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HOW DO WOMEN CHOOSE WHO THEY WILL REPLY TO
June 15 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
If a guy is outside my age requirements and doesn't have something in their profile that attracts me, I don't reply.If a guy has an template profile I generally don't reply, unless some effort and thought has gone into an email to me."So wanna fuck?" is likely to get no response, unless I've been checking that person out, or if it's say, 1am on a Wednesday morning and I'm toey as anything.I will always reply to messages that are thoughtful and reference something in my profile (other than my boobs). I will answer emails that have specific questions i.e. "How are you this evening?" if the sender is someone who matches my criteria.All of the above is subject to change depending on my mood at the time. I can be fickle, sometimes I'm totally up for anything, and other times I just want to be left alone.
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RHP User
16 years ago
MOST OF THE THINGS YOU STATE I CAN DELIVER BABE
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RHP User
16 years ago
but maybe you don't fit into what they are looking for? Isn't attraction a two way street? Do you think just because you find them attractive that they should feel the same way? if you do...then you have alot to learn. It could be that you are attached (which is good to be honest), but not what they are looking for. You say on your profile that you want "play meets only" (another good honest answer), but maybe the girls you are messaging are looking for more than a "hi, now lets fuck". It might be in the message you write to them and how it is worded? There are many reasons why the individual doesn't reply or replies in the negative or just uses the "quick reply" button...You can't tar everyone with the same brush because we are all different and looking for different things and attracted to different kinds of people. If we were all the same...how boring would life be? xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mate..... You will never understand what they want before THEY understand what they want. Just be yourself, be honest and open and non judgmental. Women also like to think your interested in them so when you message them, rather than doing a hard sell on what a great guy you are perhaps spend time complimenting what you like about them and asking some open ended questions that require more than a yes/no answer. Women also have opinions and they love sharing them... Ohhh do they love sharing them lol.
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RHP User
16 years ago
do you say in your email..."Let's fuck"...or do you first say "Hello" and then "Let's fuck"...I mean, really dude...put yourself in the place of a woman...Now open her inbox and lo and behold...25 flirts, 43 messages, only 125 viewings...hmmm..that's down on yesterday, what am i doing wrong...now, let's see who sent me messages...a dick pic...no...another dick pic...no...omg...a 65 yo trannie...yuk...an 18 yo douche bag...sheesh...now, do you get my drift...and here you are...a really, really, REALLY nice guy and there you are ...all sandwiched between all these dickhead emails saying let's fuck, or can i lick your pussy, or whateva...ya gotta make yaself stand out dude...maybe if you painted lots of little sparkly things on your jocks, ya might get some more notice, but who knows...actually, now that's not a bad idea...now, where are all me sparkly bits...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
and some cocks are TOO big for me. When I was a paid member and could see the cock pics I would let the guy know that I just wouldn't be able to accomodate.
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RHP User
16 years ago
firstly i reply to everyone....single men, married men, couples and even women but the message you get will all depend on the message i recieve....if you are rude, then il be rude, if your lovely and polite, then i will be lovely and polite back...yes people i can be lovely lol but if by any chance your a complete arsehole then baby come to roxxy cause il take you out in the nicest of ways....those are my favourite emails but im very fikle...so if im having a bad day everybody will be rejected....yes i would even reject jose on these days lol roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'geturroxyoff'but im very fikle...so if im having a bad day everybody will be rejected....yes i would even reject jose on these days lol roxxy just let me know when ya having one of those days, will ya..???and i'll send ya heaps of flirts and messages....ok..??jose...always an
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RHP User
16 years ago
Jose you had all week...but im afraid you have missed it your just so mean to me....i dont know why i put up with you sometimes roxxy ...always a
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RHP User
16 years ago
If you read my profile I will respond although Im actually am silly/polite enough to even reply to the people who I can tell who don't even read my profile, simply because they wouldn't message me in the first place if they could actually "read". My advice is, "to read profiles properly" before sending messages etc causes less negative responses. In all fairness alot of guys just sit there sending flirts and template messages to every woman...That really annoys me ...... Simply I can tell by the message received, they have taken the time in reading my profile. Hence responding respectively. Don't tell me I am hot when all you can see is my freaken feet!!!!! lol lol I do disagree with the statement about women being fickle and having mood swings.....ffs....go deal with your moods and come back and be cool, happy and seek out good company. I have found alot of men are hot n cold..Call it fickle ffs.hell I am being very nice!!! Big cock mmmmmmmmmmmm xxx Black fyi, don't put me in the category of fickle or moody, couldn't be happier or more natural. Loath generalisation or stereotyping. ok 10cents worth done lol Next lol!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
