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Girls that ENJOY sex...
January 02 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
i agree with you funloving guys have been doing it for years and so have women but its a little more open now. the person who said this must be from the 18th centery or something. we all have different needs and all need to feel pleasure. you do what makes you happy one life so live it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Some people just ain't nice.What they are doing on a site like this is beyond me. You would think this sort of site would appeal to people who have a more open and experimental view of sex.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I totally agree with you...I embrace my inner slut and I actually find it is men who are more taken aback by it. I have a lot of married girlfriends who live their life vicariously through my adventures, but I have had a number of FBs who seemed threatened by the fact that I see other men...why surely they must be enough to satisfy me!!! I was in a committed relationship for 11 years which is the majority of my adult life...I think I am entitled to sleep with who ever, when ever, how ever and how many times I damn well please ever!
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Tart_Du_Jour
14 years ago
It all depends if we are talking about individuals or society as a whole. Society tells that even though we are supposed to be attractive sex itself is a bad and scary thing. I guess that the idea that women have sexual desires is threatening to some people who still buy into the idea that a decent woman is virtuous and wholesome. Why does this happen? Historically I think it's a way of controlling people. We might think the idea of wearing a scarlet letter in public in this day and day is a ridiculous thing but it is just one example of putting someone in their place.On an individual level I think some people also do this if they are insecure, especially if they lack confidence in their sexuality. Someone who is confident in themselves rarely feels the need to put others down. That said as much as I love having sex and have no issue with anyone else being on this site I am still reluctant to tell people in my life I am on RHP. I really wish it didn't matter but I'm sure some people would have a negative opinion of me just by me being on here.Anyway, I've rambled on enough as it is! I'm pretty sure someone will tell me I'm wrong. I could go on for much longer but I'm sure you all get my drift
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RHP User
14 years ago
Some people end up on sex sites for the same reason tv shows and movies about violent crime are popular - it's a morbid fascination rather than anything to do with desire. Not that there aren't those who enjoy violent media for the wrong reasons but, so long as they fit into a marketable demographic, it's all good... You know - for the bottom line. So, um... Back on topic now... Slut is one of those loaded words, not easy to use in a positive sense and typically trotted out to cause offense and draw attention. Although what I usually notice is not that so-and-so is a slut but that the slut-sayer is in need of a good therapist, friend or companion animal as the wide, wild world of humanity is simply too much for them.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Uptight, sexually repressed women hold us all back. They call us degoratory names as mentioned above. but many liberated women I have had the pleasure to make acquaintance with have reclaimed slut and whore as a badge of honour. Fuck what everyone else thinks, fuck you constipated frigid girls, JUST HAVE SOME FUN and get the sand out of your dormant vaginas. Lil Leelee, slut and whore =P
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think it maybe that by putting down others in that way it distances them from thoughts that they are having. I hate those words, even more so when it is applied to women just because a woman enjoys sex. Why can't women enjoy sex and not be derogatorily labeled.
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RHP User
14 years ago
The people that use those sorts of names are obviously not comfortable with their sexuality. I too love sex and I will jokingly call myself a slut, however I take offence when someone else calls me that word. I am a woman who loves sex, that doesnt make me dirty or anything else. It shows that I am a liberated female who knows what she wants and how to get it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
As you know I rarely comment these days... but here I go..I think it reflects back to society and the catholic thinking that formed part of so much of its early years. Women are supposed to be chastened and demure (and I think there was something also about obedient). We are certainly not supposed to initiate or even really enjoy sex. It is our role as the woman to be there for the man. Of course we know that this is not appropriate nor is it right ! I believe my self to be a sexually liberated woman... the sexual side of me is a very important part of my being ... Yet I often find myself be mentally chastened by the 'upbringing' and the very sexually dead mother that I had and society within which I lived. Thankfully the woman I am now is the stronger voice. Its hypocritical for other woman on here or anywhere else for that matter to comment on anyone else. Don't even get me started on the men. We are who we are .. If you love who you are then you can embrace all that you are.. Those that judge ... hmmm well... why should we bother with them ? why the hell should we worry what they think ? I tend to think what they are doing is transferring themselves into the equation .. their prejudices, their judgements and their insecurities.Embrace your inner sexual goddess whoever she is and whatever she is comfortable with.Sassy xx .
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BUSSOGIRL
14 years ago
no one has the right to put anyone down ,as this is a Adult site ,we are all here for the same thing ,whats wrong with enjoying sex and meeting new people. well i think life to short to care what other people think ,just enjoy being yourself .
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RHP User
14 years ago
Girls I totally agree, embrace who we are!!! I love how powerful I am sexually and there is no way i will be finding excuses for it, or apologising for that matter.I have coped abuse from those in chat male and female, about being a slut and a whore and i just then turn around and ask why they are here? This site is about sex and finding the right sexual fit, god doesnt a girl need to try on a dozen dresses till she finds the right one?? I know I do and it is soooo much fun.To all the Nay sayers out there bugger off I AM A SLUT and I LOVE IT!!!! lmao
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RHP User
14 years ago
We agree with you Sassy. Others view on women who love sex depend on their age (and times they grew up in) and we also think religion plays a part too.We both personally think women have a greater urge for sex as a result of menstruating. Men get horny but women have got the hormones and natural urges during these days and therefor, are only expressing their womanly needs (like that? hehehe).In 20 years from now women are going to be so liberated, uninhibited and free to express themselves it makes us wish we were 2000 models ;) ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I find both your comments interesting. From a males perspective, this is only my own view, and certainly not the male concensis, having many or multiple sexual partners I find it a little "cheap". I don't use the word Slut or Whore, as these are words of Anger to me. I agree with Sassy, that it stems from upbringing, and although mine was not a religious one, it certainly was "old fashioned". We were taught a couple of very valuable things though .. 1) Respect others .. not necessarily their views, but more the person .. 2) Respect yourself .. the person you are. I suppose it is possible to respect yourself, even whilst endulging in many or multiple partners, because that is a perception that comes from within your own mind, ie ... if your okay with it in your own head, then it would be considered an okay thing to do and therefore you'd feel comfortable with it. BUT ... you can't just assume that everyone should accept it as being respectful, either to yourself or others. Having said that, It does take all kinds to make this world what it is, and as long as someone elses behaviour doesn't effect me, then I have no problem with it. Again, I just think it's ... um .. "Cheap" Just saying Cheers girls xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Whores and sluts... they're women who think just like a man right? I'm all for doing what comes naturally, whatever that is, safe and consentual. The rest of it, the groping for high and mighty moral ground, is for people who feel they have to put others down in order that they feel better about themselves, being people of obviously low intellect, given their inability to recognise their own misgivings in that respect. You can pity them or ignore them, these are cognitive options, but you will never persuade them of their obvious errors or enlighten them in the harmonious ways of the natural slut.HugsStalky
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Paradisepair
14 years ago
