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Guys who wont pay and are only guests on Rhp.
October 28 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
that its highly likely they are attached, in spite of what their profile states............or just plain miserly......
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RHP User
14 years ago
your rite but some guys cant as there partners will see it on there credit card that he is on this site looking for a lol and that hassel no one wants. if you read his profile( the guest your talking about) and you like it well everybody is happy as you will send you number or email address and take it from there!! hope i dont sound cheap cause im far from it!! i like hotels were you ladys dont pay!!! and i know yous dont complain when we pay for room!! lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
The credit card bill does not state Rhp.....so the wife will not know. Also for us to chat to a guest we have to have messaged them. My point is they are guests and expect us to message them so they dont have to pay.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...that a particular profile piques your interest. Why would you not make the first contact, thereby making irrelevant their non-membership?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Male / Female, you get the same thing on both sides. I like how ppl think they'll get contacted just because ppl like their profiles.. Arrogance and Ignorance at it's finest.
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RHP User
14 years ago
and worried about his partner finding out through his credit card...it is not hard to arrange a prepaid credit card. Ooops that reminds me, my auto renewel is not on and I need to pay for my membership again. Those that are guests and have no pics I use the flirt reply "If you are serious please pay for membership and put up some pictures"
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Quoting 'Angel_dreams' The credit card bill does not state Rhp.....so the wife will not know. The bill will show JETPLACE PTY LTD and if you do a google search for that the first reference which comes up is RHP ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
I find that 8/10 flirts I find are from Guys who are Guests... and guaranteed their flirts are inevitably the ones where they are actually asking for me to send them a message .. i treat these three ways .. 1) If they interest me .. I will send a positive message 3) If they are fair .. I will send a thanks but not my type message giving them a slight chance to explain why im exactly what they are looking for.. 3) If i'm not in the mood for the for the ridiculous (out of age / out of state ) .. then they get a no thanks flirt back ..
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contemplating1
14 years ago
It didn't take long to realise that to be considered more seriously (hmm is that the right word?) I best pay for some membership. Not sure it has helped me any with regards to response, lol, but it allows me the chance to make more postive choices in contacts. One thing I do note is that there seems to be way, way, more guys with payed memberships than girls..... (Though in general there is way more guys than girls)..... But the law of the jungle will always see girls hounded.... Take care,
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RHP User
14 years ago
I Am a guest at the moment as i have just joined,i no my profile is the truth so dont judge us all.Eventually i will become a member but that all comes down to you ladies,we can send a thousand messages but in the end its up to you ladies,ill speak for myself here but im always horny and really like the feel of a womens naked body,im respectful and honest and just want to meet someone.We are all here to be happy so lets do that.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Insomnian, I afree with you 100%, however profiles are the first impression that you get of someone and that's what most people go by. Unfortunately not everyone is able to write a good profile which is a shame, because I think that there are a lot of nice people on adult dating sites that can't seem to meet anyone because no one likes their profile. The only reason that I paid for my membership was to be able to see the guestlist for parties that I decided to attend and to send messages to groups that I am interested in joining. I have not been able to meet anyone so I have decided to attend parties and participate in the forums as a way of meeting people and I am having a ball. I'm glad I paid up. I don't even bother searching for women to meet privately and I will never send another message again to a woman asking for a private meet. I/m having too much fun at parties.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Most contact with women were non-menbers. Not many of them get in the forums either. Not sure if many of the women were just here to get the compliments and ego boost. Sorry self worth validated. Having met someone I've just had my membership expire. About to renew, purely for forum chat. Perhaps a different level of membership (a bit cheaper) for those wanting to support the site, but not seeking all the benefits. A one message a day limit, or some other limited benefit, cheaper cost. If the guys sneaky enough to manage meeting women here without the wife knowing, I'm sure they find a way to pay and not be found. That or perhaps find the balls to be open with the wife about your needs/wants, and don't forget to list yourself as attached. Be fair. Not paying wanting the other to message is not fair, but it not just the guys.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yawn mmm so why is it always the men that should be the paid member? after all this is more of a meat market for women isnt it? aren’t there are just as many women on here that are only guests and not paid members as there are men? I have lost count of the messages sent to women that are only guests that I haven’t had a reply to. Oh and look there are just as many women that don’t have a profile pic as men either wow what a surprise. It is as said many times in various threads up to the individual’s choice whether it be a paid member have profile photos or whatever tickles your fancy. Good luck with finding the sugar daddy nice boobies by the way.
