience with a different couple and she fisted me! No warning!!! That is not cool! If you want to try anything a little different with someone you have not played with before either talk about first or at very least ask before you do it. I would say yes, In some cases women may go along with something they are not mad about but then I think men may do the same from time to time....I know Andy has had another woman suck at his balls pretty hard and as it was a one off he told me about it but did not bother to tell her...I would definately speak up if something I did not like was done to me more than once and there are nice ways to go about telling some one you don't like it and saving you both from any awkwardness.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    My ex loved to be slapped. Turened her on and made her feel ashamed because  like a punishment, like at school.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yes i love to smacked on the arse, not too hard...and my bf has just recently started a light slap on my pussy right between my legs ... unbelievably horny stuff......especially after orgasm when its all nice and wet... And the hair pulling, lightly, looooove it, especially when im giving him oral......mmmm...

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    16 years ago

    Well me personally....It turns me on to pull hair and do a bit of ass slapping, I will take it to the level that the girl likes it, I have found most like it a little.....some don't like it to rough....and some want to fucked hard into submision. so it realy just depends on the individual.....my next encounter with my friend she wants me to belt her as hard as i can with my belt, and she says she can orgasim just from that......also I think guys with their testosterone and ego's etc....should pay special attention to not geting caught up in the heat of the moment and taking it to far.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Do I like arse slapping??? See profile pic for answer! As for hair pulling, I'm just starting to find out how much fun that is! I certainly don't want my hair pulled out by the roots, but a firm grip is a BIG turn on!   I'm quite intrigued by the number of ladies on here who are almost offended by this question. I fully understand that you personally may be turned off by the idea, but so many of you seem offended that the question was even asked.  I for one am very, VERY turned on by it. My FB routinely gives me a good spanking, and we BOTH love it! He's not that interested in the hair-pulling, so I don't ask him to do it. It all cuts both ways for everybody... to each his own.   Happy Slapping! Saucy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i love being slapped and my hair pulled

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Love to be slapped while getting oral.Having one of his rough hands around my throat, pinning me gently but firmly to the bed, while he fingers, licks, nibbles, bites, and spits on my pussy mmmmm yum.Combined with nice yummy pussy slaps, and when he flips me over and tie my hands behind my back and does it all over again.ummmm, have to go now ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yeah, I deserve to have my bottom slapped when I'm naughty.   Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Love the hair pulling and slap on the arse.  I'm with Salandy I love it when Dion puts his hands around my throat, holds me down, puts his fingers in my mouth, ties me up, slaps me. Going to try the pussy slapping one tonight mmmmm Wish he was home now

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I love having my hair pulled, roughed up while i'm being pounded, gets me right off, i'm getting wet typing this right now just thinking about it....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i dont care whether the guy likes it or not, i for one love rough sex. its all for my pleasure :) xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    nothing better when you're gettin down and dirty when my man slaps me and pulls my hair.. also like hand around my throat too, not too tight but tight enough.. But you do need to trust the person..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Pull my hair, spank me..what a turn on.My guys do that to me so well......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    An ex also liked to have her tits slapped while she was on top

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Andy here   It's Saturday night and where are all you pervo's when I need you. Nipple slapping, throat holding, pussy tapping, bum smacking, hair pulling... good lord get you all in a room and it would be a mini brawl!!!   Okay lets up the anti - what about   Face slapping nipple/breast slapping/squeezing/clamps/breast tied up til the go red! Ass play? Fingering, licking etc Fish hooking Tromboning  Head forced down on cock so tears come down your face.   Please don't get me wrong, I would NEVER do any of these things unless I had permission and even then I get told off because i'm too nice about it all.  I don't want you thinking I'm a bigger pervo than you pervos!! Sal and I were very vanilla when we started last year, and we still haven't reached our cut off point yet.   Between you guys and me, Sal's a bigger perv than me - face of an angel, body of a she-devil!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    MRS FCF HERE I LOVE MY ASS SLAPPED N HAIR PULLED MAKES ME HORNIER ALSO LOVE ROLE PLAY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    as long as they dont pull ur hair too hard I love it ;p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well.....any girls out there that love hair pulling or being spanked is most welcome to contact me....and join us for a little fun!  It turns me on to spank another girl when she's being naughty!!!! Girls : Feel free to read my profile and contact me/us if interested! L xxx :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    She here, I had the odd slap over the years and never really thought it hot at all.............until I was in the right hands, it has to be with some one that knows what they are doing, very very very erotic and I'd recommend any one wanting to do it, find some one that is good at it and learn, could be a fun class !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hair tugging......butt slapping......Turkey slapping......oh bubber it......i want to be a shepperd!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    no, no, and no.   it brings to mind memories I'd rather forget and have taken me a good 15 years to get over.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'm with the girls (well most of them!) on this one!Love being spanked, when pounded anal doggystyle by a hot stud, and I reall do enjoy spanking a nice peachy ass when nailing a nice wild Hottie - oh yeah! Unfortunately I don'y have long hair but the alternative neck grab is a horny alternative, and I know some women and men also enjoy the control of giving and receiving this kind of treatment I especially love pulling a girls hair while getting my cock swallowed, or if their hair is long enough, while riding a (guy) or girl doggystyle...mmmPre-requisites to this play is that the partners are into it, and that all parties have some finesse and practice to increase the erotic pleasure this kind of light domination that makes so mindbendingly fuckin' fantastic Go get em' TigerAndy'Bisextra4u'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    to answer your question, there is different ways to pull a girls hair, which guy's don't seem to know... you must slide your hand under the back of the hair, half twist and tug, softly at first, when things get more heated you can pull harder, it's the build up... also with spanking a toosh, it more like a tap at first, and if a guy taps me I will tap back as too give a lead as to how hard, sometime when your struggling to get over the line and firm tap on the toosh just might help!  it's all about the moment, never to hard too... I equal it too, when giving oral to a guy you tap there penis gently when your going back up the penis towards the head and see where that leads.... love both at the right moment!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Andy i love a bit of throat holdingNever had a face slap, but wouldnt mind trying it ;)xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    that is my perfect night plus some extra activities are always welcome

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thats sounds geeod. do you also like being called a dirty bitch and slut while being fucked up the arse or just a bit of rough play?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I definately enjoy it, within reason not to full on. Even a hand around the throught can be hot. I dont know why, but all 3 things just seem to hit a spot

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    My girl loves to be choked or have her hair pulled.. but at the right time and not all the time.I find it good to do just before she's about to orgasm and she claims it makes the orgasm more intense

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'll try both at least once and guage her reaction.I'm not into hard-core hair pulling or ass smacking during doggy.A light spank to see if she yelps then move on.I might move her hair off her back so I can see her neck & shoulders, so some light pulling might be involved from that or more if she responds positively.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I agree totally with the pro slap on ass/hair pulling/throating during sex sentiment as long as and only if it is with a willing and trustworthy partner/s...Love to give such intense pleasures to willing ladies and the occasional male, and now as I've been developing my 'Bi' side, I havebegun to really enjoy being on the receiving end of some delicious ass slapping while being pounded hard doggy style. Mmmmmmm.If you're straight, I assure you, you will be turned if you knew how Hot and horny it makes you...Hair pulling while fucking-well I know a lot ofquite a few women who really love it as long as you are not pulling too hard. Throat grabbing I would like to try with the right couple but I think this must be done with cautionAs for my hair being pulled while I'm being pounded-well Im a guy with short hair so I will probably never get to feel that sensastion, but fuck the thought of it, being taken hard like that....mmmm yes please!!!Maybe a doggy collar would be a reasonable alternative-any ideas please let me know xxxBisextra4u