What Stalky said.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting '44Licker69' From a males perspective, this is only my own view, and certainly not the male concensis, having many or multiple sexual partners I find it a little "cheap". I don't use the word Slut or Whore, as these are words of Anger to me. I agree with Sassy, that it stems from upbringing, and although mine was not a religious one, it certainly was "old fashioned". Again, I just think it's ... um .. "Cheap" Just saying Cheers girls xxx . That there ^^ right there ^^ See, I don't get that, why would you be on a site like this if you regard women as "cheap" if they have multiple partners? You also say that you were brought up in an "Old fashioned" way...well, sorry to tell you but you are 50 now and have your own mind now...you don't have to live under their "rules or beliefs" anymore...I think that is just an excuse! I just don't get why people who are of this mindset are even on here! . It is ok to be here....it is ok to have sex with as many women as you can....but, you still find them "cheap"?....were you expecting to meet a virgin on here? And I suppose you are a "stud" cause you sleep with many? Oh please, go back to the 50's....that thinking does not belong in the 21st Century! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting '44Licker69' From a males perspective, this is only my own view, and certainly not the male concensis, having many or multiple sexual partners I find it a little "cheap". I don't use the word Slut or Whore, as these are words of Anger to me. I agree with Sassy, that it stems from upbringing, and although mine was not a religious one, it certainly was "old fashioned". Again, I just think it's ... um .. "Cheap" Just saying Cheers girls xxx . That there ^^ right there ^^ See, I don't get that, why would you be on a site like this if you regard women as "cheap" if they have multiple partners? You also say that you were brought up in an "Old fashioned" way...well, sorry to tell you but you are 50 now and have your own mind now...you don't have to live under their "rules or beliefs" anymore...I think that is just an excuse! I just don't get why people who are of this mindset are even on here! . It is ok to be here....it is ok to have sex with as many women as you can....but, you still find them "cheap"?....were you expecting to meet a virgin on here? And I suppose you are a "stud" cause you sleep with many? Oh please, go back to the 50's....that thinking does not belong in the 21st Century! xFunlovingxHere here funloving, I read 44licker69's comment and thought... that is exactly what this topic is about... WHY ON EARTH is a woman "CHEAP" just because she loves sex and has a few partners?? Licker you need to get off this site if that is how you feel, cause the girls your looking for ARE NOT here
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RHP User
14 years ago
These terms are usually used by women who are a little bit jealous because they are not getting any. They seem to think that these words do not apply to thier own behaviour and yet thiers is usually worse behaviour than those they condemn. I do know many girls (and women) who bolster thier self esteem by using sex. They feel worthless and having multiple partners makes them feel loved and worthwhile. Many years ago I had the pleasure of meeting a young lady who 'gave' her virginity to a man when she was drunk. She then had so little self worth that she decided as she was already so disgusting she might as well sell her body as no decent man would want her now. That was a result of extremely strict pentacostal upbringing though. There is nothing wrong with being a whore. It puts food on the table, pays the rent or mortgage and also means that many uni students are not dependent on government handouts for thier degrees. It is the oldest profession and in the end we all do what we have to in order to survive. There is nothing wrong with being a slut. I know peole who take being called such as a compliment. It is nobody elses business how many sexual partners we each have. No one has the right to ask and no one has the right to put others down because of thier experiences. l If the behaviour of women is "cheap" because they have multiple partners then what the hell is 44Licker69 doing here? Like a little walk on the cheap side do you? Those lovely women on the vanilla sites that you are chatting up also have a more risque profile on this site. Oh and that demure attractive widow you met down at the Bowlies? She is on here looking as well. l Viva la sexual revolution!
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RHP User
14 years ago
How the hell am i suppose to read your bloody post when i cant take my mind out of the gutter looking at that tongue....Geezuz give a girl a break... the arse was bad enought and now this. Quoting 'stalky' Whores and sluts... they're women who think just like a man right? I'm all for doing what comes naturally, whatever that is, safe and consentual. The rest of it, the groping for high and mighty moral ground, is for people who feel they have to put others down in order that they feel better about themselves, being people of obviously low intellect, given their inability to recognise their own misgivings in that respect. You can pity them or ignore them, these are cognitive options, but you will never persuade them of their obvious errors or enlighten them in the harmonious ways of the natural slut.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
xfunlovingx how dare this fridge call us names we like. Next time you speak to her ask her if she likes cumjunkies.....Licker44 - you just got your arse kicked and ive seen you in the chat room flrting your arse off like a cheap manwhore - just saying yanno Stalky - put that manwhore tongue away will you. l can't get off my chair for l am stuck - though i may be able to slide off any moment now
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm a newby to a lot of this, was told by my ex that I was a slut. Now I know different. We girls are allowed our sexual freedom. Any girl who wants to name us whores or sluts is obviously not on here to satisfy her inner or more open sexual being. Girls like what you like, explore what you want. If its not hurting anyone (including yourself) I say enjoy it smile and relax, I'm past being up tight about it and am enjoying the ride as others have said here...So say I..Viva Le Inner Slut !!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Alex2go'I totally agree with you...I embrace my inner slut and I actually find it is men who are more taken aback by it. I have a lot of married girlfriends who live their life vicariously through my adventures, but I have had a number of FBs who seemed threatened by the fact that I see other men...why surely they must be enough to satisfy me!!! I was in a committed relationship for 11 years which is the majority of my adult life...I think I am entitled to sleep with who ever, when ever, how ever and how many times I damn well please ever! Quoting 'BUSSOGIRL' no one has the right to put anyone down ,as this is a Adult site ,we are all here for the same thing ,whats wrong with enjoying sex and meeting new people. well i think life to short to care what other people think ,just enjoy being yourself . Quoting 'ogrilp400'I think it maybe that by putting down others in that way it distances them from thoughts that they are having. I hate those words, even more so when it is applied to women just because a woman enjoys sex. Why can't women enjoy sex and not be derogatorily labeled.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Alex2go'I totally agree with you...I embrace my inner slut and I actually find it is men who are more taken aback by it. I have a lot of married girlfriends who live their life vicariously through my adventures, but I have had a number of FBs who seemed threatened by the fact that I see other men...why surely they must be enough to satisfy me!!! I was in a committed relationship for 11 years which is the majority of my adult life...I think I am entitled to sleep with who ever, when ever, how ever and how many times I damn well please ever! Quoting 'ogrilp400'I think it maybe that by putting down others in that way it distances them from thoughts that they are having. I hate those words, even more so when it is applied to women just because a woman enjoys sex. Why can't women enjoy sex and not be derogatorily labeled. Quoting 'jakbon'Girls I totally agree, embrace who we are!!! I love how powerful I am sexually and there is no way i will be finding excuses for it, or apologising for that matter. I have coped abuse from those in chat male and female, about being a slut and a whore and i just then turn around and ask why they are here? This site is about sex and finding the right sexual fit, god doesnt a girl need to try on a dozen dresses till she finds the right one?? I know I do and it is soooo much fun. To all the Nay sayers out there bugger off I AM A SLUT and I LOVE IT!!!! lmao
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'lilleelee' Uptight, sexually repressed women hold us all back. They call us degoratory names as mentioned above. but many liberated women I have had the pleasure to make acquaintance with have reclaimed slut and whore as a badge of honour. Fuck what everyone else thinks, fuck you constipated frigid girls, JUST HAVE SOME FUN and get the sand out of your dormant vaginas. Lil Leelee, slut and whore =Pcouldnt not agree more!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Labels, Power, Control ... and denigrating women over the centries has subjected many of our sisters to a horrible life of sexual frustration. Its only in the last 20 or 30 years that we have risen up and embraced our inner sensuality and explored our bodies. Sex is natural and women should not be labeled or boxed in "nice" or "bad" categories.That is complete rubbish and I despise labels like slut, whore, c**t, etal We have every right to sleep with as many people as we wish for it is our own business and as long as there is respect for yourself and the partner(s) THAT YOU CHOOSE TO SHARE YOUR BODY WITH whether its for 30 mins or 30 years, no-one else has any right to name-call especially on a sex site ! Women are total godesses and have an inner power that is very attractive. We give life, nurture and deserve to be respected and worshipped in all our wonderous curvy glory. For without women giving freely of their sensuality the world would be a very poor place indeed.