F53
HURT
February 24 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Avoid that guy like the plague, and be carefull, if he wanted to he could make your life a living hell with Docs.and no i am not saying your a bad mum, but Docs has a reputation for shoot first ask questions later or do nothing. Now we know whats with all the bad days.I think you need to really be carefull who share intimate details with....just goes to prove, who can we really trust to watch our backs!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well, you have sympathy from me! As a mum myself, I can't imagine a lower blow than someone calling me a bad mother or a bad role model for my children. I actually think showing that I'm human, I make mistakes and am not perfect, but am still a good person and have self worth is EXACTLY the kind of role model I want for my children! Just forget about the prick. He obviously has a bee in his bonnet about something, but if he is not prepared to come to you and talk to you about it, then it is his problem not yours. I know it's easier said than done, but he really isn't worth any more energy and the friendship is beyond saving and will never get back to the same place, even if you were to ever talk things through. MWAH! S xox
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RHP User
16 years ago
To Whom it may concern. Miss Saturn - a Mother ,a Woman ,a real person..She is a person who not only listens to others , offers real advise and a helping hand..So she is open about her desires or thoughts about sex..But arent we all ! Are we not all sluts in one form or another and in Shy's case he wants to be !! How dare a brother figure turn information back into the face of someone who cares for them..Miss Saturn is a strong lady and reading her words is sad, because we can feel her pain.. Love for a partner or lover is breakable, but the love and welfare for her daughter is unbreakable and unquestionable.. Your friend Mike.
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RHP User
16 years ago
first, big hugs from me.... second....if that is how your PT treats his paying clients....phftt!!!! Change trainers now!!!!! Treat him how many of the men on here treat the women.....NEXT! He didnt even have the balls to tell you to your face...( the steriods have probably shrunk them ...lol) Your friendship has run its course. Personal trainers are a dime a dozen. He has done you a favour, you will find a better one in no time at all. intrigued & curious....
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RHP User
16 years ago
big hugs to you miss saturn, no one deserves to be spoken to or treated in such a manner. you need to keep your head held high, you've done nothing wrong. as for him...use all that training...and dump him on his arse!!! Cxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Seems strange for him to come out with that comment out of the blue when you were previously so open with him. Maybe he had some other issues going on and took it out on you. Not nice in any case.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Miss Saturn... I can't believe he did that to you... and I'm always really really shocked by people who go out of their way to deliberately hurt people they claim to "care" about... I don't trust very easily precisely for this reason... opening your life, secrets, dreams, heart, soul to someone leaves you open and vulnerable for all the pain of being judged for the "crime" of just being yourself... I completely understand and sympathise.... and I completely agree with Sonsie... you don't need someone so hurtful in your life xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
What the fuck?! What an absolute cunt act! What was his problem?? I don't understand? OPbviously you don't either... but, damn... that's just harsh. What an absolute tool.Don't comfrt eat. Fuck him, find yourself a new trainer. I'm vindictive so I'd complain to the gym manager about him too.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wow, im sorry to hear that, i really am... Some people can snap and say stuff they come to regret later, however to attack a person through kids or family is extremely disrespectfull. Well done on trying to approach to say 'hi', as metioned above, there must be something eating at him to cause him to flip out, but at the end of the day as far as i can see, from what you've written and previous posts, he's the one thats lost out.. my advice is to leave the gym as it will only cause you more pain and discomfort.. Hope you feel better soon
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RHP User
16 years ago
...hugged, Miss Saturn. Your trainer was way out of line; you are better off without him in your life.
