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Good at cyber .. bad in real life?

May 24 2010

I am just wondering whether people have noticed that at times there is a big gap between the personality perception you have of someone while talking online and then talking in real life. I am not talking about pictures and stats etc ... that is another story. But I am referring to gauging a person's personaility. From my experience in cyberland ... I have chatted online to women who appear vibrant and fun online ... but quiet and introverted when I meet them. Is it me? I must admit I might also have an online personaility and a real life one ... although I have never been pulled up on it .. who knows. Has anyone has similar experiences? Is there an online personaility people switch on?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It's only a snippet of a person's personality that you see on here. You can't trust that at all. Like everything you need to trust your instincts. The persona you are greeting on here may be imagined or contrived by its creator. When you think about it, even that faked part still tells you something of the person who created it... so in that sense it is the real person. Whoever is behind these avatars I think it's worth looking for the connections even if the person behind them turns out to be different to your expectations. It's the same whoever you meet at any time.. not peculiar to the internet. Ask yourself how many people have you met that turned out to be turds you'd rather forget? Now think abut how easy it is to meet people on here compared to meeting in person and you can see that the numbers probably balance out. hehe Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    yeah i get that all the time i get told im a nicer person on here than i really am in person oh well you get that...least im nice somewhere hehe roxxy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Us forum regulars are real. Week after week you do get to see the real person. You seem to come across as a barrel of laughs. But cross you or challenge the sisterhood watch out. Is this any differant to any woman. Lol. Oh I'm just a wee bit jaded ATM but I'm right. Fab.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    but i think what they mean is....the mail and the crap i get on here i put up with and am nice and reply with thought and politeness....but in the real world i would just tell that person to fuck off and get out of my face so yes your right i am funny, very funny if you ask me.....i will protect those i care about and i yes this is me...its just a nicer version lol roxxy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'geturroxyoff' but i think what they mean is....the mail and the crap i get on here i put up with and am nice and reply with thought and politeness....but in the real world i would just tell that person to fuck off and get out of my face so yes your right i am funny, very funny if you ask me.....i will protect those i care about and i yes this is me...its just a nicer version lol roxxy xxx Roxy you are a wonderful woman. But if you feel like slapping me around a bit, im your bitch.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hahaha i have nothing at all to say there gardener but LMFAO...LOL...HAHAHA roxxy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    my humour doesn't really come across the best in plain old text, you can't see the delivery.On meeting someone where there's no chemistry or spark I do tend to get a bit introverted, I'm not the best at leading a conversation by myself, but can usual figure out if that's going to happen from MSN.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    IM real, even more so in real life, as u get to see, what u cant on a computer! I can assure u all my forem friends are to, as we have met, what i suggest to u is to cum along to melb drinks on friday the 4 june 7.30pm at the union hotel in windsor! see events! All us genuine people attend, its a great fun night a great way to meet like minded people, in a safe enviroment. try it, u might like. Jensta xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Not sure about forum perception but on msn I've been told I can be rather quiet and short with answers. Sometimes that's because I'm looking or doing other stuff at the same time. All you dirty minded freaks, I'm not talking about that, although sometimes....Had a person tell me that irl I'm a much better conversationalist oooh big word, brownie points for the grammer police. Actually it was something more along the lines of you are so quiet on msn and now you can't stop talking...lol. All in a good way of course.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Bitch in person lol.... xFunloving

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Unfortunately i have been the victim of believing someone's personality on the net is real, only to find out in real life that she was the exact opposite. Turned out she had become that addicted to the chat, but just couldn't keep up the portrayal in real life (kind of sad isn't it). But I would bet that most of the friends I have made here are exactly what I think they are like in any situation.Me, I am nearly always told when meeting for someone for the first time that I am exactly what they thought I would be like. Now often that wasn't meant as a compliment, but I always take it as one, just means I am still being myself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Bitch in person lol.... xFunloving i dont see you as a bitch...to me you sound honest and you say whats on your mind thats a good thing in my eyes roxxy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    rhp profile, then i think you are bound to be disappointed...more of their personality shines through *...ahem, excuse me, but pleasin' has just wiped her chocolate covered fingers on my left nipple, so i am momentarily distracted...*now, where was I, ahh yes...as i was saying...chatting via msn, talking on the phone, sexting, reading their posts on the forums...these are all ways to finding out more about someone...so...wishing you a heap of luck...i have met...*...counts on one hand..* a couple of falsely portrayed rhp'ers...and a whole heap of genuine, beautiful and truly wonderful women on here...cheersteasin' and a busy pleasin'...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yup they are not always as they appear ....... LOTS of fakes ...... Big persona's here..... none in real life BUT They are real ....right here ......as real as they want to be , many have nil intention of mixing the two real life and cyber........ Just dont mix the two and it will all pan out fine ! Stay real ??? I think ...... Brae

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'geturroxyoff' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Bitch in person lol.... xFunloving i dont see you as a bitch...to me you sound honest and you say whats on your mind thats a good thing in my eyes roxxy xxx Thank you Roxy...that is the nicest thing someone has said about me in years xox xFunlovingx