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree with you all and while men on here do use women for sex and then wipe their cock on the curtains on the way out...so do some of us girls use guys to get us off and then squelch our pussies on the carpet on the way out. I have never had a problem with openly sexually girls and used to have a friend that was so sexually open that all the rest of our friends used to talk behind her back on what a "slut" she was! This disappointed me because I feel that a persons sexual openess has nothing to do with the person within! She was kind and funny and the first that all our friends would run to when they were having problems...but yet, they all stabbed her in the back! I got rid of these friends not long after the backstabbing started as I was thinking "wow, what do they say about me behind my back". What upset me the most was the fact that she was a BBW and they were making jokes about men that would have sex with her! She was never hurting me...it was not my body that she was using for sex nor any of my friends...so why does it affect them what she does? Jealousy? Well that is the only conclusion I can come to. . My breasts started growing when I was 7 and by the time I was 10 I was called "slut" so many times purely on the fact that I had breasts and then when I was 14 and they were a DD (I was a skinny kid so they stuck out more)...it was like it was an open invitation to be called all the names under the sun, even though I was not sexually active at all neither had I ever had a boyfriend (Italian parents would've shot him lol)! I am now a GG size and have been for many years and as I am not a large girl they do stick out more. I remember 2 years ago I was shopping at a shopping centre when a girl walked past me and called me a 'slut'...I turned to her and asked her why she called me that as she didn't know me...she then made comment about my breasts and how I had them "hanging out" for all to see...I was in a business suit as I had just finished work and would have been fired had I had them "hanging out"...I just come to the conclusion that she was jealous as I looked down at her breasts and couldnt' see them! Another time I had an elderly woman call me "disgusting" .. she said to her friend as I was passing "why would you get breasts that big" .. I was so hurt and upset that I went up to her and told her that they are real and if she would like a feel! I was furious.......large breasts do not equal "slut"! . In the end I just think that we should all be accepted for what we like and don't like...but if you don't like it...then don't resort to name calling. xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
The very few times a man has dared to call me a slut I've turned around and replied "no, I'm a bitch - a slut would sleep with everyone here including you, whereas I'll sleep with everyone except you!" lol I've lost count along time ago of how many partners I've had, frankly couldn't care less - rather more concerned about how I'm going to pay the rent and afford groceries. How I chose to live my life does not hurt anyone else so I fail to see why society should try to put a derogatory label on me just because I'm not sitting at home alone losing my mind out of sexual frustration. The girl in the chat room probably just needs a good fuck...
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Paradisepair
14 years ago
This thread's got me pondering about the different mentality that might lie here between the singles and couples. I would imagine it's a rare 1/2 of a couple who would project intended slurs onto individuals here based on their sexual choices. Correct me if I'm wrong, We haven't been around very long, nor do we venture into the chat rooms. Just the other day I had a google and stumbled across a men's sporting forum where they were discussion dating sites. One poster specifically mentioned this site and then proceeded to brag about his 'conquests' in what I felt was a derogatory manner. He went on about how to write a profile which would suck the ladies in and again the impression I got was this was in a 'pulling the wool over their eyes' ie: fake nice/disrespectful fashion. It definitely put a bad taste in my mouth.
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RHP User
14 years ago
MMMmmm interesting how there is no real equivalent word for a male slut within the English language unless its made up (Man whore)…..mmm perhaps I could use my exe’s full name…. that would definitely constitute male “slutness” in all its form but apparently that’s not a nice thing to do….. Ah good to see the double standard is alive and well….we women think we are equal in all things and then a man posts this…. From a males perspective, this is only my own view, and certainly not the male concensis, (cant spell) having many or multiple sexual partners I find it a little "cheap". Mmmm…this thinking is sadly alive and well ( and girls we wont be equal until we get equal pay for equal work – but that’s another forum), I do not think 44 Licker is alone with these thoughts Firstly, before I go any further, bravo to all the beautiful women who have posted before me on this forum today. Brilliant observations and comments – all of which I agree with…….embrace your inner slutness, I say……you all go girlfriends and apologize to no-one for your sexuality and sensuality…do what you need to do to bring out your inner “Samantha” – the patron saint of Female Whoreness, fuck who you want, when you want, how you want and enjoy it all and how many you “do” then that would be your business and your business only.……....Just don’t hurt anyone on the way, is all I ask.. What has saddened me is sisters resorting to name calling ….how pathetic, why does our sex feel the need to tear each other down by doing this ? Is this the best you can do ? Name Calling in the sandpit ? Growup and take a long hard look at yourself, and try and justify how these negative comments to your fellow chatters contributed to a better world ? And then pure ignorance by others in society as so stated by Fun lovings second post (nice post FL, thanks for sharing what is ultimately a sad story) god have we really evolved as humans when all we can do is denigrate others, without knowing anything about their circumstances or stories…god how pathetic are we ?...gggrrr But back to Lickers44 comments (and wasn’t he brave to post it !!)…I think many men MAY agree with him I met my former partner of 3 years on this site. We met, originally got together as swing partners, somewhere along the way fell in love, moved in together and did the whole domestic white picket fence thing. However interestingly at times (not always) when fighting over his latest bout of cheating he would say to me…”Yeah well what did you expect (about him cheating) we met on a sex site !!!”...Um hello ?? “Meaning what exactly ?” I would ask, he then told me that surely my standards had lowered or changed because we met on a sex site..oh ok..…does that mean because we met on a sex site, my values of fidelity didn’t count as much – because of where we met ??, He then inferred, that I shouldn’t expect anything different because of our mode of meeting…So if we met at the pub for instance , I was allowed to be more enraged by his cheating but not because I meet him on here????…….and then it was hinted at that, well Id had my fair share of men by having a profile on here prior to our meeting and therefore it was only sex when he cheated on me, so what’s the problem ???, as you can see…44Licker is not the only tosser who thinks what he thinks. Are these purely male thoughts ? So my question is…because we women are on sex sites, exploring our sexuality, turning our fantasies into reality and finding our what makes out us tick sexually or god forbid we are just out banging every Tom Dick and Harry and having a riot of a time, are men viewing us differently ? Are we all “bad” gals who they are happy to play with and yet toss aside when it suits them to settle down with a “good” woman who they will find on that harmonious site ??? Do they think because of our sexual prowess we aren’t good enough to have a relationship with now, that the game is indeed different now ? …..all very Carrie Bradshaw isn’t it ?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I like words which are used to put people in their place. Love the word slut, usually proceeded by filthy and little, whispered into your ear a moment before I pin you down by the back of the neck with my teeth. Don't really like the word whore, as it kinda denotes (pardon pun) me parting with my hard-earned, but I'll do it for shits and giggles if the woman supplies the cash. Spank, slap, choke and refrigerator are also useful words.RA
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Chasing_Midnite'It all depends if we are talking about individuals or society as a whole. Society tells that even though we are supposed to be attractive sex itself is a bad and scary thing. I guess that the idea that women have sexual desires is threatening to some people who still buy into the idea that a decent woman is virtuous and wholesome. Why does this happen? Historically I think it's a way of controlling people. We might think the idea of wearing a scarlet letter in public in this day and day is a ridiculous thing but it is just one example of putting someone in their place. On an individual level I think some people also do this if they are insecure, especially if they lack confidence in their sexuality. Someone who is confident in themselves rarely feels the need to put others down. That said as much as I love having sex and have no issue with anyone else being on this site I am still reluctant to tell people in my life I am on RHP. I really wish it didn't matter but I'm sure some people would have a negative opinion of me just by me being on here. Anyway, I've rambled on enough as it is! I'm pretty sure someone will tell me I'm wrong. I could go on for much longer but I'm sure you all get my drift Well said CM. But of course it leads to the question of why do people have to put others down at all, not just for the sex prowess. Comedians are very guilty of this and there are several who I won't name that absolutely irritate me the way they put others down. Not comedy in my opinion.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'sassyme'As you know I rarely comment these days... but here I go.. Sassy xx . As a relative new comer here, I say please start commenting again Sassy.