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RHP User
16 years ago
That's terrible. It seems he's forgotten a whole lot of axioms to live by - judge not, lest ye be judged, the golden rule, etc. No person deserves to be treated as you have. Seems like you really shouldn't bother with the man any more. Never mind, there's lots of other men out there who are willing to be your friend, given a chance. Indulge in some self-pity for a while, then pick yourself up, head out there to a dojo, and start kicking some ass!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for all your wonderful support. I didn't tell all the story... I've been thinking "why now"... after being on RHP for over six months, why did he attack me NOW ? There's two possibilities that I can think of: (1) he's jealous and (2) he's JEALOUS ! the second is just a stronger form of jealousy !!! LOL But seriously.... his behaviour changed AFTER I started seeing a younger guy who in fact is one year younger than my trainer. Until then all the guys were mid-30's and over so I'm guessing my trainer always thought he was too young but then I tell him I'm actually seeing someone younger than him and his attitude changes ! And.. one night the young guy takes control of my phone and texts my trainer !!! He tells him EXACTLY what we were up to (in a joking way) and how much fun he was having... I think he mentioned something about having a threesome with my trainer and I !!! (obviously this was NOT a good thing for guy to do... but oh well...he wasn't being mean, just playful.) So now I'm wondering if my friend stirred my trainer up a bit too much and he became jealous ? The other change is when I mentioned I started to go into the adult chatroom and had mentioned camming with the guy above. I thought my trainer and I had the type of relationship where we openly discussed all these fun things. He'd told me many personal details about his "relationships". It hurts to lose someone who I confided in. I now have NO ONE to share my experiences with and NO ONE to be my "wing man". xxx Miss Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
My first thought was that this guy wanted something more from you and somehow felt rejected by you. Had he ever given you hints that he perhaps wanted to be seen by you as more than a friend? I can imagine that playful texts could have upset him...did you usually send each other descriptive text messages? Is it possible that it was sent at a time when his wife could have read it? If so, then I'm thinking he could have had some major shit hit the fan... Anyway honey, please don't overthink it...you will likely never know the full story. Live and learn sweetie, go in and give that precious girl of yours a big kiss knowing for sure that you are her one and only bestest mum and that, my dear, is the most important thing in the world. S xox
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have the kind of relationship with my trainer where we do talk, he knows a bit about what I get up to here with Andy, he has been my trainer for years, I even slept on his couch one night when my ex and I were going through our separation...... He has become a friend and I love him to bits but in the back of my mind I worry that when I open up to him I am putting him in the uncomfortable position of crossing the line of professionalism. Perhaps there is a lesson to be learnt here, unfortunately it seems, a painful one. Like some others have suggested, perhaps there is something going on in his life, perhaps he is jealous or perhaps his wife has seen the text, maybe it is as simple as he could handle the stories but being made a part of it in that way the text described was just too in his face... I guess at the end of the day, these are all great reasons but they are not excuses. If a line was crossed he did not have to call you names, he could have just said so. Good luck in your search for a new trainer. xx Salina
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RHP User
16 years ago
Need new gym and trainer.. Sometimes you just got to shug you shoulders and walk away with you head held high.. And huggin your daughter Sending hugs to you Miss_Saturn xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx sweetpetite41
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RHP User
16 years ago
on two counts...but first of all great post ...secondly what everyone else said...not nice under any provocation / resaoning ...so Wow 1 at your trainers behaviour...and WOW 2 on the fact that i think this is the first forum topic i have read, of decent length and ALL in supportive unison at core topic...and no off topic posts..Wow. Its shocking when things show themselves as different to ones own perception and its horrible when its coupled with rudeness, disrespect and hurt. I cant believe you are in two minds about getting another trainer - lol. 2b :) P.S. maybe don't let your young guy have unsupervised access to your phone - especially once you get a new trainer....good trainers are v v hard to find.-
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RHP User
16 years ago
1. U dont change your gym. Why would you? Huh? Because of that cunt? 2. He is attracted to you big time, but he is still a fucken cunt. 3. I havent read many of your posts, but i support you on that one.
