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Guys your thoughs on strechmark's. please be honest.

October 31 2011

I have an avarage body, some good bits some not so lol but i'm comfortable with how i look for my age except for my strechmarks which i think may put a man off. I know i'll probably get blasted by some of the women but i'm interested to know how you men really feel.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    No one is gonna blast you for feeling insecure about such things....or they shouldnt anyway. The majority of women who have given birth have them and so do many men actually. I have not found one person who has looked down at me for having them. I came by mine honestly....carrrying children and you probably did as well. They dont put a man off at all as they will hasten to tell you. If they did, then that particular male is superficial, immature, self centered and you dont want to be with him anyway.

  • contemplating1

    contemplating1

    14 years ago

    If there is chemistry & spark there.................What marks?   It wouldn't play a determination in "putting me off." And , hell, most here I would imagine have their own "blemishes!"   Ouch! G'Luck & Take care,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i dont mind them what so ever it is what makes you the body changes in life so many ways and you are definatly still sexy with them or with out like the other the bloke said we all have scars well i still think your sexy and it wont put me off one bit

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    then massage them with BIO OIL .. works wonders .. some people are lucky .. even after childbirth ... they stretch marks are so pale they cease to show .. (im glad im one of those lucky one) ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    As much as we would all like to be perfect Where Not As Mature Adults Our bodies have battle wounds of our life We can choose to surgically Improve Or accept our flaws Stretch Marks are Nothing Someone Excepts you the way you are or you say NEXT......Be Confident within & it will Project outwards& thats Very Attractive

  • boots_69

    boots_69

    14 years ago

    Having played contact sport for thirty odd years, I oft joke about having fallen from the ugly tree and hitting most of the branches on the way down.There is only one sort of marking that puts me off, ok maybe two, but I can say very happily that it isn't stretch mark.Don't be worried about them and others won't be either. Cheers Boots

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i have them too, its a part of where we have been, or what we have done. we all have our scars some you can see some you cant. it doesnt put me off, you look beautiful anyway

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Stretch marks ... No I wouldn’t be worried about a woman with stretch marks it’s just part of life. It’s a bit like scars or a man balding It happens so no big deal for me what so

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I also worry a bit what people might think of how I look out of my clothes. I'm a size 10 and haven't had kids, but I used to weigh more and I have stretch marks, as well as a few small but probably noticeable surgical scars on my belly. Guys (but mostly ladies), are those things ok by you?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Thanks guys and ladies :) Iv'e never heard of the Bio Oil thing before might give it a try. To clarify my marks are from pregnancy's as i'm sure most ladies are and ive never really had a problem with them before now until i was chatting to a guy on here and he mentioned that stretchmarks where a big turn off for him so it got me thinking if he was in the minority or if all guys felt that way. Im so glad to see that he was most definately a minority and im not going to give them a second thought from now on lol :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    hi there i am glad you have got some great reponses and thank you for sending me that flirt would love to catch up with you as i live nearby hope to bump into you at carramar shops

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'rombin' i dont mind them what so ever it is what makes you the body changes in life so many ways and you are definatly still sexy with them or with out like the other the bloke said we all have scars well i still think your sexy and it wont put me off one bitOnly way i can think of to contact you, im a guest so i can't message you and im guessing your in the same situation! what a pain!! Don't even know if it will work lol :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Ellablue' Quoting 'rombin' i dont mind them what so ever it is what makes you the body changes in life so many ways and you are definatly still sexy with them or with out like the other the bloke said we all have scars well i still think your sexy and it wont put me off one bitHey, your very welcome :) I sent you a mesage on here, not sure if you seen it. This is kinda frustating that we can only chat here for all to see haha but its the Only way i can think of to contact you, im a guest so i can't message you and im guessing your in the same situation! what a pain!! Don't even know if it will work lol :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Great personality, sexy attitude - who cares about stretch marks. Every body is different and shows ones life journey and every body is sexy in its own way. What attracts me is the attitude and desire to have fun and enjoy the body and/or bodies that you are indulging with and exploring with at the time!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i remember seeing a lady at carramar shops with stretch marks for all to see and she was confident in her self she goes there alot i wonder if she will be there friday as i think she shops there after she drops her kids off at school i think and she has a necklace like yours hope this helps

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I have never had a comment made on my stretchmarks and I have heaps of the damn things since my weight has fluctuated so much. I really don't think the guys notice.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Dont worry ur sweet bootie bout it... Worrying never solves anything, positive thinking does. If you try the Bio Oil and it works.. Great, if you dont get the result ur looking for well F*#K it.. You are what you are so bugga what anyone else thinks.. enjoy yourself...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I think that stretchmarks is something that only you see and doesn't change How sexy you are or feel . As a male we just see sexy And myself personally I wouldn't even notice them . When in the moment of lustful passion nothing else matters

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I have heaps from having 3 kids, but its not something that I've ever been worried about. A man has to accept me as a whole package and I'm happy to say I've not found any who have a problem with them. I don't think my man cares one iota about them and neither should you... <3

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    hey sexy Boots what marks are those that put u off ???/ i will keep it im nine for next time lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'rombin' i remember seeing a lady at carramar shops with stretch marks for all to see and she was confident in her self she goes there alot i wonder if she will be there friday as i think she shops there after she drops her kids off at school i think and she has a necklace like yours hope this helpsHey Rombin, how are you? im not the lady from Carramar, there's no way i'd have my marks on show for all to see lol. Oh btw i shop at lakeside sometimes :P