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RHP User
14 years ago
While we all haveour opinions perhaps it's time to look up a "scientific" report - there is a book titled "Ethical Slut", look it up on my profile where I listed it under Books
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RHP User
14 years ago
Although the ultimate origin of slut is unknown, it first appeared in Middle English in 1402 as slutte (AHD), with the meaning "a dirty, untidy, or slovenly woman."<2> Even earlier, Geoffrey Chaucer used the word sluttish (c.1386) to describe a slovenly man; however, later uses appear almost exclusively associated with women.<2> The modern sense of "a sexually promiscuous woman" dates to at least 1450.<2>Another early meaning was "kitchen maid or drudge" (c. 1450), a meaning retained as late as the 18th century, when hard knots of dough found in bread were referred to as "slut's pennies."<2> A notable example of this use is Samuel Pepys's diary description of his servant girl as "an admirable slut" who "pleases us mightily, doing more service than both the others and deserves wages better" (February 1664). In the 19th century, the word was used as a euphemism in place of "bitch" in the sense of a female dog.<2><3>Similar words appear in Dutch, German and Swedish dialects meaning "a dirty woman," indicating a common ancestor in Germanic languages. The word entered the colloquial Yiddishas "akhsluttishkha" meaning "a hag". It exists in Ukrainian too as slutyj as a loan word from Yiddish or via the mediaeval Scandinavian Varangian colonists in Kievan Rus'. A popular theory connects slut to earlier Germanic forms meaning "slush" or "mud puddle," but this derivation remains in question.been married to one for 25 years LOVE itxooxo
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RHP User
14 years ago
I never compared anyone on the site to anything.I never said whores shouldn't be treated well, neither did I say that about sluts. I stated in my opinion it seems dumb to be a slut (i.e. fucking successions of men) when you could be a whore instead and be remunerated for the doing what you enjoy.I expressed that personally I don't enjoy being treated like a whore, (i.e. 'fuckpointment' sex).I attached no negative connotation to the word slut nor whore, fun chose to apply meaning to that herself.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We're either a slut or a frigid bitch. Make up your fucking mind cunt!
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RHP User
14 years ago
firstly, Like I said earlier, I have have no problem with anyone elses Sexual behaviour as long as it doesn't effect me personally. It's their body to do with as they see fit, and good on them I say for having the guts to do whatever they do. My point was, that most people have different views on the subject (unless you are a sheep, or dumb arse enough to just follow Trends) I also said " I wasn't on here looking to score / have sex with as many people as I can, and no, I'm not expecting to find a virgin on here .. lmao I'm on this site for a couple of reasons 1. If you don't take it too seriously, this is beter than any television comedy show 2. It's an interesting social community, that I enjoy interacting with (Farking Lag aside) The other point I would like to clear up is that I certainly do not regard ALL women as being cheap, I in fact Respect women, unlike many others. I'm thinking that about 95% of people on here, are NOT who they say they are, but are portraying a fantasy in their own mind. Yes there may be a few who have actually done everything they say they have, but they are certainly in the 5% bracket. Bugga ... This is getting Toooooo serious .... lmao hahaha ello inspirit xx Yep, I don't mind having my arse kicked ... pmsl ... or having a flirt, but you'll very rarely, if ever, see be degrade a female hun. They are precious beings and us dumb arse males need to be kept in line yanno Now .. where was I ? .. Oh yer, on my way back to the 60's
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RHP User
14 years ago
Oh My God ... women love Sex !!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just passing by...and having a look to see if much has changed. | Quoting 'Chasing_Midnite' Anyway, I've rambled on enough as it is! I'm pretty sure someone will tell me I'm wrong. I could go on for much longer but I'm sure you all get my drift | Now if I can talk the mods into letting me remove the damn _ from my name, life will be good and I may even sign on as a member again. | ......or not, but you never know.
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RHP User
14 years ago
fruck man.....you been hiding under a rock lately or haing out with a fridge :p
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RHP User
14 years ago
We didnt' think it would be long before you stuck your head in here again. You know i think you left your name unclaimed for a while and now it's been taken, not sure you're entitled to it back.
