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Girls, what do you wish guys would do???

May 13 2012

What do you wish your guy, or other partners would do, would do better, would not do??For example; last longer, make you come first (or at all), not refer to their penis in the third person (ie. 'he' likes it) or certain techniques you wish they would use.OK, it's over to you girls.........

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I wish guys would stop using latex condoms! All that wetness disappears in an instant. You will never get a gush out of me using latex.   Non-latex, condoms are the way to go please

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Never hear those four little words ever again"Did you cum yet?".....x Hugs H

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I'd want the bloke to have baked fresh muffins an have them steaming on the bed side table for after orgasm treats..you can cook them in those nifty new silicone trays without fear of them drying out too :-)

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    14 years ago

    The dishes, just joking he alread does.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Ozefun, all the things you mentioned are things I'm sure come up in our needs and wants, but overall for me I want to feel special. I want to be teased and pleased, I want to feel comfortable and relaxed, I want to feel safe and secure.   I like sex to be fairly organic, to flow naturally, and for it to be very much focussed on mutual pleasure.   I do not like selfish lovers, so for me that is a big turn off. If someone tries to shove a cock in my face or press my head down towards it I just feel like walking away (or biting lol!). I also have a personal preference for people who love intimacy, kissing, cuddling, touching, skin on skin contact.   Women are so different to men in many ways. We need our minds to be stimulated as well as our body. Maybe it's that deep biological instinct lol! Is this guy going to be a good carer and provide for me?   Anyway you asked for a wishlist see here's a little one of mine!   * I wish that my lovers see me as a whole entity, not just a set of orifices! * I wish that my lovers would kiss me, hold me, kiss me again, whisper sweet nothings and make me crazy with desire! * I wish that my lovers would listen to my moans and learn what turns me on and in turn I wish they were vocal in their enjoyment and pleasure too * I wish that my lovers would learn the art of saying goodbye so that it just leaves you breathless and wanting more (mmm yes that long lingering kiss) and finally * I wish that my lovers were all pyschic and do what I want when I want it and how I want it dammit lol!   Hope you get some fun answers! Mrs FL xxx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    My muffin pan is purple LRE.You can bake me muffins, any time you like x Hugs H

  • RogueGeek

    RogueGeek

    14 years ago

    I'd like more kissing, and making-out in general. Too many people want to skip straight to the naked part, and don't spend anytime doing anything else :(Cheers,MS

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Hear hear agree with all you said ForeverLovers

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    What I wish men would NOT do... let's just keep it at three for now..   1. Ask me stupid questions like 'Did you cum?' (Seriously, if you couldn't tell...)   2. Expect me to obey instructions like 'Do doggy and then lift your left leg over your head and hook it around your right shoulder while arching your torso upwards at a 30 degree angle.' (I'm not a frigging yoga instructor)   3. Test my gag reflex (How about I shove something that size down YOUR throat sometime and let you see how degrading it feels?)   What I wish men WOULD do?   1. Be psychic     ....Yep. Not going to happen

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Great answers girls. Mrs FL that is so true. Heisone, I guess that's the opposite of "Is it in yet?"

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    1. Chat me up in the supermarket or other daytime public place :)2. Stay hard Cass xxx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    and if I am, just take me, right now, right here.Or maybe just over there where no-one can see.Otherwise, small talk is fine

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Which supermarket......hehe..lol

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I wish they would 1. always smell good and clean :P2. always be hard and ready for more3. exhaust me sexually , I want to raise the white flag ...not been done yet 4. learn to eat pussy like a dripping ripe mango and stop pissing about with tiny little cat licks :P5. kiss like a woman6. not be in SUCH a god damn hurry to put your cock in me .....learn to love foreplay 7. flirt more, touch more, kiss more

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I cant eat enuf pussy n she seems 2b not wanting it as much.. Any tips or advice for me?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris' I wish they would 4. learn to eat pussy like a dripping ripe mango and stop pissing about with tiny little cat licks :P That^ Although shaking their head while they're at it is a bit of a passion-killer. What's up with that? You can save the motorboat for the BOOBS, thanks.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Inbox me

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'multiples_xxx' 1. Chat me up in the supermarket or other daytime public place :)2. Stay hard Cass xxx I'd so chat you up at the supermarket and it would need ice to go soft again.... I'm easy to spot, I place the bananas ends up in the trolley