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RHP User
14 years ago
we are here to satisfy fantasy.......and as such dont see why we should be the ones paying for membership, just to contact unpaid members.....to us, you're either not serious, or not genuine.
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RHP User
14 years ago
dont send flirts. I guess some people dont understand this basic concept.
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RHP User
14 years ago
well i pay and i send out msgs but i very not get many come back.maybe i just way to ulgy lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Why am I finding the massive majority of women on here are only guests? If they are really serious about meeting us men shouldnt they pay for a membership like we do? .. Whats your thoughts?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Their is so many dating websites it can become very expensive.... especially if your shy or new to the dating scene.... once youve found someone irreistable.......... youll become a member...... I cant wait till payday.
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RHP User
14 years ago
black_high your definately not ugly mmmmm ;P
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RHP User
14 years ago
In the overall scheme of things, each individual has the freedom to make their own decision on each and every occasion. There is no quota requirement; there is no policy that says a person needs to be a member, needs to respond or anything the like. As individuals, we teach people how to treat us. As individuals, we are responsible for how we feel about a certain state we work ourselves into. To finish, if we as individuals seek approval through others as we are incapable of giving it to ourselves, then we should quite possibly reconsider placing ourselves onto a dating site... P.S. I am not a member and I will determine after more experience whether I even want to play here or not.
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RHP User
14 years ago
But the traffic seems to be heavy on the guys side. I think many women expect the guy to make the first approach and thus be a paid up member. It should work both ways but I suspect that the majority of guests are women. I think the girls should be more upfront and start making the first move.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Why am I finding the massive majority of women on here are only guests? If they are really serious about meeting us men shouldnt they pay for a membership like we do? .. Whats your thoughts? I'm glad I'm one of the Minority
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RHP User
14 years ago
Its because we're not stupid enough to put a price on love and pay for it.Meeting someone shouldn't cost a thing because that cash could be used on you instead of some greedy corporation who wants you to pay up just to meet someone.COME ON LADIES REALLY WAKE UP
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RHP User
14 years ago
And am just looking around very new to all this but to b honest I'm not ganna sine up untill I am sertan that its ganna get me anywere to b honest I have been told that no point because girls never reply anyway so when I think that realy will work I will pay up.. have bin one here for bout 5 weeks and have only had like 4 that have bin replyd flirtation replys and well reckon I have sent oh I dunno heeps of them well enjoy ppl see you out there
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RHP User
14 years ago
We should get Charles back for his opinion on unpaid members
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Innercircle
14 years ago
luckavitch36, might be because you can't spell? And am just looking around very new to all this but to b honest I'm not ganna sine up untill I am sertan that its ganna get me anywere to b honest I have been told that no point because girls never reply anyway so when I think that realy will work I will pay up.. have bin one here for bout 5 weeks and have only had like 4 that have bin replyd flirtation replys and well reckon I have sent oh I dunno heeps of them well enjoy ppl see you out there
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RHP User
14 years ago
Your post assumes this is an exclusively male problem, whereas I find, the opposite is almost always more true. Women don't need to pay for membership, and why should they? But of course, you can't expect a woman to pay for something she could just as easily get for free... could you?