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playfulminx
14 years ago
Some women are 'whores' and have sex for money (more power to them). Some women are 'sluts' and have sex for the sheer pleasure of it (woo hoo!) :) Some women are trolls and well... I doubt they have any sort of satisfying sex :|
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RHP User
14 years ago
I never imagined being on a site like this, I found it by accident and explored with pleasure. I am often upset by the males on here who look down on the women of this site as lower life as if women who look for sex deserve to be used. I may have even had an attitude like this is the past but I am so glad I have grown and learnt and am willing to learn more. I have been on regular dating sites though and I must admit the men there are far more forward and crass and I prefer the guys here who have learnt it takes time and manners to bed a woman.Only recently I had thought to myself that when I decided to get into a serious relationship I would have to change this new found slut? openly sexual woman. and then on digressing I realised I shoudlnt have to because she had been hidden within for years only now allowed out and I like her. I dont know if there are strong enough men out there to take her though.I am a single woman and so who I sleep with is not really an issue and I am learning and always reading on couples who swing as I find that fascinating.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I loved what you had to say lol...and I agree...more power to them! Although I don't know what a "troll" is....surely you wouldn't have sex unless you "thought" you were going to get satisfaction out of it? May not always work that way...but nothing you can do when the other person is a dud lol. xFunlovingx
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hunter45
14 years ago
Quoting 'jakbon' Girls I totally agree, embrace who we are!!! I love how powerful I am sexually and there is no way i will be finding excuses for it, or apologising for that matter.I have coped abuse from those in chat male and female, about being a slut and a whore and i just then turn around and ask why they are here? This site is about sex and finding the right sexual fit, god doesnt a girl need to try on a dozen dresses till she finds the right one?? I know I do and it is soooo much fun.To all the Nay sayers out there bugger off I AM A SLUT and I LOVE IT!!!! lmao
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well guess what boys & vanilla girls WOMEN LOVE SEX and we should not be condemned for enjoying it. Be it with one person for our whole life (god how boring!) or with multiple people. Why is it such a "crime" "sin" for a woman to do what she enjoys? We have our inner slut and we like to let her out every now and again. SO FRICKEN WHAT! Men have been doing it for years and now it's our turn to be living it up, laying down or in the back of a car. No one has the right to judge anyone else for how they conduct their lives. It's not like we are hurting anyone. Judgmental people can go jump as far as I am concerned.I've kept my inner slut hidden for years, now she's out I don't want to put her back. She's way to much fun and I am finally living and loving my life :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
...and are neither sluts, tramps or tarts because of it. It's only the ones that charge you for it that are in that league. | Howdy gorgeous girl...just here looking around a bit and think I might be able to chase up midnight sans the _ again if I ask nicely. | I am a good boy, you know.
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RHP User
14 years ago
jealousy is a horrible thing.... and we all have seen evidence of it at some point in our lives...tho most of us left it behind, in primary school.... calling some one a 'slut', or a 'skank' or a 'cheesy yeast-infected crack whore' is something we thought we'd grown too old for...but since coming here to this site, my wifes been called these names....and worse... by people we dont know and will never meet.... so a woman calling others 'slut' and 'whore' in a chat room surprises neither of us. as people, regardless of age, just dont know how to behave..... and unfortunately the internet makes this all more possible, as it offers a facade of anonymity........bullies are bullies wherever you go...and name calling is their easiest and often nastiest tool.......
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Goodvintage
14 years ago
People that are genuine and know their desires and sexual needs don't judge or label. They are beyond the miniscule minds of people that do. I love sex and am not on here for any other reason other then to explore, enjoy and experience more sexual pleasures with the right people. Choices are individual and not prohibited. The people who judge unfortunately were not clever enough to become judges! A lady with sexual confidence oozes sensuality...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have yet to be caught nor caught anything contagious...or at least not easily treatable with penicillin and a tequila chaser on the beaches of Central America. | I see you are still sitting on that block of soap...and perhaps you should tell these fine folks that it is actually a rather large soap statue of Roger Rabbit? Never the less, you are still on my top 100 or so list of the more beautiful and sensual women on this site. You might make the top 50 once you remove the statue...but you would definitely be one of those women that enjoys sex, no? | It's really us men that don't enjoy sex, but the hot chicks seem to like it and for those 10 to 15 minutes a day that we are compelled to submit to your more carnal needs...it is a pleasant break from being incessantly harassed and teased mercilessly. | Just curious...have the ears melted down on Roger yet?
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hubbahubba01
14 years ago
I love topics like this, since they lead so many biases out of the undergrowth to play... but also in good way! xFunlovingx, its a great post, and if leads to a more open championing of women with appetites (for others, their bodies, for pleasure and life) well done.For my part, there's nothing better than to meet a woman who has one (appetite, in all its forms) and isn't afraid to acknowledge it. Life is short, live honestly and well. The alternative seems pretty pointless in comparison...
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RHP User
14 years ago
All valid comments, but, like many others, I would like to know what the hell people are doing on this site if they object to its purpose?People whom are sexually liberated, or hope to be, come to this site, and it also serves those who are wanting new experiences and/or uncertain about their sexuality. However, being on this site doesn't automatically mean that members are having a multitude of partners, and if they are, so be it. Each to their own, hey? It is a safe place to release, or find, your inner slut. Try it prudent people.....or get off this site and go to the parish luncheon to find the partner you so seek. Joke, they're worse than any of us on this site!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
"Slut" and "whore" are just labels. Some people really despise them - and fair enough; if what they represent offends them. Others embrace it (and use them during dirty talk!). Yes, there are double standards out there - there always will be. But that doesn't mean it's universal. I, for one, can't help grinning at all the comments made where people have tried to define a slut or a whore... and can't help thinking "man, I'd love to meet these girls!". I have never wanted someone demure and quiet, and "well behaved" in the traditional sense. I couldn't be more bored! Not only do I look for an equal... but someone to challenge me to become MORE adventurous than I already am! I don't care about people's pasts... how many partners they've had; or what some might think this says about their "morals". What I care about is their morals in terms of respect; trust and understanding. Every couple I've ever met have rules as to what behaviour is allowed with others, and what isn't - from "you can't even look at another person" to "you can play with someone else alone, just be open and let me know about it". It doesn't matter where that line is - as long as there is always repect; trust and understanding. That's the thing that matters to me. And those that have "old fashioned values"? Well, they're welcome to their opinions as well, as far as I'm concerned. I'm not saying my opinions are right, or better. If someone thinks women should only have sex once they're married... good on them. If they judge other people by this - it's fine by me; because I wouldn't choose to be friends with them anyway. I only get worried when anyone starts trying to force their opinions on others... and attacking people on a website like this; calling them whores and sluts; is pretty close to doing that...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have had a long career and yet to be caught...except for that one time trying to fly across the Mexican border which taught me two life lessons. One, never smoke what is in the cargo hold before taking off...and two, if you "borrow" a light aircraft be sure the fuel gauge is not faulty. | I see you are still sitting on what appears to be a bar of soap? I am still betting that it is really a rather large soap statue of Roger Rabbit. Surely at least his ears must have melted by now as you being amongst those women that truly enjoy sex all that wiggling would have put poor Roger into melt down. | Play nice. You would look ridiculous walking a toad on a leash in the park.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I really don't see that this word ahs any real meaning. It's used by women to put other women down if they don't approve/re threatened by their approach to sex and sexuality, and it's used by men mostly to describe women who won't have sex with them or to put down a woman who finds it easier to get sexual partners than they do. It's a classic versatile but empty insult.