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RHP User
16 years ago
change gym's telling management why or resort to C4.probably the former would be safer and just as devistating.don't get mad. get even.i hurtin for ya now darl. hope it works out for ya, and the rugrat.Earl
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's 4.30am....I can't sleep...will be screwed in just over an hour when my daughter wakes up ! I am very grateful for all your wonderful support and encouragement. This is a man with whom I have probably had the closest non sexual relationship with in my life. When he couldn't find anywhere to live, I offered for him and his wife to move in with me. When I travel to the U.S I took gifts for his family and carried gifts back for him. He introduced me to his uncle (lives in L.A) who is also an incredible man and who I stayed with twice last year (but that's another story). There are so many connections we have shared. Our relationship has rarely been inappropriate. I never text him unless about training or to answer one of his personal questions. The texts my rhp friend sent would have been a shock. I apologised to him the next morning and checked he'd deleted them...he had....his wife didn't see him. I have this image in my head of the look on his face when he saw me at the gym. He turned his back on me and RAN up the stairs. My ONLY fear is that my ex goes to the same gym (he once confronted my trainer and accused him of having an affair with me !). I'm not afraid of DOCS. I don't believe in revenge. I have seen a new gym specialising in fighting (boxing, Muay Thai, MMA etc)...I may have a look in the morning. I need some cotton wool to wrap up my heart for awhile. Hugs, Miss (still sad and sleepy) Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
Jealousy is no excuse for reacting the way the he did, even if he did find out about your younger man. If emotions make us human, then civility (and regulation of those emotions) is what makes society. While you can't do much about his reactions from this point on, you can do something about how you feel - exercise is a great start. If you're feeling charitable, you might even choose to extend an olive branch to your ex-trainer, in whatever form that might take. But we think you should also discipline your younger man - one should never kiss and tell.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think the guy is in love with you and he is behaving like a jeolous schoolboy. I'm sure you're a pefect mum. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
It does pain us all to see you upset.It really sucks when someone you love and trust does treat you in such a spiteful way. Everybody so far has mentioned tha perhaps he was jealous- however-The other issue is that when your friend texted all of the details to his phone, is it possible that your trainer's wife got a hold of the phone and probably blew a gasket. In his mind you would be seen to have crossed the line of proffessionalism.That text could have caused some SERIOUS grief at home for him.I mean think about it, a young married PT gets a ext of lewd details from one of his very pretty clients- Not cool if his jealous wife got a hold of it.Now i am not condoning his behaviour at all, but maybe you need to take some responsibility for this.I really do feel for you Saturn, and i believe if he was a true proffessional, he could have handled it a lot better.Don't give up on us guys, and please don't tar us all with the same brush. There are some very loyal staunch guys out there, that would never do the thing your PT has.BTW- Everyone on this forum knows EXACTLY how much your daughter mean to you. The WorldChin up Saturn- This is a massive growth phase for you, use it and get stronger mentallygood luck mate
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RHP User
16 years ago
no 1, your PT clearly is jealous and i would also say angry that ya won't "do" him, if ya know what i mean...errr....what is DOCS?...but allow me to give you another perspective which may help you see some light and allow you to move on...a long time ago, i had a fwb, and not wanting to be selfish, i encouraged her to go and play with other guys...anyway, one night i was feeling quite depressed and sent her a text asking if she was free to chat...she replied..."busy having hot wild sex" and accompanied it with a pic of his dick...i since have found out that it was he that sent it and not her....BUT....to describe the knot which was in my stomach...the feeling of sickness....the tears in my eyes...the grief in my heart....i would have to say that it was the second lowest point in my life...looking back on it now, i still cannot see the funny or amusing side of it...and it took an amazing amount of willpower on my part to not just delete my profile and go back to my farm....i am not trying to hijack your thread...simply offering you a possible insight into your PT's head...i must confess, if i was your PT, i think i would have ditched you way sooner...and could i have done it in a nice way...i don't think so...in sympathy and with the biggest hug i can give you...jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Not one post backing up the trainer? WTF? Poor guy's not only been on the 'roids, he's had to live with his closet fantasy of nailing Miss Saturn on a benchpressbench (or whatever they're called, the closest I get to a gym is watching Fattest Loser) while she texted him everytime she was getting action somewhere else. Then some whipper-snapper starts texting him with what he's doing to Miss S with a fruit salad, chocolate and whipped cream.. We need to start a support group for the trainer!! He must also be emotionally shattered. Now I know why I stay away from gyms.. Back to the cupcakes for me too I think. PS - Could this be another case of predictive text gone bad? Maybe instead of BAD mother he meant ACE mother?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Big hugs for you Miss_Saturn..I'd get a new trainer..its obvious he doesn't want to talk aboutthe situation.and to abuse you in the way he did..name calling is abuse..NO man has the right to speak to anyone that way...what a inconsiderate drip..pfffftYeah i tend to agree that there could be more to the situation..but i just let it go and move on past the pain.Not worth the tears or agro.xoxoxomummahugs be strong..
