Getting back into the swing of things

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  MsSuperFoxy

  3 years ago

  1. Revenge sex or just go out and get a good bonking as in a one night stand Be prepared tho, it may backfire. 2. Gym is good to get those hormones going. 3. Dress up with nice lingerie underneath. 4. Shift those mental thoughts on working on yourself. It's diffucult to gain self love back, when it's lost after a break up T. WINE! Wine fixes everything. Drink from the bottle if you have too. Lol! Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  No idea, I’m trying to regain trust for men but unless they’re guaranteed a fuck most of them don’t even want to meet. I think I might need a wing woman who’ll come out with me because I’ve gone off arranging dates online, the last 3 men I met looked and acted nothing like their online persona. One even picked on the amount of “fat chicks” online while he sat there with his big beer gut hiding his penis 😅 I have nothing against a bit of a gut but the hypocrisy nearly made me spit out my drink. Then he tried kissing and groping me despite the fact that I was pulling away and clearly feeling very awkward 🙄 I don’t really want the kind of men I’ll find in bars and don’t want to go to events alone so I’m at a loss. Actually now that I think about it I’ve had sex with more people I’ve met through work than anything, maybe I should set up a lunchtime speed dating scenario 😅

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  Lostyanumber

  3 years ago

  Welcome back,it looks like you have just taken the first step.

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  Cucknshells

  3 years ago

  It is not due to any bad experience or breakup that I have been out of action. Life has been strange the last few years. I wonder if that is how other people feel.

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  It does seem that people are more reluctant to meet these days. Ive met 3 guys in the last 6 months. I like the meet and greet social events here, meeting new people with no expectations.

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  Lots of opportunity to meet people here, I decided to give saying yes a go and went on 3 dates in a week, all catfish with high expectations for a first meet despite me saying it was meet & greet only. Short of video calls which I hate I don’t know how to vet people properly online. This may shock people but I think maybe I’m being too polite 😅

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  Think it's a rare occurrence to meet anyone who has decent bone in their body. Not talking about the one in the trousers. Some are just one sided, if they are feeling it than that is enough to go for a grope. Which for me is a deal breaker. ask first if feeling is mutual. I think if we take more time to consider your gut feeling. Then it will save you time and effort. If you don't feel any really positive vibes then cut your loses and move on. Just my experience the best will respect your personal space and give you ample time to see if a connection. Effort is everything.

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  2022 was the pits, the post pandemic effect sapped everyone’s energy IMO. Don’t be hard on yourself and go at your own pace. There are some decent guys out there looking too. And if all else fails I guess you just put the swing up😉

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  boobsandbusted

  3 years ago

  Nope , it’s not just you , seems hard to find the time and time to put the effort in ,let alone staying up late when bed is calling for you to just go to sleep in it ,lol

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  FeistyFatty

  3 years ago

  Welcome back Shells 👋

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  I hear you. Although life gets busy, priorities change and then.... we are back here. Nice to see you again x

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  Lostyanumber

  3 years ago

  I don't know how relevant this is but Janis Joplin once said that the one you miss out on is the one you can't catch up on. Don't miss out if you can help it... 😜

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  KLady

  3 years ago

  2022 was a shit year for me but I dusted myself off, started meeting guys again but I go in stages where I’m getting out there then I just can’t be bothered mainly due to work, life just gets in the way and sometimes it’s works sometimes it doesn’t 🤷‍♀️

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  madotara69

  3 years ago

  Hey Shells, we never actually had a break playing up, just logged out one day and rode out the withdrawals, I’ve apparently got an addictive personality due to heritage, I only logged in this Christmas to find a poem I writer on Valentine’s Day one year to Tara and a story I wrote about a bee one year. Baaaam payed up and it’s lovely to see you again, it’s very quiet tho, heard a heap of fora folk took off to go do twirking memes 🤭 Mado Mado Tara xx

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  I’m on the other side of the coin and starting my journey. I’ve learned to meet people without expectations when it gets to that point and I am happy being myself, no need for a performance. The difficult part is I live a long way from anywhere and with women having a lot to chose from distance is a road block.

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