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RHP User
14 years ago
did the 'unpaid guest' membership for a while, as a single, and then as a couple.....its actually a wast of time, and why anyone would argue that its not, is beyond both of us. you get no messages to send, cant chat, and cant see any pics etc.........we get so many flirts from guys with no membership, that we no longer respond.... we are not willing to waste our paid for messages etc on people who cant be bothered to fork out the token amount that the site demands.... i mean, the 'price' of 'fun' is what? less than a half-carton of stubbies? a quarter of a tank of fuel? its a pissy little amount of what really adds up to small change...and its unreasonable to expect people will fall over backwards to meet you, if you cant afford this embarassingly small amount of money. miserly is the word we used......
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RHP User
14 years ago
I find it hard to understand that when I was paid up I was able to chat in the chat rooms. I had some rather fun chats with people but I didnt realise they where actually guests that I was chatting to. Now as I havent paid my membership I can no longer chat. Are these people real or just someone from RHP sitting on the computer enticing people into a false sense of security and misleading the payed up memebers. I can tell you now, friends of mine had told me that these so called guests are chatting in the rooms.????? Fake ??????
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RHP User
14 years ago
As a couple perhaps we can provide a balance on the man vs woman paid vs unpaid debate.First let us start off though by pointing out that Snaglpuss81's view that the money could be spend on the woman is flawed. You are being cheap because unless one of you has a paid membership then you can contact each other and meet to spend the money.We've found that there are generally the same ratio of paid members to unpaid for both sexes, but guys you have to be realistic. Unless you are Brad Pitt and hung like John Holmes, why would a woman respond to a flirt that is generic when there are so many guys out there who have used a message and can be creative in what they are saying?In terms of women with unpaid membership, they understand that they have a numerical advantage and they will be abel to land a pretty good guy in any case.The issue that we've had with guys who are guests is they are generally time wasters. If they can't show they are serious enough to pay for a membership they generally are talkers or can't meet. We think it's shows you are serious about playing if you have paid the fee to talk to people.Happy hunting people.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I pay because I am a pervert and love the pictures Test the waters, and have a good profile with pictures to match. If then you are not getting what you need, then stop the paid membership.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just thought we'd have our say on this topic........ We have been paying members for over a year and a half and just recently we made the decision to not renew our membership. The reason being that although you get a few added bonuses, such as, being able to view r rated pics (& have a good perv), chat in the chatrooms, view attendees of the events page etc etc we found that very few people bothered to return our messages just lately. Many people on this site are just plain rude and when you take the time and effort to write a nice, thoughtful message and got absolutely no response (not even a 'get stuffed') it is very frustrating. We have decided that if people want to meet us then they can message us from now on as we refuse to waste anymore money on rude, ignorant morons (apologies to everyone who does respond either way). Just our opinion and thoughts on this topic for now :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I could not agree more with your comments back4more. Once my membership is up for renewal I have no intentions of renewing it I can think of a lot more things to spend my money on. I am also over the people that cannot be bothered to even reply with a (get stuffed) as I have said before what ever happened to common courtesy if someone says hi have the decency to say hi back even if it is with your middle finger extended.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Good topic, obviously one which lots of people have ideas on. I just wanted add two things;1. I support a previous poster's suggestion that a lower entry level/beginners membership be introduced, giving people a chance to see if it's what they want. Maybe it is time limited (ie 1 week) or maybe it is as suggested option limited, such as 1 message per day. I honestly believe that an option like that would be well supported and would result in more people signing up to the current membership levels.2. To those of you concerned about using a credit card, I was in the same boat ..... but thanks to a fellow RHP forum poster (when I had a different username a while back) I went to Australia Post and bought a rechargeable VISA card. I think from memory it was around $7, and you can recharge it with $50 upwards amounts that you buy from Australia Post also. It's completely separate then from your household finances. Having said all of the above, I rejoined RHP only a week or two ago, and I remember now how frustrating it was to be a guest. I'm on another similar site as a guest, but there are a few more options on there (such as a meet me in the chatroom wink) which helps you make contact. Hoping the good folks at RHP read these and maybe offer some additional options?Thanks for reading and have fun! xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi all, great topic!1. I fully support