Guide to Dom/Sub?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  DominaT???? Bare????? Stalky????? Come on kids help this young inexperienced one out!!! Please???? Oh and can some one send me the pics please??? Pretty please? Oh wait ... TC you're not asking for a personal lesson just some information?? Honey dont you know you learn better with a hands on experience Kisses Focus

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  wow, those questions cover a lot of ground! it all depends on the object of your desire, and her experience and particular interests. some sub girls are into being a sexual object for your "use", others to be humiliated, others to be tied up/restrained, others to be trained in orgasm, others... well, you get the picture. my main piece of advice: don't fake it! learn and experiment and only lead the way when it feels right. a good Dom sticks with what he knows and has a good sense of humour. whether sex is D/s or vanilla, it shouldn't stop being fun! a good start is to get into chat with her, ask her lots of questions. happily, subby girls are more likely to open up about their likes and dislikes than your average girl on chat - interrogation could be part of her kink! best of luck :)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  confidence because they know who they are, where they are and what they want. i like to be challenged intellectually...if they cant do that i will never submit. the physical is very important, try things out to find out what you enjoy. fetlife may be a good place to get more information too -nic

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Google S.L.A.V.E. training..........that will tell you how what and when to do stuff.....it will also tell you about the responsibilities of a Dom......the psychological emotional and physical care of your sub that your will be responsible for as a Dom..........and there are training days (ok so they are here in Melbourne ) at Eagle leather and im sure available in other cities as well...........most alternative adult shops will have books as well.......and if your game.....you can pay to be trained in a dungeon as an apprentice to a Dom which will give you some very valuable skills..........mmmmmmmmmm............oh what fun...enjoy

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  Bubbaj

  15 years ago

  i found there are alot of ppl who like to brag how good they are and wen i have seen them in action....they seem to b a dud! lolto me a good dom is someone who respects you for what you want. there are plenty of doms who are out there for there own pleasure and forget about the subs. but i have seen doms who do what the subs like and enjoy it for that reason :)its about the power and control but to me, the subs seem to have it all :P

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