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RHP User
16 years ago
You have to just put it behind you somehow. he is not worth all this angst. But one thing I have found in this life is no matter how well you think you know someone, when it comes to sex, or adult sites ot swinging or whatever, just don't say a damn thing, cos too many people have other ideas. I was watching on TV a few weeks ago,an interview with the man who ended up with Rockefeller's old mobile number and he was mortified at the number of people who were calling and suggesting swinging situations and honestly it was no different from what you get on here, but this guy waas so shocked.So best to keep these things to yourself.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just wanted to reply to some of the above BEFORE I head for the gym ! Yes... I'm am in my "Work Hard, Play Hard" top and leggins ready to do a boxing class. I know my trainer will be there. I know he will be watching and that's EXACTLY why I have to do it ! I will NOT hide or avoid him as that is quitting and taking the easy way out. Outside of being a mother, training has been a huge part of my life for the past two years. It has kept me sane. I was seeing my trainer for 3 one on one sessions a week plus one group session on a Saturday morning plus the occasional soccer match. In general we would chat 5 or 6 days a week... that's a pretty close friendship. That's all I ever considered it to be. I never EVER considered more and don't believe I have EVER lead him on or given him any idea that there would be. Roughfuker.... my trainer's wife definitely did NOT see the txt messages from my friend. I checked the next morning. I know my trainer's wife and have had lunch with her... if there was a problem I would have sorted it out bloody quickly. I take 110% responsibility for the txt messages. It was my phone, I'm a grown woman. My friend was having fun... he isn't to blame in any way. BUT... the issue is... that a true friendship can survive crap like that. I was obviously the fool for thinking he was a friend. Comeandgetme.... I don't understand your comment about dumping me sooner... WOW that HURTS ! I am rather shocked by your comments given you and I know each other. Mmmmm... AND... to the guy that I am talking about re the text messages... I have made it clear that this is NOT your fault, it has nothing to do with you. It is about my relationship with my trainer. I don't hold YOU responsible in ANY way. We are all adults here regardless of our age ! ok... better go thump the shit out of someone at the gym... xx Miss Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'newSHERIFFinTOWN'no 1, your PT clearly is jealous and i would also say angry that ya won't "do" him, if ya know what i mean...errr....what is DOCS?...but allow me to give you another perspective which may help you see some light and allow you to move on...a long time ago, i had a fwb, and not wanting to be selfish, i encouraged her to go and play with other guys...anyway, one night i was feeling quite depressed and sent her a text asking if she was free to chat...she replied..."busy having hot wild sex" and accompanied it with a pic of his dick...i since have found out that it was he that sent it and not her....BUT....to describe the knot which was in my stomach...the feeling of sickness....the tears in my eyes...the grief in my heart....i would have to say that it was the second lowest point in my life...looking back on it now, i still cannot see the funny or amusing side of it...and it took an amazing amount of willpower on my part to not just delete my profile and go back to my farm....i am not trying to hijack your thread...simply offering you a possible insight into your PT's head...i must confess, if i was your PT, i think i would have ditched you way sooner...and could i have done it in a nice way...i don't think so...in sympathy and with the biggest hug i can give you...jose... I would have to agree with Jose on this one. I would have dumped you to after receiving text messages like that. You must of known he had some feelings greater that just friends for you.Now you've probably broken his heart and thats why he's reacted you this way.Not the best think for him to say but he's upset cause he's most likely in love with you and you've just destroyed him. What I really wanna know is why the texts were sent, you knew he was doing it. Why did you let him do it? Were you looking for a reaction.And why was he even a subject of conversation when you were with another lover? Maybe you to have feelings a little bit stronger that just thinking of him as a little brother. pete
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RHP User
16 years ago
Dear Miss Saturn Keep going to the gym hes the one with the problem,keep saying hi if eye contacts meets .Show him he`s the one with the problem you are a beautiful and very kind lady judging from comments you have previously written and by your kind retun flirt.He sounds as jealous as hell and yes the text was proberly abit cheeky,but if he didnt like it he should of just pulled you aside and said so to your face.You are a good mother because you work,put a roof over her head,educate her and keep her clothed and feed .Now what you do in private out of your daughters sight is up to you and you only.The eaist way to hurt a mother is to tell her she`s not a good mother or role person ,you know whats right so just brush it off,dont let him get to you.Babe hes a cock .stay beautifu,keep smiling and dont ever change for any body but your self. you are as radiant as the sun your admirer quietcolt
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Letsgetcrazy09
16 years ago
