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Guys chatting you up and then disappearing ....WTF ???
July 12 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
They are scared married guys,fake,are really 99 not 39,or just very absent mindedx Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
I had just put it down to the guys thinking most females on here would not actually go through with meeting, so when they figure out that you will.......they crap themselves and run for the hills.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can say the same thing aboutsome of you women. You chat and message and then you disappear. You must think you are the only women inthe world. Some of you must also think that because you are women common decency does not apply to you. Hesione, now there's a sour, vinegar tit sattitude.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes I've had similar experiences.. With women. It happens heaps to guys and often they just block the guy for no apparent reason.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cause they're fake.Cause they get off wasting peoples time. Cause they're cheating.Cause they're dog-ass ugly and are using a pretty-boys photo.Cause they're 15 years older than they claim to be.They'll hot-talk it all day but have every excuse in the world not to meet.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Jazz, Well we get the same from your side too so I guess there is two sides to the fence.
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RHP User
13 years ago
or they are just insecure, premature small men who likes to pretend to have a great selfsteem, and they enjoy to let you down because of their own lack of it... met one ... great body.. seems to be nice gentle , caring guy, we walked holding hands in first date , he was pushing to have a relationship after first encounter,put our kids together , start a family ( weird) then suddenly he realized that he diddn't have enough time.... the biggest fake ever....you grow up and learn to recognize the fakes ones after a while....
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RHP User
13 years ago
their doing somone else
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RHP User
13 years ago
I always figure they are the fake or married ones. Don't stress you're better off without them :-) Hugs roxxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
stuck in trafficxxshags
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RHP User
13 years ago
None of the women on this page have chatted to someone...flirted with them...and then somewhere along the line got bored or busy? I know that I have...it takes me a few messages to make up my mind completely if I want to meet someone and sometimes it just doesn't pan out...Could be that I get bored and really don't want to meet them in the end..It could be that our schedules are different and I get bored with the ping pong emails or sms's! Could be a million reasons...Oh and I am not fake nor am I married! Both sexes do it! . If they disappear and then reappear a few weeks/months down the track...Then it is a polite "sorry, I have moved on" message back to them! Why get your knickers in a knot ladies? You all know you are guilty of it too! Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'xshags' stuck in trafficxxshags For three weeks?? On another front - Gents, are you talking about women who have initiated contact with you? Or did you initiate contact with them?
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RHP User
13 years ago
SoulStirriring,had a humour bypass perhaps? And happy with my sattitude,at least I haven't got a wedgy makin' me sooo grumpy x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Apollo thirteen You are right on the mark. We often look to play make all the plans and the BINGO no-show. One wanker after booking a room in the city swapped pics and spoke over the phone. Decided an hour before our drinks meet that he just zipped his cock in his pants ...Mmmm yeah Maybe we should start a thread of " THE BEST EXCUSES WHY I CAN'T MEET ... But to the real men who cum out to play THANK YOU.. Adam n Maz
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow11'their doing somone else I think that might be it...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I too have had this with women even after exchanging numbers they just go cold or do not meet up , I do not hold it against them maybe they area just shy or nervous or maybe it is because i work away so am not around much.I have had this happen and my profile is Verified ( meaning i am who i say i am ) i go on webcam in chat some time as well.I also update my pics and delete the older ones every 6 months or so.Off topic but on Mind Below Something that annoys me is women want an email to be... and this is in there words 'thought through and not just a hello' But i put this to you how many damn e-mails do women get = shit loads and when i first joined this site a few years ago my e-mails were thought through but than when you send so many and do not get replies from many you start to think why am i spending so much time in writing these when bugger all get through and some just fizzle out before a meet?So now if i am interested in some one i just send an email saying Hi my name and that i am interested and like their profile ( because i read it all ) I mean lets be real it's physical attraction first so if they get an e-mail like what they see and get back to me with a reply than i will get much more thoughtful, i know it is off topic but it was just on my mind so thought i would share.Primal
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' Quoting 'xshags' stuck in trafficxxshags For three weeks?? On another front - Gents, are you talking about women who have initiated contact with you? Or did you initiate contact with them? What women here actually Initiate Contact on here ? I have been a member on and off for years and I get more flirts and e- mails from Men, i would have to have a long think to remember a woman that e-mailed me first
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RHP User
13 years ago
I chatted to a few women ,given em my number and had them not use it.I think a lot of guys don't want to seem pushie as we know women don't like that.I usually let the woman make contact as if they like what they see ,they will make an effort.Most women in here must get 10000 messages of guys asking to hook up ,and us guys dont seem to get much mail.Think people are just weird one day we want something ,the next day we see it as to much effort yes im a weirdo
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RHP User
13 years ago
What women here actually Initiate Contact on here ? I have been a member on and off for years and I get more flirts and e- mails from Men, i would have to have a long think to remember a woman that e-mailed me first I do. Pretty good strike rate too. Not just a message - but often I'll send a message in response to a flirt from them because the flirt responses on here suck!