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RHP User
14 years ago
As we are still on the subject of woman who embrace their sexuality. XS i understand what you are saying and xxfunlovingxx l see how it may of been taken out of context in the chatroom. Heaven forbid l myself have taken things out of context in txt messages as well as in the chat room. However you have raised and interesting topic xxFunlovingxx on peoples perceptions of the written language. In particular how easy it is for people in general to take name calling personally. l ask the question is a slut a slut or is their varying degrees. ie:Dirty SlutPromiscuous SlutFilrthy SlutCrackwhore SlutTarty SlutBondage SlutAnal SlutSexy SlutSultry SlutWhoring SlutFat SlutSkinny SlutSkanky SlutetcAND when some one calls you a "SLUT" would you say it depends on where in their intention as to where it is coming from. If a freind or anyone for that matter calls me a slut with no anger behind it - l laugh and say "thankyou for the compliment". If however they call me "SLUT" with anger behind it then it is taken in a different context and l am not thrilled though l try not to buy into it......How l see it is if people want to call me names they are the ones with the problem. Just recently a woman txt a mutual friend some unpleasantries which were her description of me. Obviously she was trying to put him off as she herself wanted him and wanted to "own him". Ah yes the raving politics of RHP struck me this time and looks like they are there to stay. Sorry l am not so buying into that shit.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Taken out of context? Ask the other 98 ppl that were there at the time! You can't take out of context when the guys get abused for looking at a cam (don't have the bloody thing on then) and guys being called "liars" and "cheats" and then the girls being "sluts" for "falling" for their words! Come on Inspirit..thought you were smarter than that. Sorry, no more tip toeing through the tulips for me! Mental illness or not...there is no excuse at all for being abusive to anyone! And funny how this person has apologised to others for calling women 'sluts', but won't do it here in the Forum! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
whoops i was just referring to what XS wrote here in the forum. Looks like l took it out of context - bugger. l was not in the room that day and only saw what l have read on here. l agree entirely about the cam's and the name calling and why have it on of people can't watch - why even cam if your going to resort to abusing people for watching. For that matter why block as well. The room is such a touchy feelie place and some peoples lives revolve around it becuase it is their life. In agreeance it is a sex site and we are all here for the same thing or is it some are here just for thier EGO. l apologise if l have offended you xxfunlovingxx it was never intended. SPANK ME
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RHP User
14 years ago
Inspirit, that will be 20 lashes for you! I know if I do more than that you might just enjoy it too much! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
So lickers your post indicates you like and respect liars as in 95% of profiles are inaccurate according to you and the 5% of profiles that are accuate portrayals of the persons' sexual antics indicates they are flawed people with suspect morals or personal values. My take is the people on here are looking for some honesty as well as sex. They certainly deserve respect and the use of derogatory terms like "slut" not only "cheapens" your opinion but makes me suspect your value judgments. I reckon the world needs more "sluts" as they are more honest in how they go about their life than I suspect you are. I live andvalue women who appreciate their desire for sex in all its forms. miketheduc
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RHP User
14 years ago
funloving, the girl that said that was probably bitter cos shes not getting any... but, dont change, because we love you...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Im here for the sex, im not looking for any kind of relationship,im already in one, have been married to a wonderful man for 28 years.. my high sex drive is a turn on for him so i have permission to 'live the dream' lol. Although i have made many many friends in the time i have been here. I dont consider myself a slut or a whore I dont like being spoken to like im trash and i dont like being bombarded with pictures of guys cocks im just a matures sexy woman who knows what she likes, I am the proverbial Lady in public and animal in the bedroom, i dont dress slutty, i wear lingerie when i have sex.. my naked body is for my man only.Anyone (especially another female) who refers to ppl like me (us ) as sluts need to losen up a bit and get with the times, This is after all an adult dating site which means that 95% of the ppl,,men, women and couples are here looking for sex. There are plenty of other sites for the likes of those looking for something more, but if they prefer it here then they need to suck up their insecurities and let the rest of us enjoy our sexual freedom. Tasti
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RHP User
14 years ago
We're in control here and we need to stop judging each other for our own life choices that don't even impact on anyone else.What does it matter if a woman likes a lot of sex? What does it matter if a woman doesn't like sex at all? What does it matter if she wears leopard print short dresses or business suits or muu muus? It doesn't matter.So, when people use language that derides others in front of you, don't just laugh it off, pull them up on it. Seriously. It also helps with your own negative thoughts about others. It's hard work. I fail at it a lot. I think however it's worth it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I guess it shows how narrow minded people can be We are supposedly modern and liberated and they can't get their head around it, so they call people names. Probably a defense mechanism that they feel threatened. I for one would be happy to be a FB to these women regardless of what others think.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Most of us are comfortable with our own bodies, so maybe those "name callers" are either unconfortable with theirs or are still in the last century coming to terms with the number of liberated women now going and getting what they want sexually - god luv 'em. Truth be known, those 'name callers' are probably sexually frustrated and want to dive in, but are a bit scared to put their toe in the water, let alone dive in, so revert to cutting others down. We are all on this planet only once and if we don't tread on anyone elses toes and there are 2 or more consenting people, then I'd suggest those name callers either keep going to church or get their fingers wet. As someone who still opens the car door for a female, I wouldn't call a her a slut in public, but I may do in the bedroom.
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missangelina
14 years ago
Great reading especially Stalky's response - "Whores and sluts... they're women who think just like a man right? "Licker44 appears to be incredibly hypocritical.Long live all the sluts and whores!!!!!!!!!!!!In the early matriarchal religions, man used to worship the goddess/es by having sex with their earthly manifestation - the women priestesses in the temples - if he was allowed to. The more men a priestess had sex with the closer she was to the goddess/es. Being a slut was seen a good thing. lol A very different view of sexuality!Angelina
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RHP User
14 years ago
There is nothing wrong with loving sex if your single ;) it's good to have a healthy sex life x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lolz, too right! There's nothing wrong with loving sex if you're NOT single as well. More's the pity that so many people are saving it for a special occasion. What's that about? Self denial? I'd rather belt myself over the head with a plank of wood! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
I wasn't in the chat room and have read all the comments on this thread from people who were, and am glad that you made a reply however, your clarification confused me somewhat but also gave me more insight as to why your comments offended people.Quoting XS: Clarification... I never compared anyone on the site to anything.Do you mean you didn't refer to a specific person on this site or do you mean you didn't generalise about all people on this site? Given RHP is an adult 'dating' site which accommodates and enables various 'wants and desires' of people (quoting RHP "Whether you are looking for free sex or adult personals RedHotPie will help you find friends, romance & relationships.") and the chat room contained members who openly and proudly state they fit your stated definition of a slut ('fucking successions of men'), I would of thought it was obvious that some in the chat room would of considered you were 'comparing' them.I never said whores shouldn't be treated well, neither did I say that about sluts.I stated in my opinion it seems dumb to be a slut (i.e. fucking successions of men) when you could be a whore instead and be remunerated for the doing what you enjoy.See this is where I see the negative connotation of your comments. You have classified women who enjoy sexual encounters with many men as 'dumb', based on the fact that they aren't charging the man for those encounters. You are totally ignoring and dismissing the possibility that these women ARE remunerated for what they do, with pleasure, satisfaction, relaxation, enjoyment or any other personal intrinsic motivation. Instead, you question their intelligence for not conducting these sexual encounters as a business transaction.Examples of 'my' clarification...I love spending time with my children, especially when we all get our creative mojo on with artistic projects. Doesn't mean I want to be a childcare worker or a kindy teacher.I love gardening. Doesn't mean I want to be a landscaper.I love getting creative in the kitchen. Doesn't mean I want to be a chef.I love my coffee, multiple times a day, and I always order the largest size take-away they have. Doesn't mean I want to be a barista or open a Muzz Buzz.All of my above examples, are activities/things that bring me happiness, pleasure, peace, enjoyment and occasionally a huge kick-arse buzz (especially when the new barista accidentally gives me a triple-shot! ;p). My motivation for the above has nothing to do with monetary gain. These are my special moments, no matter how little or great I indulge in them, I would hate for any of them to feel like a "job" or chore.I expressed that personally I don't enjoy being treated like a whore, (i.e. 