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Give people something to talk about

January 11 2013

We're very appreciative that there are people out there who take time out to msg us. We've chatted with a few people who are engaging and the conversation is easy and fluid.The problem we're finding is 95% of people who msg us don't actually provide us anything to reply to. There are all statements and other than a reply of 'Thanks' there isn't much to reply to.If I like someone or a couple I usually send a general msg saying hi, talk about their profile, then I ask a few questions. I do this because I'm interested in them and I want them to reply.I know in our profile we say "The worst we can do is say no thank you" but to be honest there doesn't seem to be anything to say no to or reply to and it gets so tiring being the one responsible for the conversation, when it's someone else who started it. I know I feel rude if I don't reply but I'm starting to understand why people a lot of people complain about how they don't get a reply.Talk people :) Ask questions. Be engaging.MrsSplicey

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aristippus

13 years ago

Maybe it's a Gen Y thing

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RHP User

13 years ago

I have one person who can be a bit hard to get talking he often forgetws to address the questions I have sent his way.....but on the introduction side of things I too find it implausable Mrs Splicey woe is me is the response from so many men on here and then you get ones like this.....Had a guest check my profile out and send me a flirt. then he was repeatedly checking my profile again........I read his profile and decided to give him an opportunity to contact me as poor guests users only being able to flirt, I sent this message short and sweet....I gather your waiting for me to respond to your flirt? It would be nice if I could see who I was chatting with......and tell me more.....then the response comes back:: lmao no i jst flirted with everyone as i scanned.......efficient practice with good returns :PWTF seriously and then he keeps checking me out I think I should block this waste of time.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Im with you Splicey, i like to know about those that i may.. well be shagging... but if you make no effort from the get go, im not sure what it is you want me to do..... I agree, its disappointing and frustrating to open a message and find 'hi' or 'nice tits' - seriously what is it you want me to say... how do you engage conversation with a start like that? I like to reply to all messages and will play the game and answer the same way you have asked with, 'hi' or 'thanks'.... try and provoke a response... but generally the ensuing messages are one or two words. Its not just Gen Y, it can be across the board and in my opinion it comes back to no effort being made because their pereception is they are on a 'sex site' and a conversation aint necessary.... its a free NSA shag they want.....

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