No matter how polite you are, no matter how much you try and relate to them, or show that you have proved that you've read their profile.Some people are busy and legitimately forget to reply at a later date after they've first read it.Others are just rude and don't bother to even say no thanks or block you if they're not interested - well fuck these people, they don't deserve me anyway!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Casually_casual wrote: "Some people are busy and legitimately forget to reply at a later date after they've first read it."This this this!I AM SO bad with email. I've been sent on plenty of time management courses but mailbox maintenance just isn't a strong suit of mine. Sometimes I get emails that deserve a considered reply, and I've got no time right then to repy and I'm going back and forth with someone and it doesn't take long before that email deserving pf a reply is on the 2nd page... it might as well be in Siberia.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Men, the smart ones are useless in the bedroom, the dumb as a box of hammers ones are passable however one requires all contact to be mute for fear of slaughtering ones libido. And you think you have it tough!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
And I'll be honest straight up and tell you that I don't think you're my type if that's the case. I will even tell you, if you are outside my preferred age range, to read profiles so you're not wasting messages. WILD and polite
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RHP User
16 years ago
they want honest ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, well thats what they say ?? and a man that can go for as long, slow or as fast as they wish then either go home or cuddle for weeks on end and yeh you have to remember flowers then there are the just because I thought of you cards and text messages and the phone calls that just are to say Hello and the dinere with more flowers and romance dont forget romance they LOVE that ........... get the picture mate ??? NOTHING TO DO WITH BIG DONGERS but if you got one of those and KNOW where and how to use it then you are in with about a fifth of the female population,,, how did I go Ladies just as confused as every other man Andy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Andy you have me all wrong if you give me too much romance babe il think your cheating on me...or worse i hate flowers...waste of money if you ask me dinner well what can i say....i guess i have to eat so nope you have this fat white duck all wrong babe as for a huge donger...well thats only if, like Trish said you know where your putting it roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl'and some cocks are TOO big for me. When I was a paid member and could see the cock pics I would let the guy know that I just wouldn't be able to accomodate. PBG seriously you made me smile so hard it hurt! Brae
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RHP User
16 years ago
You'll never know! :PI dont have my face pic as public just for privacy reasons, but I always open that gallery on initiating contact and save the naughty one for if i'm asked =>
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey Andy........you went outside the square !!! Im not sure if we girls approve of that .....but then again, im rather attracted to a man that stands apart from the crowd........ funny you should mention flowers was just thinking as i opened the front door this afternoon how nice it would have been to find a bouquet of flowers on my doorstep.........must go buy some tomorrow just another old duck to keep Trish company lol miss b
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RHP User
16 years ago
cock picks, crude messages, sex-obsessed men, to be treated like a fuck toy by someone that's never even met me!This might be a 'sex' site in some people's eyes, but members re here for MANY different reasons! If you are here to get sex, then why think you'll be any more or less successful here than you would be at the pub, or anywhere else. It's not like it's on tap, or all you need to do is click your fingers just because you're on RHP.Derrrr :)lilmiss x
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RHP User
16 years ago
i love playing with taps...on..off..on..off...on.............off..on.............off....hehe...the best fun i have is when son is in shower...hehe...turn hot tap on..."Daaaaaaaaaaddddddddddddddddd!!!!"..comes the call from the showerturn tap off...and on...."Daaaaaaaaaaddddddddddddddd..!!!!!." grins...turn tap off....now i'll just turn tap on....*eeekkk!!*...does anyone have advice for what to do when angry son comes out of shower brandishing the metal towel rail which he has just ripped off the wall.....jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
OMG that is what I do...am pissing myself laughing here hahahahaha. Well serves the little brats right for taking 10 minute showers!! Good to see that I am not the only parent that does this hehehehehe! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Big steps.....quickly...in the opposite direction......lol Cheers Nev.......but ya know the pay back is gunna be a bitch next time you have a shower .
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RHP User
16 years ago
you are in the shower and someone flushes the toilet...grrrr...which reminds me...once visited a house owned by a DIY handmyman...heck, when you flushed the toilet the oven dinged...jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for the input girls & guys!! Its very interesting in what i read from your responses...some intelligent ,some sacastic and some not worth the time of day. I FIND IT HARD TO BELIVE HOW MANY OF YOU ATTACK ONE ANOTHER !!! SHAME ON YOU.. THANKS BRAD
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