Miss Saturn So sorry to hear about your hurt, not all people experience what you have or the circumstances/scenarios are different. Certainly a couple of instances of "friendships" gone south are. Only you can know the full extent and the vexatiousness of the comments that were made to you. Unfortunately a lot of people of so high "moral" grounds ofen have other areas that would see them at the receiving end of some tongue lashings themselves. Pehaps we should all treat ourselves in this respect as living in glass houses, but then were are but mere mortals. It does make you wonder what has set your "wingman" off on this tirade. I somehow think the hurt comes more from not knowing why all of a sudden the other party has changed and could be so spiteful and hurtful. I hope you at least get an explanation at some time as to why the change of heart by your mate??? I'm not sure that things can ever be the same when these things happen. You cetainly appear to be meeting the challenge set to you head on. As to anything that might happen, well you can only cross that bridge when you get to it. You keep your chin up and head held high. You have from what I have seen in here, been open and living life, I would hate to see that wonderful spark disappear. Cheers & Hugs Lets
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RHP User
16 years ago
i was referring to the text message that he received...i was pointing out that had i received the text message, i would have said adios straight away...not let it linger on...that's all...you misunderstood my meaning completelyahh...fuck it...stupid words...theSHERIFF
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RHP User
16 years ago
you broke his heart miss saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
wow! i was right about you from the start!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'littlepanda' wow! i was right about you from the start!!! and just WHAT are you saying littlepanda?...theSHERIFF
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's his loss.......maybe an earlier poster was right maybe he is on the juice and that compounded his jealousy.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just my 2 cents, if you are/where such good friends and his wife was aware of your "relationship" as it was, friends confidants etc, I can not see why you should'nt mention in passing that he got sent some inappropriate txts from your friend. Just mention loosely the context of the texts messages, and li'm sure she will tell him to get a grip. It is obvious he thought more of the "relationship" than you. It is totally his issue, and until he is brought back to reality he might try and cause more issues. Nip it in the bud now, and be done with it. Get a new trainer at the same gym, be upfront when your comfortable, and explain the situation. Most importantly be YOU, if you and your daughter are safe and happy, then let the good times roll. Phil
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Darl What a mungrel !! Think your right ...hes jealous. I couldnt put up with an elephant that big in my life. Id have to invite him to my office or somewhere private and sort it out. Up front open and honest.....whats his problem...... and then restore or remove the friendship. Negative people just drain your energy, and unresolved issues sap us. Attacking someones parenting is cruel and inexcusible, and has nothing whatsoever to do with being in touch with your sexuality. Big big big HUGS miss b
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think Piping has it 110% right, he's just a jealous asshole because as much as he says, he was just your friend, I really think he actually "harboured" thoughts of him "doing you at somes stage of the game. Though, he would never have let on to you and then the younger currently guy doing you and the text msgs to him was probably just the last straw that broke the camel's back. The Old GREEN EYED MONSTER - Jealously set in heavily from that point forward - And it would also easily explain WHY he was so vendictive towards you afterwards... Don't even bother to try and sort it out with him, He's already showed you his "TRUE COLOURS" - Tell him to Fuck off and get yourself a new trainer...NEXT !!! HAPPY SEXERCISING- Keep on Smiling Saturn!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Mz S Gawd dammit! Good ppl being taken down by parasitic pratts has gotta stop! Been thinking about the matter for quite some time lately, during which I had an appt with my iridologist who, funnily enought had a few things to impart which made a whole lot of sense, particularly where this issue is concerned. Consequently, part of the torture (treatment) is to go on a liver cleansing diet....purpose being to rid my body of the living life by-product. By all accounts this doesnt sound like a fun process so I thought, what the heck. May as well suck it up and to a total 'spring clean'. Fasting commences at 12pm tonight & over the next 48 hours, a series of radical measures to rid my body of these nasty toxins...at which time I will simulataneously do a mental autopsy & resultant 'cleanse' of resultant toxic relationships. Im led to believe one must not wonder too far away from the 'crapper', which again, strangely enough, is the perfect venue for these human parasites! Join me Mz & anyone else who wants to make a stand & get rid of the HURT'ers out of their system, for once and for all. The countdown begins!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
well no not really but it sounded funny... Get the NewSherriffinTown to mosy on over to the gym, and take the PT out the back and show him his guns, and whip and see if that can convince the PT to change his mind bout you - even offer an apology to you for the bad treatment... Hugs and chocolate to you MissSaturn... hope you get out of the place you are in mentally soon.. would be nice to see your cheerful posting back again hugs Wayne
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RHP User
16 years ago
