RHP

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Going down on a man

February 09 2022

We've had the Going down on a woman topic, so I thought it would be interesting to raise the converse question. Women, do you like to give them, and men, do you like to receive them? In the other topic it's been said that all men love a BJ, while others said not so much. Personally I usually find passively receiving them to be pretty boring and rather quickly leads to a soft on if I'm not especially in the mood for it. Circumstances and approach can make a difference, like taking it languidly rather than rushing to get you off. But generally I need to be more proactive in order to be aroused. 69 with someone I love or am attracted to and have the right chemistry, and when we're both into it, is at a whole other level though, one of life's peak experiences.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    If it’s fed to me right and he’s enjoying my technique I love it, it’s a huge turn on! If it’s carelessly smashed into my face making it hard to have any technique at all or he expects me to go all night and not stop until he tells me to (lol) I hate it. I guess for me it depends on the chemistry between partners, I can’t imagine ever writing in a profile that I love giving head but it sure can be a good time.

  • BNElooking

    BNElooking

    4 years ago

    I agree re: it can be boring.. but enthusiasm and technique (eye contact, hand work, sloppy🤩) make all the difference (as does the situation/environment😅). A good BJ can be amazing... but a boring one... well I imagine it's the same for either sex😅😅😅

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    4 years ago

    Some girls give amazing BJ s and its pure heaven . But there does appear to be a cut off point when at times you feel its time to move on to other things.. like reciprocating or penetration. Probably because we want to save the ejaculate til a little later. Sorrowful ' l can never cum with a BJ , so maybe its a mental thingb ? Mind you ' l would never say no when its on offer..

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    4 years ago

    A good hook up is where it just flows. No preconceived scripts or expectations.. So many guys are 1 trick pony's. A bit of oral and then get the end wet. Give and thee shall receive again and again. Yes OP, receiving head can be boring unless it's with passion and intent. But it's a 50% partnership. You get what you give. Give with passion and hopefully vice versa. But that's a perfect world. There are so many flakes around it's hard to hit the nail on the head. Flakey men flakey women.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Interesting to note the difference in feedback between the two posts by the way...I wonder why that is....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I love giving it. If the setting is right and I am well matched sexually with a man it's my key to multiple orgasms, and who doesn't love orgasms?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Personally I hate doing it. The smell of cum makes me nearly puke. So needless to say I need N understanding guy.

  • blix_and_queen

    blix_and_queen

    4 years ago

    Don't grab anyones head whilst they are going down on you. Such a turn off, else it is requested of course.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I love giving them and watching them enjoy it! 😈 I ask what kind of head they enjoy, watch their body language and do it with passion. The cock needs to be super clean, trimmed well and hard for me to get into it. If the guy loves it and makes lots of noise or grunts heavy I am in heaven. I go to town especially if they have given me passionate good head beforehand, it’s such a turn on when two play friends are equally into it heaps!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Going down on a man is super hot. I love the the feeling of the cock going to the back of the throat, moving the tongue on the shaft and listening to the moans. The same as I love licking a pussy. The slippery velvety feel of the lips, the erotic feeling on the the toungue the moans love it all. What is no good is when a man tries to thrust hard or push your head down further. I just instantly push them away and stop. It has to be on my terms. Then the feeling when they cum in your mouth is very empowering.