RHP

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Good moans and bad moans.....

February 19 2011

How are we meant to tell the difference if you don't verbalise?Seriously... some lovers think that just because your cock is in their twat that they lose the capacity to speak.... I mean.. it's not as if their throat is also blocked... and then the moaning.... I mean to say.... usually... it is a sign of encouragement.... as in... keep doing whatever it is you're doing... so.. recently... I'm doing just that... it was a simple manuouvre.... legs held high.. I would thrust deeply, slowly and strongly.... hold.... hold.. and release.... pushing on her cervix.... moooooaaannnn... was the response.... release... and do it again... mooooaaaannn.... but then when the wind shifted the curtains... there in the dark of moonlight reflecting off the soft furnishings... I see the hint of grimace.... Now.. I know people pull faces... so I think meah.... but I say... would you like me to go deeper.... to which she says "this position hurts my back".Now... wtf is that??? Speak up... speak up ffs.... why wait until I ask?... I mean to say, how frustrating! ... NEXT!So.. good moans and bad moans..... tell me about your experience.HugsStalky

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    sometimes some positions hurt like hell but we are enjoying them that much we dont want to stop lol...if that makes sense when i went to Sydney a few weeks back... i had been out in the sun waaaay too much a couple of days before and being the gorgeous redhead that i am...i was burnt to buggery laying on my back killed me...but the bloke made me feel so damn good, i really didnt want him to stop so i guess its the whole pleasure and pain thing....do you want the pleasure or will you let the pain get in the way but il let you in on a secret....i hit out if im in more pain than i can handle, so if you get a slap on the forehead or a kick to the jaw, im in pain and you need to stop hahaha roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If you want a moan you gotta make me moan :) Truthfully I think I am pretty quiet at first....testing the waters kinda But when I know I am not going to scare the crap out of him Watch Out xx Oh but if it dont feel good at any stage I will speak up. I think that's what you mean.

  • Bubbaj

    Bubbaj

    15 years ago

    im pretty quiet in general....lol sorry to disappoint!!im shy too so when there is an audience, i hate making sounds and i think that im making funny faces so i try not to show the expressions! next time ill try to b the loudest and proudest there......OH BABY I CANT FEEL A THING SO WOULD U LIKE TO TRY DEEPER?!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    one time, as a young bloke learning the ropes, i was pleasuring a girl with my fingers, (actually- fumbling around in an unsuccessful search for the clit), and far from moaning she asked, "what are you doing?" those exact words, and i will never forget them as long as i live. talk about stepping on a guys balls. more recently i was shaggin away as you do, and the chick was moaning so loudly it kind of hurt my eardrum. but i was willing to put up with the pain.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You what stalky, sometimes I can't speak let alone moan when it feels soooo good. Just before i cum i will be ever so quiet and sometimes for a good while... The longer aim quiet for the better the orgsam. It is not good because unless a guy really knows me once I go very quiet they often think they aren't doing something that feels good so stop and do something else which often does not feel as good. I try to get words or even noise out but nothing comes out. Now I just explain to a guy that if " I am uber quiet you are doing the right thing and don't change it" But when I do cum well that is a different story.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    C'mon stalky haven't you done it? . You've had a long day at work and you're relaxing with your bed partner, getting hot and heavy that night. The tempo increases and just when you're both near the edge of release.... WHAM! you get a cramp in your calf/hammie/butt cheek. Do you stop and say "Time out, time out. I've just gotta stretch this out"? Of course not, you push through and have a great simultaneous climax. Then you try and covertly stretch it out after. If it happens earlier, then suggesting a change of position can offer the opportunity to quickly stretch it out as well. . As for a bj where there's some teeth involved, well you just have to speak up about that. . Oh and Bubbaj. Just grabbing my arse cheeks and pulling them towards you whilst pushing up with your pelvis will be ok. No need to shout. . I know where you're coming from though stalky. It's hard enough to read the body language without also needing an interpreter decoding a woman's moans. However that would've been a LOTE class I'd eagerly have signed up for in school. . Cheers Rusty

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Darlin' if you are hurting me...you can bet your bottom dollar I am gonna say something...loudly, and probably retaliate with a well place right hook.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Damn...here I thought I was going to be able to pop in there and say "good moaning to you too" but seem like this might be a paradox, you know...two gynecologists playing golf together talking about their patients and their patience. | It's your fault, you know. Women want communication and when the moaning started you should have asked "Oh, do you like that" and from the sound of it, she might have screamed out "noooooo" about the time her skyrockets were going off. Bright...but not enough to light up the sky. Communication is a two way street...and the only time I would worry about it is if someone pointed out that I was driving in and out against traffic. | If someone is causing me pain and I don't like it...they will be the second one to know it and I would not be subtle about it at all. "Knock that shit off"...comes to mind? | Just face it...you are not a "sensitive new age guy" so saying "next" is probably much nicer than what you were thinking. | ...I was being kind. I think you invented the "refridgerator light bulb root"...not bright at all!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sorry to disappoint Satlky But this isnt a moaner here I am a down right screamer....keep me quiet??? I suggest a gag...especially if you are doing exactly what you described to me... . But would have to agree with you if she was hurting why not speak up??? There is no need to continue if its not what you enjoy.... . This will come as a surprise to many of you but if I dont like what you are doing then I am going to speak up or politely suggest a different position...there is no need to put up with what you dont enjoy...guys and girls alike need to rememebr we are all there for the sdame reason - to enjoy ourselves and if it isnt something you are enjoying then change to something you will/do or leave...it is only by keeping quiet do people get the misguided idea that they are good in bed when they arent... . Kissesd Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Maybe you were still doing good tho? grimaces are open to interpretation. . I know there have been times when wearing certain outfits that limit one's ability to breathe in certain positions i've still been having fun and haven't quite gotten to the point of needing to change yet when a new position is suggested. Agreeing and admitting that yes, it was getting kinda hard to breathe doesn't mean i was just 'putting up with it' for HIS benefit ;) xx sarah

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Maybe you were still doing good tho? grimaces are open to interpretation. . I know there have been times when wearing certain outfits that limit one's ability to breathe in certain positions i've still been having fun and haven't quite gotten to the point of needing to change yet when a new position is suggested. Agreeing and admitting that yes, it was getting kinda hard to breathe doesn't mean i was just 'putting up with it' for HIS benefit ;) xx sarah Completely agree with this post SarahPersonally im very vocal, but if a position wasnt doing it or in this instance hurting her back if she was shy to say so, its easy- she could have taken control changed the position making it fun and continuing the enjoyment. You cant ask if its working every 2 minutes or how her back is feeling haha you did nothing wrong, id be a bit pissed off too!!