But if anyone sent a text reply like that from my phone....I would tear them a new one!My phone is MY PHONE...NOONE touches it...unless they are texting exactly what i tell them to text.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I once rang my mothers' house to wish my stepfather a happy birthday....a stranger answered the phone...as my mother had just ducked down to the shops...and was really quite rude to me...not realising who I was obviously.I later found out the woman didn't even pass on my message...thinking I was a nobody.I got sooooo angry...at my parents....for allowing that rude person to "represent" them.They didn't think it was such a big deal....But I certainly did.Who speaks for you is a reflection of you...whether you want them to be or not.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'NevandKj' Avoid that guy like the plague, and be carefull, if he wanted to he could make your life a living hell with Docs. and no i am not saying your a bad mum, but Docs has a reputation for shoot first ask questions later or do nothing. Now we know whats with all the bad days. I think you need to really be carefull who share intimate details with....just goes to prove, who can we really trust to watch our backs! Cheers Nev Hi I agree it's probably a good idea to be discerning with whom we share too much information. However this sudden about face may not even have been from him. I'm not accusing-just suggesting a theory-As a mother you would recall that when you have a baby you can feel very isolated, perhaps insecure that you're not feeling as smokin hot as previously especially the first year or so trying to adjust to the baby let alone the baby fat, get rid of it etc to the gym. If he didn't actually say it to you if it was just an sms-Could it not have been the warped thinking of his sleep deprived wife? Her best friend/sister that hears her stress everyday has access to his phone? It doesn't take much to text someone from someone else's phone-delete the outgoing msg and then when you replied with F U no wonder he was giving you "dagger eyes". It could be a case of him also thinking after all the time I've put in THIS is how she treats me? I could be totally wrong-but sounds like you guys were very close-maybe too close for his wife-that perhaps 2 years ago or in another years time when the hormones are long gone and she's feeling confident because the baby isn't such a cling-on she wouldn't be thinking why is she always calling/texting him-he must be f***ing her? Unfortunately, the primal mother instinct comes out very strong when you have a baby and any threat to your provider and protector combined with sleep deprivation and perhaps social isolation do not the best decision make. It's not about whether she's right or wrong in her thinking or you in your close friendship with him that's not what I'm getting at-I'm just saying maybe we could all be capable of an error in judgement when sleep deprived or stressed. Perhaps if you are/were good buddies it may be worth the slight risk of humiliation to approach him face to face and ask why suddenly his attitude towards you changed. If he says your sms-well it proves my theory and try to feel sorry for the poor woman-she must feel very overwhelmed to have got to this point-and you don't sound like someone that kicks people when they are down-which if it is her that did it- sounds like she's close to bottom. Be gracious that your life is clearly how you want it to be-and forgiving towards her who may be envious and just temporarily hormone challenged. Perhaps a female friend or a gay best friend may have be a better choice-to be your wingman-less chance of this kind of complication. If it is because of something else (eg he wants to sleep with you and you've rejected his advances or some other random nonsense) and if you are in no way are exposing your child to anything untoward and this is perhaps sudden hypermoralising from someone that until now enjoyed a vicarious thrill from your escapades. Well, alll I can say is if anyone threatened me with such unprovoked action regarding a child of mine...it's probably best not to publish what the potential outcome would be lest it be used in evidence. You're sexy you're beautiful-life's too short to spend it crying which was undoubtedly the intended outcome of the joy thief sent you such a horrible message. All children deserve a mother that is happy-do what you need to get happy. And if this individual is the cause of your unhappiness embrace the opportunity to find someone that will ameliorate your mental health as well as your physique.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Your words of support and encouragement have been wonderful. I am now back at the gym, slowly coming up with a new routine. I'm sticking closer to the women and playing reserved with the men....at least for the time being (I'd NEVER mix pleasure with training so all the guys are off limits anyway). I went to the gym today and will go again tomorrow. I know I'm a nice person, even if most people think I'm a nymphomaniac and need to join Tiger Woods in his sex addiction treatment ! (mmm... I know what I'd like to do with Tiger !). I've learnt a few lessons from this experience. I'm sure I'll continue to make mistakes... actually I made one last night but that's another post ! Big hugs to everyone. Miss Saturn (a little happier today)
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RHP User
16 years ago
i think he had feelings for you and was scared to tell you somw how. That is why he said what he did. My 2 cents.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ' Quoting 'MissBJ' But if anyone sent a text reply like that from my phone....I would tear them a new one!My phone is MY PHONE...NOONE touches it...unless they are texting exactly what i tell them to text.JMO...BJxxx MissBJ! Just ask me not to use your line anymore and we have a deal... :-) JMO
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