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Guys too eager

November 22 2020

We have noticed chat is very different between chatting to a guy a couple or a single lady. Couples tend to be more mature and are lovely to chat to as are the women we chat to and meet. Single guys tend to be too keen and very graphic in their conversation. Sometimes over the top. We met one guy for drinks and he was all sexual innuendos. Has anyone else noticed the disparity in chat?

Comments

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    5 years ago

    Definetely do not agree. In my experience couples have been vomitworthy to chat to.... like talking to sex robots incapable of genuine adult conversation. This is something I just dont respond well to. Women I've found to be rather boring to talk to and 9 times outta 10.... 3 messages in drag out the "oh I have a BF who loves fat chicks..." line. Single men are usually devine. I say single loosely as alot are married masquerading as singles. Not all mind you. Some are douchey. But the majority are engaging, genuine and interesting.

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    5 years ago

    Sweetnsensual It takes all sorts to make up this world . I agree some single guys are a little full on . Maybe some couples love it . It cuts to the chase without the ‘time wasting chit chat ‘. We prefer to get to know someone first rather than see the barrage of ...k! Pictures. There is lovely , respectful , patient single men on here too, for that we are grateful. It’s not a generalisation but often we find the young gorgeous single men lacking patience . We also feel it comes down to , what I’ve voiced before .. some men feel because we are on RHP , we are up for anything with anyone . Thats a misconceived idea . Good luck . Ax

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Not in chat, no. I’ve been more off put by couples profiles in chat actually 🤷🏼‍♀️ I think it’s usually the male speaking on behalf of them both but I could be wrong. You’re talking about the RHP chat rooms right? Or are you referring to the chat that goes on in your inbox? Because I find the two to be very different..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    No I haven’t, but I had a few couples (not all) that have been way too pushy - just turned me off! So I end up changing my profile...

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    5 years ago

    Not speaking from experience - but it could be that single guys extremely rarely actually get the chance to chat with anybody, they might get carried away to make an impression. Tall

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    5 years ago

    Every chat is different l find. You'll do yourself a disservice to tar each type with the same brush. It certainly keeps it interesting though. Boils down to personalities and not married, single, desperate or reserved. Individuals it is, same as you and me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Usually if I’m in the chat I’m just waiting for a chance to hang shit on someone.... Or I enter with something ridiculously immature like a burrrrrrp.... I seem to log in only to find there are so much whispering going on that you only get to read half of the conversation....and there’s only one reason in my mind that that occurs.....

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    5 years ago

    Is very interesting, I do believe is good and bad everywhere! And will change according to what are you looking for, and the way you are looking.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    5 years ago

    Nope! I wouldn't be too cocky OP, stating couples are more matured. When in fact there are quite a few smug couples that are indeed UNreal and quite immatured. The ownus and accountability is on each and everyone of us to how we pretray ourselves. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    you're surprised that a single guy was more direct in what he wanted??? are you perhaps new to male psychology??? perhaps do some research before looking, and therein posting - before you click "report' or complain, i for one find the vague shifting boundaries of a chat with a female very ambiguous and confusing....one minute a topic's ok, then one comment later it's totally NOT ok ? While if i was a whiny bitch i would have totally reported you for what you just said. PLS RHP, share the stats of complaints lodged by F, and then M. I've been subjected to some XXXX msg's by F's but that's ok because I'm a M, and don't just hit that " report " button.