'fuckpointment' sex).Totally agree with you, neither do I!Imagine - I am in the middle of a fun art project with the kids and look at my watch "damn! Mummy has to go, I have a 3pm BJ fuckpointment followed by a 4pm fuckpointment... not sure what he wants, guess I will find out at 4pm. *shrugs* gotta pay for all that non-toxic art stuff somehow!" Now this is not a sledge at prostitutes, and I can guarantee you that some would of experienced the above example - just like the rest of the working population regardless of what profession they chose. Who hasn't thought "damn, I have to get going now or I am going to be late for work" even though they would much prefer to continue whatever it was they were doing (sleeping in, painting, having sex.. ;p) Work brings the money in, not necessarily the pleasure or enjoyment (power to those who ALWAYS get both from their job). But yeah, back to being treated like a 'fuckpointment' - well that's hardly my terms and as it's my mind and body, it's simple - I won't allow anyone to treat me as a fuckpointment. Simple.The thing is, if you and I don't like being referred to as whores, what would make you think it was ok, or going to be well received, to call certain women dumb for 'not' being one? Or is it that you feel 'sluts' have no say over whether they want to be willing participants or that they have no standards? (ie that they will fuck every guy they meet even if it turns out they are repulsed by him?) Having a succession of men doesn't necessarily equate with lack of standards or lack of say - there may have been a lot (A LOTTTTTT) of correspondence/checks (research, whatever you want to call it) done before the 'meet'.I attached no negative connotation to the word slut nor whore, fun chose to apply meaning to that herself.Are you sure? You already stated you feel 'sluts' are dumb unless they are whores. (I have tried, but I just can't find anything positive in that statement.) The only distinction you made between the two is the making of money (or lack of) from their chosen sexual encounters. Can you not see the negative 'connotation' (aka emotional association) in that? ie. totally dismissing a woman's 'choice' of how she expresses and enjoys her sexuality with a succession of men, unless of course, it involves the exchange of money.Overall, I felt your comment was more a moral judgement (implying negativity) is it appears your comments were directed at your fellow females, based on your 'fucking successions of men' comment. Sure, I could be wrong, you may of meant gay men too, but what about hetro guys? However, in that case, you would of written 'fucking successions of men AND women, or even successions of 'others'. Are men 'not' dumb for doing what these women are doing? Maybe, just maybe, some women are really, really tired of explaining/justifying their sexual activities/desires. I mean the entire 'men are studs/women are sluts' for engaging in the same activities is a bit 'old'. Especially when a fellow female member condemns them as dumb for it... unless they are a prostitute.Meh, I could do with a triple shot right now
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RHP User
14 years ago
just had to add my opinion.If a lady wants sex or feels horny and gets it she is called a slut which i feel is just plain stupid ,if the world was in reverse and men were to be at the brothels it won't be a problem right?we all feel the need get that sexual tension out the only difference is we guys don't go around calling other guys man whores or man sluts if there's such a word .If you are getting it be happy cause the person who just called you a slut isn't getting any
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RHP User
14 years ago
just had to add my opinion.If a lady wants sex or feels horny and gets it she is called a slut which i feel is just plain stupid ,if the world was in reverse and men were to be at the brothels it won't be a problem right?we all feel the need get that sexual tension out the only difference is we guys don't go around calling other guys man whores or man sluts if there's such a word .If you are getting it be happy cause the person who just called you a slut isn't getting any
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wannabyummymummy
14 years ago
Sadly this mentality is not exclusive to sites such as these, in fact out in 'the real world' it is even worse!! We have a lovely young girl who works reception at our office who is 20 and single with no restrictions on her social life other than a Mon- Fri job and it is apparent that she loves sex because she spends her weekends out getting it!! now i say power to her but our boss (whom i also happen to be friends with) got wind of this through another employee and was telling me how aweful it was and what a 'filthy slut' she was, sadly this poor girl also got a case of Chlamydia and confided in the same employee who also blabbed that fact to our boss and again she was horrified, i did point out to her that Chlamydia is very easily transmitted and as the ads say on TV anyone who has had sex (even only one sexual partner) can get it and really we shouldn't judge.Of course my boss doesn't know what i get up to and i am certain after this conversation she would be mortified to know that a happily married woman with children is on a site like this with her husbands knowledge and blessing!!! I am sure that would make me a 'filthy slut' too.It is a double standard and it is unfair but it is a fact of life and I don't see it changing any time soon, it could be 'old fashioned upbringings' it could be social pressure, who knows? At the end of the day I enjoy sex, my husband loves that i enjoy sex (and he is rather fond of sex also ) we answer to each other and don't really care what other people think of what we do we just choose to keep it to ourselves so that we and our children are not adversely affected by small minded peoples' opinions of our choices.Power to the 'sluts'!!! may we one day rule the world!! WBYM
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QLDtwo4fun
14 years ago
We reckon as long as you are a consenting adults making informed choices and enjoying yourselves it's all fine. Male or female, straight or gay etc etc it's your body, enjoy it and enjoy sharing it with others. If your not enjoying it find another hobby.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Totally agree with handmaiden!
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RHP User
14 years ago
What a great read that was. You wrote it so much more better than what I ever could! Well done and I am glad that you can see where I am coming from. I was not called a "slut" or "whore" directly in the chat room, but seeing that us females were all put in the same basket and the men were put in the "liars" basket, I just had to ask on the day why she felt this way! I had never had any cross words on that day and always got on well with the person that made the statements. I just couldn't understand why it was being thrown out there for half an hour when we were all in the Adult Cam room! If sex is not what you are after and you don't like people having sex on cam or guys wanking or girls playing with themselves...then RHP do have a Social cam room and I think that some people should stick to that and not kill everyone else's fun! Again thankyou NewKee for such a great contribution! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Even the most reserved prudish "non slutty" woman has and will in one way or another be exposed to their wild side, once that happens, their personal battle begins, are my actions good/bad, am I a bad person for ENJOYING my actions, and the all important "what would everyone else think" Regardless of the "title" if you are comfortable in your own skin and happy with your actions you will attract like minded people, the ones that judge & crtiticize are the ones generally afraid and unsure, let them be, because it's us who are enjoying our sexuality, it's us who explore and make up our own minds about what feels right or wrong and most importantly, understand our bodies better than anyone else..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Alex2go'I totally agree with you...I embrace my inner slut and I actually find it is men who are more taken aback by it. I have a lot of married girlfriends who live their life vicariously through my adventures, but I have had a number of FBs who seemed threatened by the fact that I see other men...why surely they must be enough to satisfy me!!! I was in a committed relationship for 11 years which is the majority of my adult life...I think I am entitled to sleep with who ever, when ever, how ever and how many times I damn well please ever! couldn't agree more ... there are other sites to find "relationships" this site is primarily here for the fwb's .. if you want to fuck someone without any commitment and don't accept the other person would like to do the same then i think that is pretty hyprocritical
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RHP User
14 years ago
We are all here for the same thing. I am nit getting what I want and need from my husband so I need to get it elsewhere. In every other way we are happy and if I was not able to find a little fun elsewhere we would not be together. Although we don't talk about it he knows what I do and accepts it. He has lost any drive and just wants to be friends. I still need more so surly this does not make me a slut
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was raised with an open veiw on sex,born in Denmatk where sex is and has been enjpyed for yonks,wemon are gifted with the sexual gift on many levels,learn and explore enjoy!