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    MissCuriousSarah...I know right??..wtf....dont "brrrrr, shake shake brrr' down there, must be on a popular porno somewhere..hahaha

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    ...to respond honestly for fear of never finding another playmate ever again!Lol - just kidding. Seriously, I would like all lovers to turn their 'listening ears' on. The best experiences come from those who are happy to hear (and listen) to feedback and respond accordingly.I'm very lucky thus far...all my lovers have been good at this . Not sure whether that means (a) its a myth that all blokes don't know how to listen or (b) whether I just have excellent taste in men . Answers on a postcard xx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Appologies for length of this post - longest yet i think lolsub heading - Men...  I can't believe so many men are not this way and what you ask for, yes we are all different but not that different i would have thought when it comes to pleasing a woman - nothing what you ask in my eyes or majority of it is out of the normal...seriously...I might be so naive to what other men are like I might try a post in the secret blokes heading thing as to see if most blokes are so opposite to what you want. Either that or pluck up the courage and try a few blokes out myself (don’t think that would happen though, just cant turn my self that way) Sensory_fun - When going on a meet just tell them, or have a few at hand regulars will soon get the vibe ________________________________________________ Hesione - the question should never be asked - are u dating virgins? _______________________________________________ LRE- Got me there mate still learning the art of cooking and will be some time till I get to the desserts of the menu ______________________________________________ ForeverLovers - If I didn't see you as a whole entity, I would not be any where close to your orifices. Kissing - is a pre act of foreplay, only natural to kiss, hold, squeeze, moving up from the neck to the ear and maybe say a few words as passing and letting warm air out easily and gently there on. Moans - Not one for moans my self unless your doing some thing really nice, but I keep searching if a woman is quiet means I may not be quite right in doing what I am doing though gentle guidance with your hands to my head of waist is most appreciative, even a little whisper in my ear, if our heads are so close but I would stop searching for the area if I new by body tensions that I am spot on as some women may just want to lay perfectly still and quiet till the point of no return Goodbye kiss - Nice meaningful kiss goodbye is a definite, if right situation. Psychic - Sorry not psychic but can read body language and look for pressure of one hand or the other or direction the pressure is going as your obviously guiding me to where you want me, so I shall follow. ________________________________________ Ms_Geek - This is only natural if the bloke is only after dipping his wick give him a brothel number they will soon learn its not the norm in real life! (unless the situation warrants quick action (bus, lift, change rooms, dark alley....public area etc). ________________________________________ WarmFuzzieGirl - See ForeverLovers _______________________________________ City_Kitty - Never do I ask such things, one senses these, nor do have I ever asked how it was, again all sensing questions that one should know from the experience. Instructions - Don’t think I would ever give instructions like that but I may gently and graciously try to move you in a different position during our encounter, but would feel pressure build up in your body, legs, arms if it was strenuous on you and ease back 30% so it is comfortable and allow the head room if got a little excited. Gag - Never do I push when a woman is there or force should I day, I may ease forward a little or lift a little, so show I am loving it and wanting you over him if your licking around the tip too long, or as your first engulf it again to show pleasure even a sigh of utter pleasure maybe heard. Psychic - see above ___________________________________________ Op - Ozefun - Not guilty for saying it, was 14 at the time and after the situation I wish I did ask " is it in yet" ( previous post forgot the name of it, but was embarrassing and ruined me for a few years) _________________________________________ Multiples_xxx - I have posted ref supermarket already (though would need a little eye contact, ha and your local supermarket lol). Stay hard - depends on how long, very seldom now after cumming, but if intense it wont be long after fondling for a while before ready again (different when I was in my 20's) if I haven’t cum, then till my body wont go any more if you let me take lead so I can pause here and there, some times better if I do then we fondle and talk sweet nothings for a while and then go again.________________________________________ slinky - Here I am a failure, I see so much so hard for me to distinguish if friendly chat and small talk or yes this is happening and right now, but if you made a slight move to confirm then where ever, however is all in the heat of the situation, may even sneak through the back to the cool room at a supermarket, as said, heat of the moment can make things go to places un-thought of. Just crap at knowing if it is on or not till some thing a bit obvious takes place, sort of same way I never cross the line with a friend, it is for them to come over the line, I will express my feelings and leave it there till you venture over it (the line) but that’s just me and my morals maybe unsure. _______________________________________ sexnfun7777 - maybe cass and I could make up a couple and go have some of that fun in your name!!! _______________________________________ DeliciousCplBris - if going on a meet, I will be showered, and clean I don’t where too much aftershave or deodorant as I like a bit of o natural to come through as well but do scrub well below and then another once over with natural soap just in case the lady has allergies. Hard - I don’t walk the street hard but if the right talk or a bit of foreplay - all good - read for more then do need a bit of encouragement if I have came already, but don’t do this unless I know you have. Exhaust sexually - Would love to give it a go in exhausting you have no idea if I can or not but if you let me have the lead and ease up here and there then I stand a chance maybe. Mangos - Love mangos have a tree in back garden with them don’t eat many as mind wonders and I change tact down there but little pressure on my head or sink into me I know you want it harder and if munching is what you want munching you will get. Kissing - kissing like a woman thought we all kiss the same with emotions, feelings, pressure, and gentleness tongue play all depends on the actual moment but a variety usually. Hurry - Never am in a hurry unless as said above in a public place, I love exploring a females body finding out what she likes or doesn’t the more time spent here hopefully either you have already came before entry, or not long to go from when I do enter. Flirting - love flirting, touching, kissing, just if your a lip biting person, don’t know if I will carry on for as long as I would like to as they may get aching sore - only happened ones before and they was swollen the next day and still very tender, but was not just bitting them but sucking them of my face too. lol ___________________________________________ Now I am sure there are many men like I out there and most of this seems the norm to me, so I don’t see the problem, oh and I have been this way since mid 20's so don’t think it is an age thing either have no idea Oh one last one cant find it now but saw some where a woman doesn't like it if a man talks of him as a second person, well sorry I fail there too as I do, he’s my friend and buddy and brings me great enjoyment, also many times has a mind of his own, so he is Mr Happy, Armour-less Knight, Cossack-less Bishop or just him. (but can depend on situation, in writing maybe but in bed it would be I enjoy that, not he enjoys that) LOL And hope these answers put some thought there, maybe you should guide a little more or whisper the sweet nothings of what pleasures you want, maybe some males just enjoy the pleasure of cumming and don’t seek for these other things but I would say the majority of men are this way