a previous poster's idea of a new level of membership, maybe as a trial/junior member! It could be time limited (ie 1 week) or more feature limited (ie 1 message per day, no forums etc). If this was available for a greatly reduced cost I think many would convert from that to a regular membership to retain/increase their benefits. I for one definitely would have done in the past.2. I was on this site before as a guest and hated it. I decided to take out a membership but was in the same situation as many, couldn't afford it really, and also definitely couldn't afford for the company name (which is so easily traceable back to RHP) to appear on any bank statements. Someone suggested a prepaid VISA card. They are available from Australia Post, they are I think around $7 to buy and rechargeable, they're completely anonymous and easy to use. Just google Australia Post VISA card and you should find it.So, hoping the good folks of RHP may read this and take on board the suggestion of a "teaser" offer of membership. Sometimes you don't realise how great it is to have a regular membership until you've experienced the freedom of being able to take control of your contacts with messages etc. I'm hating being a guest again now, and if I could afford it I would definitely become a paid member. I'm also on another similar site and they have some other options to contact guest to guest such as a flirt which says "I'll meet you in the chatroom" or similar (their chatroom is free to enter) ....... so I'm kind of feeling more kindly to that site at the moment. But, RHP may come through and help some of us who are not so financial or not so sure about membership to dip our toes in the pool of paid membership! AlwaysDreaming xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
well i'm a paying member, and have had experience of 1 meeting thru the site (which was VERY sexy and enjoyable) but due to my circumstances was cut short. I am divorced single, clean , polite, reasonably experrienced but have recieved very few contacts. maybe i'm uglier that i thought i was, or maybe i'm not putting myself across well enough. a few nuggets of advice would be most appreciated. I am genuinely interested in meeting up, making a few new friends and maybe more......
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RHP User
14 years ago
Could it be that some people dont pay for a membership because of the lack of replies. The men on here out number the woman and it is hard to get a reply from a woman who is getting 100 msgs a day.
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RHP User
14 years ago
really cant see why anyome wouldnt pay...its about the same as a happy meal per week in cost....... kinda sign posts the profile as either a miser, or that of an attached guy, doesnt it?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I just like the forums.I'd be surprised if I picked up a play date here, so guest is fine...I just like you all for the witty banter and good insights.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi,firstly let me say you look stunning.I am a subscriber,what annoys me is that some women will not even answer a flirt or a message, they send a flirt and then disappear very annoying wthat its highly likely they are attached, in spite of what their profile states............or just plain miserly......
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am new to this site also and have not paid for a membership as yet! This is because like someone previously mentioned, if I see a female I think could be fun and interesting to me, or many females I am interested in, I will certainly pay for a membership here!!!I actually will post a photo too very soon!Enjoy and play safe.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Works both ways. I think there are more likely than not just as many ladies whom are guests as guys. Does it really matter?
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RHP User
14 years ago
what a great mix of answers,i find value on both sides,but agree that most women wont answer messages or flirts,also when they send a flirt and recieve a paid message back they just dont answer,so why did they make the first move
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RHP User
14 years ago
no pay no gain
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am not attached/ secure and busybusy. Meeting ladies is difficult in the real world. I don't want to be bluffed in cyberspace
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Goodvintage
14 years ago
Why judge or question other peoples choices...?I would assume that most men and women that hear about the site,would initially peruse it for a period of time and eventually decide whether or not they will join.
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RHP User
14 years ago
i found once agaiin after returning that hardly anyone responds even if its only too say no thanks
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RHP User
14 years ago
I myself am a guest, I simply cannot afford the membership and I feel for others regardless of gender who would like to be full members but just can't. That being said, I myself feel that you be courteous and polite, answer every single message and flirt even if it is to decline interest. No one likes to be held dangling and I find it irritating myself so I get how it would piss other people off as well. When I first joined I had 1000 messages in less than a week and it was difficult to answer everyone but I did as speedily as I could and made mention of it on my profile that I would answer. I've got a reply tonight from a guy saying he was surprised but pleased that I'd answered and "shown my honesty and integrity" not to jerk him around.
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