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Good looking older guys..

November 15 2011

Was on a girls night out with work last week and over dinner we started chatting about what it is that attracts us to guys when one of the younger girls pipes up and says how hot she thought my hubby was. Now this girl would be at least 20 years younger and very attractive, not the type of girl I would have thought would even consider a guy much older than herself let alone 20 years..Im not at all insecure so after thanking her for the compliment I asked her what it is that attracted her to him. She went on to say some things, but basically it was looks' body' smile and charisma.. ? This drew in some of the other girls , some who agree'd and other who thought a younger guy was the way to go.. I feel sure most will support the younger guy theory, but who else likes a older man ?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Meeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!! Love older men......always have! Oldest lover was 20 years older than me. Average age is usually 45ish though. Just like the maturity and experience they have.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Harrison Ford 'nuf said!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Even as a teen I was never interested in guys my age..These days though...at 53...70 is a little too old....lol5years or so either side of my age is my happy place..My own personal experience has proven to me that anything younger is only interested in their own satisfaction...pftt!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    My hubby is only 1 yr older than me, and i was a little cautious of meeting men a lot older than me, until i met a guy on here that was 10 yrs older than me, Well he really showed me what i was missing out on, he was a real gentleman and a wonderful lover, full of experiance and he was the one who knew exactly what to do to take me up way past cloud 9, he taught me how to squirt and multi orgasm, i have been out with guys a little younger on a few occasions, but give me a man with experiance that is older any day. Yummy.     Deliteme2

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    meeeeeeeeeeee!! Love them older!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Give me men over 40 hot hard and happy ;) I love older guys , they usually know what to do in bed and are not emotionally connected in any way ( generalizing) Way WAY prefer a hot looking well dressed older guy over any toy boy I know :) Yummy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Having married an older man, whilst in my teens, i'm finding that i now prefer a man without grey hair, so slightly younger is working for me atm, emphasis on slightly - having a 23 year old son rules out the twenty somethings! That said, Sean Connery has always been hot and so is Richard Gere (now unashamedly grey) - but that attraction is probably wrapped up in the million dollar romantic story lines written for them...real life vs fantasy...It's all relative I guess...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I've been VERY LUCKY to have had several lovers in some cases half my age. They have often commented on the 'know what to do' approach and the respect. As a young guy, I fortunately found my 'Mrs. Robinson' who set me on the right track, taught me what to do & more importantly what NOT to do. It's a shame that more of the younger guys don't 'serve an apprenticeship' as it would stand them in good stead. I adore women of any age but especially those younger ones that appreciate an 'older man'. Keep this post tracking all of you as its a fantastic topic! D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Speaking for myself ...its not just Older men ... some of the ladies

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Im notorious for the hotter older man !!! i like women around my age but gosh i always get caught checking out the older man ,,,,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well I have both older by 13 years and younger by 13 years and I must say they are both fantastic in bed and in life. Leesa

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Interesting question... like some mentioned here I prefer 5 years each side of my age, but there can be exceptions - chemistry needs to be there, sometime it's the atmosphere and occasion that leads to having fun with a person one would otherwise not go with... but overall I think the experience is more than age, we each like to both give and take - so the "experience gap" as opposed to age gap could be a problem ;-)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I think your right in having some time to learn the ropes with an older person.   The problem today is that its a big mac culture even in the bedroom. Guys may like the older woman, but they like em one at a time and one different onea day.   The aprentice takes about 20min per lesson :) and starts looking for his pants.   Older men at least linger when they are seducing a woman , a old guy would not get up quickly from a young womans bed....his back would give out :)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    It's not about learning the ropes with an older guy, lets face it most men only mature at 40 we can dispute it as much as we like boys but at 45 my approach to women is completely different to what it was 10 years ago and i find that i'm having a great time with women as young as 25.     A tip fellas!!!! " Listen to what their mouths are saying their vagina can't talk"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Alpha_Bitch' Meeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!! Love older men......always have! Oldest lover was 20 years older than me. Average age is usually 45ish though. Just like the maturity and experience they have. Oh my god yes! so frefreshing to hear that where do I find a lovely younger lady to indulge please?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I actively seek out or probably think of, more the point is the attraction I look for. If I'm attracted to them for whatever reason , it's not because they are younger or older i think it's more certain looks or character traits? I find myself at a hard age sometimes where this is concerned, an awful lot of the men this age and older that I come into contact with shock the hell out of me with the manner in which they've approached their 40's (not so much on RHP as they're more self aware and obviously want to maximise results) but the ones I mentioned above seem to be old before their years, not just in looks but attitude as well. Got a big case of the 'why bothers' I reckon sad to watch. . So....if I had to say what I like is, a younger man with an older attitude or an older man with a younger attitude? Geez I dunno Mrs JJ I can't make a decision lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    However, not too old, they have experience and time to give. They also know how to treat a lady. Although having said that I am not averse to younger men however definitely over 40 thanks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I don't mid a guy a LITTLE older than me but not ALOT older...it does kind of creep me out when people who are old   enough to be my parents crack onto me either on rhp or in real life. The only exception to this rule is if the guy was a dead ringer and I mean DEAD RINGER.... for Pierce Brosnan, George Clooney... or Richard Gere...yummmmm!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Maturity is a high price to pay for experience.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    hi im 43 interested?