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Guilty!!!
April 07 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
Dont care what other people say or do just be happy. And you are a very fortunated couple when u have all this. Great I think thats wonderful.
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RHP User
13 years ago
ok my hand is going up, I think im envious-you do sound like everything has fallen in its place for you, but more power to you! I wouldnt be jealous, but i know people who would be, but for some of us who have daily struggles its difficult sometimes. You are fortunate that all is in its place in your life, and you are enjoying it as you should, but also understand that i think you are in the minority, so some around you may feel a bit out of sorts. I guess keep smiling and be pleasant to those in your life, and let them share some of your love and happiness if and when you can :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
You say you feel "belittled" and "guilty"? That is your emotion .. not theirs! Noone can make you feel anything...but YOU! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Actually if you can step back and look at things other people can provide the circumstance or stimulus that you choose to feel qui;ity over but ultimately it is your choice. You can go for guilt and get all stressed or the better option in my opinion, feel blessed ( being careful not to come across as smug). Enough home spun philosophy now I'll go away and stew in the corner about not being a good enough father,husband, lover grandfather, lover, golf club president , rhp member.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Very guilty indeed! You have gorgeous boobies, and are too far away for us to grope them. It really is quite inconsiderate of you, and you have them on your main pic and everything, just rubbing our noses in it. I mean, really...
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RHP User
13 years ago
85% of your worries aren't worth worrying about, 10% you can't do anything about, that leaves you with only 5% to concentrate on. This would have to be in the 95%, surely.
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RHP User
13 years ago
people are just unhappy with their lives and don't want others to be happy.Enjoy your good fortune,don't worry about what others think or their jealousies. Don't take all that you have for granted,and occasionally give something back,I don't necessarily mean money.....from previous posts I have read of your's Cheeky thereis a thoughtful spiritual dimension to you,don't feel guilty ,celebrate.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Freya beat me to the post - literally ... Enjoy all that you have..........count your blessings (which Im sure you do)............and pay it forward...always put back..(which Im sure you always do as well :) ..) and be content........ Life is random and it can all change in a heartbeat.. and be damned what anyone else thinks.....be true to yourselves and those that you love and care for............it is only their opinions that should matter to you..:)
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Thankyou freya Thankyou everyone too
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RHP User
13 years ago
A lot of people have the tall poppy syndrome. They want what other people are having and belittle them if they can't have it too. They go, they are lucky, their parents are rich, they were born good looking, etc. They attribute it to everything else except the hard work, intelligence and courage people have to make themselves a success. You also get the other extreme. I used to be like that at one time but not anymore. People seem to enjoy being more woeful than others. You think you have it bad, you have no idea what I go through. Rinse and repeat. I am sorry, but if both of us are in a bad state, I'll work at getting out of it rather than brag about it. Mr and Mrs Cheeky. You made your life into what you want it to be. Enjoy the fruits of your labour and know that there are other people who are happy for you and aspire for the same in their own way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
is just another word in the dictionary ... unless it is truly deserved*. You are the only one who judges yourself.*consult 'paintme's' guide to the Universe .... pg 6.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Absolutely what Freya and Shinas said. Enjoy and share the love ;-) KK xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
What's happening is what's happening..How you're going to be about it, is another matter altogether.
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RHP User
13 years ago
in the last 10 years of my life i can Hand on my heart say .. I have never felt guilty. I always will walk my dog before work regardless of the hour I will always get my kids from school, thier mums , from sport whenever !!! I will always help friends in need But i do what i want to do and when i want to do ...with No Guilt
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RHP User
13 years ago
I understand the feeling. I know I have a privileged life, so instead of feeling guilty, I give back to charities and donate time to other causes. I share my thoughts with my friends who are also doing well, that it is their obligation to give back to the community that allowed them to prosper. If everyone had this mindset, the world would be a much brighter place.
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