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RHP User
13 years ago
LMFAO @ Wedgy making you so grumpy comment. Haha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' Quoting 'xshags' stuck in trafficxxshags For three weeks?? On another front - Gents, are you talking about women who have initiated contact with you? Or did you initiate contact with them? Women initiate contact ? Oh look a flying pig !Seriously, doesn't happen, they don't have too and I get that.But you can be in what looks like a positive exchange and then nothing or even more bizarre, blocked, mid conversation. Nature of the beast I'm afraid, NEXT !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Had I been sitting on a chair, I would have fallen off it laughing.. :) Funloving soulstirring ogrilp of course there are two sides of every fence... thank fuck we don't live in a 1D world
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RHP User
13 years ago
I do not wait around for opportunity to come knocking....I get busy go round to its house and I kick its door down .....see funny thing is is that We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations
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RHP User
13 years ago
i think the women here have been spoiled , play hard to get or they take to long to think about , and the guys think why bother where all here for the same thing , like the old days go to a bar have a few drinks and the rest is history baby now that was fun ! -)
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RHP User
13 years ago
seriously .. who gives a fuck ...its a sex site your either getting some or your not. Why waste your time worrying about it
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow11' seriously .. who gives a fuck ...its a sex site your either getting some or your not. Why waste your time worrying about it Not worrying about it hon......just asking !!!Obviously some do give a fuck or they wouldn't have posted a response.
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wannabyummymummy
13 years ago
it happens to both sides.I just figure they found someone else and move on.no hard feelings i am pretty sure i am guilty of it too (though i dont ususally initiate the contact)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Shame we have to carry all that baggage into the next opportunity....Must be bloody hard 'work'.
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RHP User
13 years ago
well Jazzy, maybe look at yourself, you sent me your email address so i sent you a message and nothing. good manners start at home, i agree there is a lack of good manners on this site, but good manners are often reciprocated robstyme
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow11'their doing somone else You took the words right out of my mouth! Of course they are,someone more interesting has taken their eye,so they move on. They don't know the person on the otherside of the keyboard,so they don't care. I think the big word here is NEXT! Not saying everyone is doing this,but alot are!
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RHP User
13 years ago
It really does drive you crazy, both sexes clearly do it. What annoys me as much is making the effort to contact someone and hear nothing. I get I am not to everyones tastes but surely I'm not that spooky I don't warrant a reply. I realize guests can't reply but others certainly can. I am not sure what the issue is. Peoples posts make them sound like they bang like a barn door in a cyclone yet almost all I have met through this really cool site are far different to the "promises" made in the profile. Anyhow, goodluck, hope your "strike rate" gets better
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RHP User
13 years ago
it is frustrating ,get chatting show and shown some interest then their gone,so can someone enlighten me.i send a nice message ,get a nice reply and asked what sort of naughty side does a country boy have,now should i reply with what and how id like to do the person in great detail and with diagrams or do i be suttle and reply with a bit of mistery.either way result always the same ,end of chatting and sometimes blocked..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi girls, would love to catch up with one of you sometime 0 living in the country does not help though. And yes I have been stood up before!
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RHP User
13 years ago
works both ways tooo ..........last woman i met got cold feet and disappearded.........mayb it was something i said............or mayb she didnt like me ugly pic lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
But, it is no excuse...i have driven more than a 100 kilometres from home, to be not even given the courtesy of a phone call or text message.We all lead busy and alternative lives to here,shit happens to all of us at sometime or another, some of us maybe lucky enough to have the knowledge,decency, understanding and maturity to let others know what's going on rather than teat them like mushrooms and keep them in the dark and feed them bullshit. Quoting 'oenomaster' Hi girls, would love to catch up with one of you sometime 0 living in the country does not help though. And yes I have been stood up before!
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RHP User
13 years ago
So..... it looks like a lively debate happening here. I can honestly say there looks to be some interesting experiences NOT happening. I can't think of a good reason for not showing without letting the other person know, even if I'm late. However thats not likely as I'm usually early for appointments I even get to work 20mins early. It is true women don't often initiate contact often and yeah its a bit sad that my profile pics actually look like me, thats what alchohol is for ladies, so I don't look too bad thru cocktail goggles. Really hope to get some flames going here kids so poke away.... Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
To be honest yeh I don't personly think the majority of ladies on here would go through with a meet.If one was to want to arrange a meet the last place I would be running to would be the hills...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I decided to use my free message to send to two fellow forum peeps,just hello ,I like your posts etc...and not even a thank you sheesh
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