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    wft............didnt think was that long - best take are rest for a week or month - TR where is that trench???

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I KNEW you were going to say that!

  • RogueGeek

    RogueGeek

    14 years ago

    Wow.:oI had to read your profile after that mammoth effort - you gotta love a man who references Greek mythology and Stephen King in the same breath...Cheers,MS

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Heedlesshorseman' Sensory_fun - When going on a meet just tell them, or have a few at hand regulars will soon get the vibe Thank you for your advice. Gee, I never thought of that   SFxx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Thik4u' Inbox me Good name mate.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Just do not move from that spot or change position when I am writhing around and screaming.   Sometimes softly, softly, gently, gently. You will know when and how I want it when it is time for a change of direction.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Hey Warm FuzzieGirl....I am using this forum to say hi and really wish to get to know you better..unfortunately i am also only a Guest member...I am really enjoying the Flirting :).

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I as a Male enjoy the cuddling ,Kissing etc associated with the before and afters of sex...I like taking it slow exploring , rubbing, touching caressing etc...If you take your time with these things you can ( i think ) be somewhat phsycic to your partners/lovers needs ...That goes for both sexes...I dont think you need to moan and squirm etc etc to let them know you are enjoying their attention...Sometimes its a look in their eyes or the closing of their eyes ..a small but faint smile that creeps across their lips...Obviously in a very darkened room these are not possible to see but i believe if you are in tne moment with whom you are with that you can feel/sence what they are seeking and respond appropriately....But thats just my thoughts....:)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Tommy67'Hey Warm FuzzieGirl....I am using this forum to say hi and really wish to get to know you better..unfortunately i am also only a Guest member...I am really enjoying the Flirting :). I like flirting with you to... Sent u an e-mail be looking forward to getting to know u better

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Ha ha Gold :)...wrote back before i saw this :)....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    All my lovers to be unselfish & intuitive...(just like my sexy man *growls*)i love to give in bed & it drives me wild when my lover does the same.Take your time with me...get to know what I like &I will do the same for u