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M53

Genuinely searching or addicted to being persued???????????

December 12 2012

I am obviously not a paid member, and dont see myself becoming one in the near future. It has become obvious to me that this is somehow viewed down upon and I am really interested to know why?. My reasons for refusal are simple...........I dont want access to chat, unlimited messages and anything else that may encourage me to spend more time on the internet than necessary. Dont get me wrong...........the internet is a great tool, but for me not a lifestyle. Which begs me to ask?????? Why are there so many paid members with unlimited messaging out there that will"rudely" reply to my message request flirt with"pay for membership and put pictures up" when they could so easily just start a message thread with me in which one may be pleasantly surprised and have access to pics. I begin to wonder if people are only interested in the cyber relationship and are not the same persona in real life.... Help me out here.........

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    When a woman gets so many messages and flirts you have to filter the ones you will respond too. So if I get 20 messages from nice guys with great pictures tell me why would I bother to reply to someone who hasn't bothered!?! As you say all our time is limited so basically you are wasting women's time by sending them messages & flirts. Shits me off actually, I have made the effort so why don't you? I also assume that people without pictures are married or attached and are cheating on their partners. Maybe this is unfair assumption but I am not interested in that. Seriously how hard is it to put a picture up that captures some of your personality. It doesn't even have to be of you. Merry Christmas!

  • Innercircle

    Innercircle

    13 years ago

    OMG, lets waste days messaging with someone to see if they are suitable, only to find they aren't. If we aren't attracted to your looks, then we don't go any further. We don't need more friends, we can't keep up with the ones we have. If you don't want to play the game, neither do we. Pass.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    luv ,I said pet ,I said dear Axiom,c'mon you knows the answer to this question.Howwww many threads have there been on this topic or similar.You choose to be a guest,choose not to have a pic up as Meeka said,some women get annoyed by the seemingly lack of effort.C'mon show us your purdy face.Women may then respond differently .I personally find you attractively amusing .I enjoy your posts and our occasional banter.But then I am weird.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If you put No Effort into your Advertising....Your not going to put Any Effort in Bed Either......Ya Gotta Sell The Sizzle....!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I don't have a picture,if people want to see what i look like i will show em on cam.....Ta dahhhhhIf they want to see what i am looking for ,they can read my profile.I don't expect anything off people here,if they want to get to know me ,i am more than happy for them to and well worth the effort.People want ,what people want .Try not to figure them out ,just roll on.As for people sending you messages axiom , tell them your short, fat ,bald and ugly with a small pee pee. Works for me ,no one hassles me The women here do get harassed by men,just try and understand than and don't take anything to heart.I am sure if you want to make an effort you are only a Credit Card away ,to the wonders of RHP.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You've just not got enough to attract their interest, and they have no incentive to find out more about you since they get so much attention themselves.At the end of the day you're an Unverified Guest member with no photos. Posting on the forums is good because people get to know you a little bit, but those traits still raise warning flags that you might be 'flaky'.I've paid for membership in the past, but I don't have it anymore. Still, as a Guest member I've never received the "pay for membership" reply from a member with posting rights (though plenty of non-responses,) and I think it's a combination of verification, photos and forum presence.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    he is gone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Pity     Methinks a few nerves were hit.............................     Hotel California....................     ...you can check out any time you like, .....but you can never leave !!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    wan't it a brothel

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    i really gotta stop being so proactive....and stop KISS=ingKeep It Simple Stupid...poor fella nobody stroked his EGO.....Maybe he should'a washed it first...!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'kizza1973'I don't have a picture,if people want to see what i look like i will show em on cam.....Ta dahhhhh Loving your new pic, looking good!