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Girls say "No Thanks" to oral
January 29 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
I can't imagine my sex life without it. When i was REALLY young (late teens) i was so self concious about anyone being down there but I got over that ages ago when i found a man who loved to do it. I have never had a lover who didn't and we wouldn't last long if i came across someone like that.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe they had a guy (or a woman) who was just poor in managing to push their buttons for them to actually enjoy it.Personally, I have had a few partners that told me they dont like oral (on them), but I changed their mind...So, I think it is just bad experiences - like to hear if there is other reasons
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RHP User
14 years ago
I met someone like that when I was younger. She thought it was dirty and ahem... Pretended not to enjoy it. Then of course, after some effort and fristration, her hymen was too tight for penetration, which she explained she already knew and was intent on having it surgically removed, so we had butt sex. Dirty butt sex. Later that year, I met a young lady and when I went on her she said: "Nobody has ever done that before!". Oh to be young again when people say things like that to such basic sexual experiences! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
*shrug*That's like asking why some guys don't like anal from another guy? Sexual preference is sexual preference... and any "lover" who can't take a no when it comes to my preferences... well, they don't stay a lover, long... bout 3 seconds from trying it anyway, in fact...pmsl@dirty butt sex
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RHP User
14 years ago
because maybe their intro to oral was unpleasant? rough even? or they've been brainwashed from a young age that its dirty and to be shunned....god knows my ex was filled with all sorts of trash when we first met...her mother had put the fear of god knows what into her head with the shit she told her...........but yea Bratz is correct too....maybe they just dont like it...it does happen........
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hubby's awesome at giving oral and it feels great but I'm just not that in to it. I just prefer to get straight in to intercourse
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RHP User
14 years ago
...and damned if I would try to order for anyone let alone make them want what might be on my plate. Just like my own tastes...I would really rather give most anything "anal" a miss, although if she was willing to go through all the time and effort required and really enjoyed it I never miss. | Each to their own...just enjoy the game.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I didn't to start with but then I met someone that was good at it....oh was he good! Since then I have loved it but it depends on how into it he is as well. I guess it's much the same as girls giving men oral, the more they enjoy it the better they are. Not everyone is good at it and not everyone enjoys giving it. *shrug* Each to their own I guess but oh how I miss his talents!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thanks for the clarity and insights. Makes sense - even the anal tangent that was so neatly slid in there. . Keep in mind, I am not implying women should enjoy receiving oral or offering any judgement value either way. It is merely an enquiry.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would imagine that plenty of women out there have had bad experiences, whilst others just have a psychological barrier. I know my wife didn't want to do it when I first met her and it took me a long time and much patience for her to be comfortable with it. Now she absolutely loves it, from me and others and can orgasm easily each time! For those ladies that are not comfortable with receiving oral I think it is just a matter of meeting with the right compatible people and taking it slow.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...a size issue, not unlike another thread that was recently started here. You see, I have an inordinately long tongue and although I would be embarrassed to post a picture of it here....it actually puts me so far off the scale of normal that less that 0.10% all of men globally are either as blessed or cursed as I am and I would easily be considered an anatomical anomaly. I can actually do up the top three buttons on my dress shirt with it...and you should see how I tie my bow tie when I have to dress formally. | Thus that would lead me to ask and perhaps solve the dilema: | Ladies: | - One the scale of 1 to 10...how important is tongue size? - What's the perfect tongue size? - Have you come across one you couldn't accommodate? | Gents: | - Are you happy with the size of your tongue? - Would you consider a tongue enlargement? - Do do you think women really care about tongue size? | ....my bad, and thanks for letting me play!
