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Going down on a woman at her "special" time.

April 07 2011

Hi. I don't know how much response I will get to this, but here goes. I recently met with a potential play mate (male) for some one on one action. We met for drinks and all was going well. Then he told me that he likes to go down on women when they are having their "special time" of the month (that is what he politely called it). This total threw me for a six. Is this something that happens alot or not? I would really like to here from guys who do this to get their opinions on it. Nikrz (f)

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    All i can think of is the Dolmio grin....lol No thanks!Cheers Nev........

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    You know you want me at my horniest...come on baby...let me lead you down the slippery path . Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Nikrz . How is Woomby looking??? must make my way back there again soon (oh so many fond memeories...sigh...) . anyway...count yourself lucky that you met a guy that will play with you at anytime oif the month..most memorable for me was a guy who I told 48hrs in advance of a meeting that i had my cycle (its not regular - yes I know too much information suck it up princesses...lol)..."sure babe no problems, still want to meet you" was the response to only get (after having booked a motel for the weekend and travelled from the goldie to bris for the weekend) "ahhh I want more than what you are offering"...WTF??? needless to say i didnt speak with him again...on the flip side I met a lovely (so I thought - long story) gentleman from WA who loved the exact same thing - women with their cycle - horse for course so they say...enjoy things...I dont know about you I am very horny at that time so if you can get an itch scratched then why not??? . Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    The longer I'm on here the more of a prude I feel!!!!!!To say that on a first date too...pass!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    No not common. I did have a boyfriend many years ago who thought that time of the month was "cute" but even he drew the line.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Its not an everyday occurance, but we all have our kinks so to speak, and lets face it he was honest enough to ask up front. Gotta give him points for that Its really not much different than any other fetish or kink apart from its acceptablility from the masses, it's been ingrained in us to think yuk or ewwwww with certain things and this is one of them. . God imagine having no 'down time' as focus says.........wooohoooooo . A lot of people enjoy period sex (granted mostly with our partners) but he obviously enjoy it one step further thats all. Its more a matter of how comfy do you think you could be with it? . If he ticks all of your other boxes as a playmate why not speak more to him about it, he may not want to come up with Nev's dolmio grin lol, Block your ears boys for a minute ........he may just want you to keep a tampon in and work on the outside, but knowing its there......just guessing but you never know. Ask more and see how you

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    No, Remember we were swinging with a couple, swapped partners oral sex etc. Got up and the lady suggested I showered her period happened during sex. Luckily I didnt go for seconds ....was not red faced, that was close!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Yes, I've heard of it as a special interest before. It's not mine, I did that without knowing once - didn't give her her usual chance to warn me. Coppery, not keen to repeat the experience but it wasn't earthshatteringly awful either. I've also heard about it in the context of BDSM with a dominant woman and submissive man, her forcing him to do it. It's called the sub "earning his red wings". Like a pilot's exam I suppose. Sex, on the other hand, (with a condom) I can and will do!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    A little too kinky for me. I'm wondering if he has a bloody fetish and how else he'd like to get that need met ? Would he turn into a Vampire ? Or maybe slash my wrists while I'm sleeping ? . Sex and foreplay during "that time" is great but I draw the line at receiving oral. . Hugs, Saturn

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Sincere apologies Trishy for ruining your chippies. If only I could make it up to you.Cheers Nev

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Ah No i wouldnt but i wouldnt be totally put off by being asked I would just say No Thanks

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Thank you to those who have given me their opinions. I am going to see if any more people post a comment before I will tell you all what happened after drinks....... Nikrz

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    get to hear the juicy details LOL can i feel a giggle coming on?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Meh... I don't see the appeal. I mean if you want to taste blood while you're going down on someone you could just bite your lip or tongue and have it anytime. . If they bottled it I don't reckon it'd be a big seller.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Unfortunately said ex partner used to be disparaging about her normal and natural bodily functions, she used to say, "I'm gross" when she was bleeding. A very negative choice of words. Then she'd try and disuade me from having anything to do with her, even though we both wanted it badly. A pity, but not the only time she was negative about her own body either. :( So, we could always look at it in that the man who is being very worshipful of that time of the month is being hyper-respectful of the female body!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Ok, here goes. Turns out that I was just a bit more curious than normal as it so happed to be my "special time" and I was and always am so dam horny and sensitive. We did discuss it further and decided that if that is his kink, then so be it......I know I have mine. Anyway, really long story cut short, he made my body do things that it had never experienced before and has seriously released my inner demons. He somehow unlocked an extremely horny person now. Of all times to experience something new and be so relaxed I had completely forgotten about my special time...... I dont know if it was that he made me so comfortable or that I was super sensistive, but I have never been able to squirt.......NOW, I gush. I thank him so much as now I cant get enough....I just have to think about any sexual thoughts and I start throbbing and just have to go somewhere quiet to finish off and if i dont do it daily, I have found that I get very cranky (lol). Anyway, back on topic, lets just say he was a complete gentleman about it and did not attempt to kiss me after, but he did thank me for being open minded. This is one friend I am keeping close to me..... Nikrz

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Geez good on you Nikrz, someone has met their little kinky side way to go xxx