Guys - Your stance on cuddling or conversation after.

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  Temptress_T

  one month ago

  I am a lot like you, I like the after sensory feel. We have had a mix of experiences, some have been fantastic with laying on the bed and just chatting and the flight touch of the hand or nails over the body and others have been 'sorry got to go" but that has been more due to time restrictions and not the fear of cuddles after.

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  Deetsy

  one month ago

  Probably 95% of the hook ups I’ve had have had great aftercare. Great cuddles and chats between rounds and at the end. No aftercare never gets invited back.

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  RHP User

  one month ago

  Honestly - if it’s good then the hangs are wonderful. Bad sex - gonna shoot and not waste our time. Had a really good bonding and aftercare session in the form of a long shower recently. Relaxed, chatty, ritualistic. It was a beautiful way to drop down in each others company.

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  wantabitoffun

  one month ago

  There are different situations. From Long intimate sessions, the aftercare sensually is an extension of the intimacy. To a quickie , may just be a short cuddle and kiss. The mood , the timing or situation will affect aftercare. I like the aftercare as much as the forplay. Everyone has different sensory desires.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  one month ago

  Aftercare and cuddles, IMO are two very different things. Cuddles are a lovely form of affection. Aftercare is essential especially after intense Play. It’s about checking in, providing reassurance and making sure everyone feels safe, grounded and cared for, once the fun is over. For me, I don't like people overstaying their welcome nor will I overstay. So it's best to get the hint and head out before things get awkard or embarrassing. Not only that I got shit to do. Ms Foxy

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  Gentlemanpulse

  one month ago

  I always like aftercare may be showering, cuddlung, kissing or stroking anything adds to the expereince to remmeber

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  nightingale8

  one month ago

  In a couples swingers setting, cuddling afterward seems a bit much. I’d much rather a saucy shower and a drink and chat together afterward if there were time (if it was good lol). F*ck first, then connect.

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  PartnersnCrime

  one month ago

  For me personally cuddles are to intimate and I leave that part to my hubby only. I do like a nice chat and laughter afterwards. So no cuddling doesn't mean we run away. But cuddles... those are only for people I love. We're all different I guess and there is no such thing as a "norm" I think.

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  Sawadee

  one month ago

  As much as I like the afterglow, it still gets down to the left over energy.. If the chemistries right and the mood relaxed then touching and being touched in unison automatically happens.. However if it's a sex only understanding, both may not want to push the boundaries ' savour the moment and move on..

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  CallMeV

  one month ago

  It depends on connection and dynamics. You can cuddle, talk and be like a sexy sweet hearts after the session with a single girl. With the couple - you are a third person in a private space/relationship. Got to be mindful and read the room perfectly and act accordingly.

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  TheaussieBull88

  one month ago

  Loooove cuddling and chatting after playing. I feel weird if we dont.

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  Hunter6386

  one month ago

  Im a girl commenting but about a guy I’ve met. We an amazing date over the weekend. The sex was fire, but the way he treated me after was what made the whole experience next level. There was a strong connection prior though so I guess that plays into it.

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