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RHP User
14 years ago
One the scale of 1 to 10...how important is tongue size? - What's the perfect tongue size? - Have you come across one you couldn't accommodate? I do not like wagging tongues, not matter what the size. I big tongue like a big dick is just a tool, that belongs to a tool at times. Not the size but how you use it. I do not like Oral at all Gentlemen , please take a ticket and line up and help me change my mind. s
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RHP User
14 years ago
I prefer to just jump straight into the fucking part, because oral is really so hit and miss, and I want to make the most of my time! Even if the guy is really skilled, you've gotta be in the right headspace to enjoy it too, and sometimes it can just take a while regardless, and time is precious/I am impatient!!! ;);)If time's not an issue and the guy genuinely enjoys it, and isn't hell bent on sucking my vagina right off of my body (seriously, guys..), then by all means... but I wouldn't choose it over other acts that are definitely going to work for me :)Also FWIW, everyone is always saying how women are meant to be better at it than men, because we've got one so we know what works? I disagree! My best (and okay, also worst) experiences have been with men, because I guess since they don't have one themselves, they don't just do "whatever works for them, personally". So intuitive guys - women - other guys. There's your hierarchy, ala Mrs Blacktastic xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm a bit precious about my clitoris. Don't touch it, don't rub it, don't lick it UNLESS you have a Bachelor in Oral Arts and are happy to take navagational instruction. Then I'll relax and love it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
That's the spirit Deb! You hear white noise and he can't hear the phone if it rings.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I had a partner years ago who would let me do it about once a year as i liked it and she did not. I could never work out why that was? ~shrugs~then another partner complained about me not giving enough oral when we were breaking up. why tell me then??!! I enjoyed giving it to her, we just had a nasty habit of rushing strait into sex. ~blush~my last partner loved it, and she tasted wonderful. regardless of whether she was freshly washed or had spent 45 minute pounding the pedals of her bike. chemistry is pretty important, i've been down on some ladies that taste ghastly despite them being clean and tidy. i wonder if some women just get a feeling they will not taste great to a particular bloke?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I know this thread is about ladies liking/not liking receiving oral sex, but.......... Deep breaths! Inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale........ I'MNOTREALLYTHATFUSSEDONGETTINGHEADJOBS! Whew, there I said it! Wow, that's a big weight of my shoulders! It's probably not that I hate it, but it's very difficult for me to get off from it! Too much tongue, not enough tongue! Too much teeth, woah! I said too much teeth! Stop it already! Most ladies have troubles fitting it in far enough to get enjoyment from it! I sometime also find just the tip receiving stimulation can actually become a little irritating due to it becoming oversensitive! I'd imagine it's the same for ladies and their clits(is it clitori for more than one clitoris?). Bottom line is I'll do it for you if you like it, and won't if you don't! Whatever tickles your fancy! Xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
for me i cant seem to get over the fact that my partner's face is so close to where i go to the toilet , i know its weird, and im a weird girl i love going down on my partner and i know he loves giving me oral but he knows why i dont really like it , im slowly getting over it , i just find its a mental blaock thing for me im not sure about other girls, as each girl is differnt , i found talking about it helped me and my partenr to work out other thigns to do that i enjoy and like i said slowly im gettign over the not liking oral thing, hell sometimes i crave it and on those times my man is more then hapy to help satisfy the craving lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thanks for all the great responses. And 'Chasing Midnight', I don't think I've ever seen any pictures of you, let alone your tongue!
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Mr_MrsJones
14 years ago
I fall into the 'don't particularly like it category.' Why? Lots of reasons. Partly the ick factor and worrying about how I smell taste etc. But probably the main reason is I have a majorly sensitive clit. If a guy gets right on in there and goes hard without warming me up properly I will fall off the bed trying to get away from that tongue!!. I tell them to go easy and tell them, and tell them. Sometimes it is just easier to avoid it. I am sorry. I can't lick myself and work out what works for me so I can tell you in detail. I can't see what you are doing when you are doing it right so all I can do really is say more more or stop!! I am at a loss as to how to give better instructions and at the end of the day my instructions don't seem to help. So if you get it right in the first couple of minutes then all is good and you can do that all night. If you don't you will get flipped over for a head job after about thirty seconds followed by lots of fucking. Mrs Jones.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I love it and hate it Seriously most men have no clue what they are doing, it feels like a rushed, like a side dish to sex , and it feels fake for to me to pretend to enjoy something that is given to me , to be polite when the actual act is irritating to me . Some men are amazing at it , they are the ones who are very into it and obviously taught well by a woman beforehand. Eating a pussy with soft passion, like a ripe fruit, and having to be dragged up to fuck = amazing lick lick , prod prod , and too rough , makes me squirm away and head for something else.so when with new men , I dont push it, because most likely it wont hit the spot !
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RHP User
14 years ago
Preference comes from experiences so I'd say it's technique.I love oral- most of the time. If I don't it is usually technique according to how sensitive/ insensitive my clit is at that time. Too much tip of the tongue is no good when I am a bit sensitive and using more of the flat bit just behind the tip is better especially at first until the area desensitises and wants more stimulation and then more tip is good.I used this technique on a bi girl who claimed to never of cum orally and got her to 2 twice :D back pat for me or maybe she says that to everyone lol. Also the fingering component is mostly essential for me- My opening is very sensitive though I have known a female who wasn't into any fingering at all- it didn't do anything for her so the whole "you're a female so you know" means nothing there are differences/preferences.The other reason is the time it takes as you rely on your partners intuition and skill- If I am feeling a little impatient I simply: Mount my lovers face and control the level of stimulation no digital stimulation required.......just a slight amount grinding- very quick and very effective :PCass xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have found that it does not stimulate me enough it's too soft, there is only 1 male that has literally made me cum from oral alone and I was blown away ha ha I just prefer other things in the bedroom over getting licked out it just isn't for me
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