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RHP User
14 years ago
http://www.care2.com/causes/13-year-old-explains-slut-shaming-video.html
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Alex2go' I totally agree with you...I embrace my inner slut and I actually find it is men who are more taken aback by it. I have a lot of married girlfriends who live their life vicariously through my adventures, but I have had a number of FBs who seemed threatened by the fact that I see other men...why surely they must be enough to satisfy me!!! I was in a committed relationship for 11 years which is the majority of my adult life...I think I am entitled to sleep with who ever, when ever, how ever and how many times I damn well please ever! I totally agree with you Alex2go I was married for 13 yrs and very faithful to my husband unless we played together ...........But i have found that I have been called a slut many times as I have a few FB's but it is ok for guys to have more than one FB they are called STUDS.......really some people need to join this century .......lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
i like sex so i must be a slut to haha who realy gives a shit if some one calls you names as long as you life to the fullest and have some fun i know i plan to whith what short time i have left in this world
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RHP User
14 years ago
Take it as a compliment that she even noticed you enough to say something! Seriously though... don't sweat it - those types of comments are more about her personal hang ups than anything you have or haven't done. She may as well be talking into a mirror because it seems the person she needs to judge is herself. Have confidence in what you do and don't bother with other peoples opinions. Call me a slut, whore, pro or whatever I don't care - when I wake up in the morning I am smiling no matter what!
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RHP User
14 years ago
i wish some of you chicks lived in hobart where i live
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RHP User
14 years ago
i agree but ill would love to fuk u to .
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RHP User
14 years ago
You and me baby aint nothing but mamals so lets do it like they do on the discovery channel.one word JealousP.S bet that song is stuck in your head now too.Mr Sherpa..
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RHP User
14 years ago
You woud think there would be a touch more open mindedness if you put a whole bunch of sexy people in a room, even if it's a chatroom. Everyone has their own reason for connecting to this site. I don't understand the need for others to judge/ comment / degrade on the "s" word. Unleash the hussy within and return me to the scheduled program.
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RHP User
14 years ago
@Sallyamy, I couldn't agree more. Snap!
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RHP User
14 years ago
...but women sure as hell do. Sex with girls will get you 5 minimum and rightly so...but you won't be sex starved, you'll just be walking funny until you you get used to it. So women love sex, all except for the ones on this site...so guys give it up. I'll stick around once you bail just to offset the balance and take all the abuse from these non-sex loving women that really, are only here to torture unsuspecting men. Save your money...head for the Casino and take your chances. | Use me, abuse me... just don't forget or loose me. | PS ladies...I got the ropes and the attitude to go with it. Stick with the last two and well be doing just fine thank you. Guys really, they only make all those noises and thrash around like porn stars so you will do the deed and get on with the business of taking them out to dinner.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Revel!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am a SLUT and happy to admit it
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RHP User
14 years ago
i swear women want it more than men747 4
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't think that this makes you a "slut" at all. It is your life hun and noone can judge you for what you do and don't do...I am so sick of people being judgemental all the time! . I love cock....I love sex....I love oral....I love foreplay....I love the feel of someone else touching my body (other than myself all the bloody time)....I love to flirt...I love to tease...I love the feel of tongues and fingers tracing over my body...I love strong arms around me as he is deep inside me.....I love having my breasts teased and licked and sucked ....I love to meet a random at times spontaneously.... Does any of this make me a slut? NO...It makes me a woman who is in touch with my sexuality and confident in my body! I love the fact that I am a woman...and I love the power of the pussy and use it to my advantage many times! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
xFunlovingx I totally agree with your comments! So many people are too quick to judge ... and 'label' a person ... for example, a guy ... has multiple play mates ... sex partners ... he is regarded as a stud...etc . and yet, if a female is in a simular situation ... she is regarded as a slut or what ever ... well ... we may as well go back to the old days where they burnt witches??? All I can say girls ...is 'legs up and laughing' lol Go for it and have fun!!! love to you ALL xxx ps: xFunlovingx ... 'power of the pussy' ... ? he he
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RHP User
14 years ago
Seems to mean "woman I dont like" among women. One of my best female friends is the type who is usually referred to this way, but shes not the type who manipulates men for her own amusement, she is fiercely loyal, and a good person in general, so I dont care. No, I wouldnt enter a relationship with her, but thats more because she uses drugs. On the other hand, my most recent love interest was a "nice" girl who played constant games.everyone loves sex, who cares?
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RHP User
14 years ago
and i love being one .... it's a turn on for me .... i love whoring or sluting myself out either if it's sending dirty slutty sex text or photos and getting them back ... I have a high sex drive and I need to for fill it ...... it's beautiful clean fun to embrace your whoreness to men that actually treat you like a princess afterwards .....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Crazy, that a Woman who likes sex is a 'whore' or 'slut' but a man is a 'stud' I THINK NOT. We are all humans and we are 'programmed' to like sex and touch (with a few exceptions). Ladies, if you enjoy sex then revel in all it's glory. I and many others will never criticise you for that and infact, would support you. Long live the female 'stud'.
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RHP User
14 years ago
i was in a relationship for 33yrs to a cunt who cheated on me every chance he had we did not have sex for 4yrs i didnt even pick up a dildo he was fucking around tho so i decided to go online find someone to play with...i started a hornets nest young cocks came from everywhere wanting to play with my tight hardly used smooth pussy...well he found out went crazy bout me cheating Double standards....so i dumped him finally now im proud to say Iam a fucking Slut &Whore & love every minute of it I fuck @ least 2-3 cocks every week ...go dogging,had a gangbang ,& have mmf 3sums as often as i can get I wasted my 20's,30's&40's with a fucker who told me i was a crap fuck.....oh did i mention i havent fucked a cock older than 35 .....Im 52 & wouldnt change my life for anything
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RHP User
14 years ago
Bitch put outs for everyone...a Slut put outs for everyone but you.... :))Seriously though it is a huge turn on when a lady finally becomes so comfortable with her sexual feelings and wants that she becomes a sexually uninhibited animal after years of repression!! I've seen it several times when ladies come to a swingers party for the first time and go right off - If only it happened more often!!
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