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May 17 2011

In regards to flirting . I came to realise on the weekend that I may have been wandering around blind for some while now when it comes to this .......possibly because I don't go looking for it, or maybe it's just never occured to me Now women are generally touchy feely creatures with other women anyway, so my god how 'extra' hard is it to pick up on whether another woman is actually flirting with you or just being girly and touchy? . I'll describe my situation on the weekend a little better shortly, but was just wondering if you other ladies who 'are' aware have trouble differentiating between the two, or does it actually stand out more once it becomes a concious thought?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    To quote DGT ""Now women are generally touchy feely creatures with other women anyway, so my god how 'extra' hard is it to pick up on whether another woman is actually flirting with you or just being girly and touchy? "" I know this will sound strange but the touching feels different it's more of a lingering touch

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    In general Im a huge flirt and the 'touchy feely" type.If you are within arms reach its instinctive for me to lightly touch your arm as Im speaking to you. Still I'm not one to make a first move especially with a girl and the girl would have to be saying something tio suggest if she was interested in more then just flirtacious banter. Basically Im more then likely thinking she's like me and just being quite social..unless I met her from RHP and she invited me for a drink.. !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    seriously, i drive myself insane when i'm talking to girls with a view to shagging them. Unless they're the direct type I have come away from so many conversations with absolutely NO idea if they're into me or not.It's partly due to lack of confidence and partly due to lack of a clue on my part, I think. Hehexx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thanks girls, and yes I can see how bloody confusing we must be to men on this subject. The thing that got me thinking about it wasn't anything earth shattering but it made me ask the question of myself "Have I been missing signals purely because I've always just counted it in the 'just being friendly' basket . I was with a friend on the weekend and went into a pharmacy (lol to get lip balm) the girl working came straight up !!! was very helpful ,chatty, smiling, (all very normal stuff to me) . And as we were leaving my friend turned and said, "My god, she so wanted to lick your pussy " LOL My first reaction was, "Naw no way, just good service" And then I started to pull it apart........when she first came up she started talking about my nails, then took my hand and looked closer........lots of eye contact, and chatting to me all the way to the counter......then she asked if I wanted her to open the lip balm and get rid of the rubbish for me, all easily explained away in my eyes as great service Lol but the hand thing may have lasted more than normal, and even though I wasn't alone it was mostly directed at me. . My friend was convinced , but I wasn't thinking along those lines so didn't even consider it. Maybe I need to look for it from now on and see if I notice the subtleties and possibilities that I might just have been flirted with by another woman

  • CD_Sensate

    CD_Sensate

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' seriously, i drive myself insane when i'm talking to girls with a view to shagging them. Unless they're the direct type I have come away from so many conversations with absolutely NO idea if they're into me or not.It's partly due to lack of confidence and partly due to lack of a clue on my part, I think. Hehexx Sarah If it is hard for you beautiful women, it is much harder for some of us mere males!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I touch men all the time in a non sexual manner but never a woman unless we are close friends or related. I also find that women do not touch me in a sexual manner either. I must exude the "just dont touch me" manner. lol. Bi women and lesbians also do not come on to me at all. They never have.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    go back to the chemist!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    God Saturn your such a 'hottie biscotte'.....................mmmm......and yes your a huge flirt too xxxx Mwah j xxx And wheres just out of interest.......wheres my birthday present ???...lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' I touch men all the time in a non sexual manner but never a woman unless we are close friends or related. I also find that women do not touch me in a sexual manner either. I must exude the "just dont touch me" manner. lol. Bi women and lesbians also do not come on to me at all. They never have. This is also interesting Fiona, like your manner that you give off perhaps I've given off the opposite sort of aura but not realised it for what it was. I actually feel pretty naive when I think back to all the times and some very obvious signs from other girls geez I can be daft. I knew one girl who always used to say how beautiful my lips were, and everytime we would all catch up, the kiss hello would be right on the lips (lmao how thick can i be seriously?) I just put her into the category of a lip kisser as opposed to a cheek kisser Gawd DGT get a clue woman

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Youv'e had your head up your arse for too long! I dont understand why you sexy would even ask a simple question to a simple answer? HELLO............... this has happen to me all my life ! and it comes to you in all sorts of ways usally un noticed lol . Take the flirt to your ego and not your heart, I'm straight as , but admire a beautiful woman and will look at her body and say wow she's hot ! but you dont have a penis and thats my preferance and blow her a kiss as you walk out the door. I hope you are not going through a mid life crisis and need reassurance from both sides as you talk yourself up. how sexy your lips are, your nails and you forgot to mention the hair flick! OR Your curious! I dare you ! take your head out of your arse, do the girl on girl thing, you might like it!! all that sensal kissing ......... soft touches...... wet pussy and clitoris rubbing......... And hair flicking Oh shit ! i just had a flash back from when i was 14yrs old and a sleepover hahaha MMmmmmm............ And she's still my best friend! And my man has a huge penis!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    lol..well as it's MY birthday today, maybe we should lock horns and discuss this ..p.s Happy belated Birthday you yummy thang you!!xxxx Quoting 'jdex72' God Saturn your such a 'hottie biscotte'.....................mmmm......and yes your a huge flirt too xxxx Mwah j xxx And wheres just out of interest.......wheres my birthday present ???...lol

  • N4November

    N4November

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'jdex72' God Saturn your such a 'hottie biscotte'.....................mmmm......and yes your a huge flirt too xxxx Mwah j xxx And wheres just out of interest.......wheres my birthday present ???...lol .Because I'm pushing in front of you!! . HAPPY BIRTHDAY GORGEOUS GIRL!!! . MWAH! XXXOOOXXXOOXOXOX

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You funny Chikee!! NOW thats a girl flirt I understand!! P.S Love your new pics xxxx ps..(and thanks)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The girl on girl thing Tarlisa, have just never taken notice of the flirts Quoting 'Tarlisa' Youv'e had your head up your arse for too long! I dont understand why you sexy would even ask a simple question to a simple answer? HELLO............... this has happen to me all my life ! and it comes to you in all sorts of ways usally un noticed lol . Take the flirt to your ego and not your heart, I'm straight as , but admire a beautiful woman and will look at her body and say wow she's hot ! but you dont have a penis and thats my preferance and blow her a kiss as you walk out the door. I hope you are not going through a mid life crisis and need reassurance from both sides as you talk yourself up. Dunno where you're going with that one LOL how sexy your lips are, your nails and you forgot to mention the hair flick! OR Your curious! I dare you ! take your head out of your arse, do the girl on girl thing, you might like it!! all that sensal kissing ......... soft touches...... wet pussy and clitoris rubbing......... And hair flicking Oh shit ! i just had a flash back from when i was 14yrs old and a sleepover hahaha MMmmmmm............ And she's still my best friend! And my man has a huge penis!! My question was more along the lines of once you make a point of noticing it, does it become easier to pick?