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jezebel_jj

jezebel_jj

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Gay men in hetero-relationships

November 25 2011

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I dont understand why gay men are in hetero relationships.Ill give you all some back story, approximately 6 months ago i was messaged by a couple to play with 'them'. Initially i was a little skeptical as there were no photos and no validations. However, being the trusting guy that i am after a lot of messages and phone conversations i went to their house. When i met the guy, it was pitch black no lights at all and could barely see his face, his partner was inside. I spoke to him for a little bit (the whole thing was a bit creepy for my liking) and after he told me that his women had passed out and then he asked if i was game for some one on one. Now i wouldnt class myself as gay or even really bi for that matter, im happy to play as a group. If hands/tongues/other appendages get thrown in then all well and good. But i wont strictly do one on one.About a month later very similar situation happened with another couple, i was invited over, wife wasnt even at home. I bailed. Then tonight the exact same shit happens, wife drank too much and passed out and then im getting asked for some one on one.This is for all the GAY guys out there, if you're in a hetero-relationship and trying to get some action on the side - How about you end the relationship with your women and be gay! Stop trying to hide behind the "im straight" routine because you got some women who is willing to cover up your bullshit. Has this shit happened to anyone else??

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    such a pain in the ass for you (no pun intended) What a complete dishonest waste of your time !!!! I can only suggest that you might have to get a little tougher in your screening before the meet. eg: ask to speak to the wife, and make sure she will actually be alert or present for the meet possibly ask to go on cam with the both of them first, it will weed out a lot of the liars and maybe stipulate in your profile that you are not afraid of coincidental male touching or bumping but are looking primarily for straight mfm fun? Best of luck

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  • deltoid

    deltoid

    14 years ago

    Not being up front about why you want to meet up is not on   BUT   From my experience there are a lot of guys out there in and out of relationship who enjoy a bit of M M playing and make out they are straight. Desiring a bit of M M playing DOES NOT MAKE THEM GAY   Nor does it mean they should leave a hetro relationship and become full time gay   It does though mean they are Bi even though they may be in denial and is no different to a woman in a hetro relationship who on occassions likes a bit of bi action. Amazing how this double standard still existis in the minds of some.   Going behind your partnes back for some same sex fun though is a completely different topic

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    sounds like you were 'had'........these guys ......(and there was probably never a woman there) ..... set you up. did you meet the 'wife'...and if not, why not? sounds like a scam....and not a very nice one at that....... dont be with a couple unless they are both there....and dont meet if either of them are drunk or doing drugs. theres only one person who'll end up burnt from this....and that would be you.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    That has never happened to us, we have never arrived to play and only one of a couple is available, nor has any guys in a couple have suggested male bi action to us! ever! More often the opposite view is discussed combined with the hi risk physically these guys are taking deceiving others.   I think what DGT says is correct sounds like a better screening technique is required, butt just one thing on the odd occasion when we have looked for a MFM, I have never allowed the guys to talk to my wife (at her request as well) prior to playing.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Single gay men posing as a couple to lure straight young lads like you is a common story on here. If you want to meet a couple, if you haven't seen pics or chatted to them on cam first, then meet in a public place first to make sure they are who they say they are...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hey.. that's not gay.. its just creepy.Jesus.HugsGaz

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Welcome to our world boytoy... we get men pretending to be part of a couple all the time. Not very cool of them at all. Be careful though.... I know you are a boy and all but you can never be too careful!!!Stay safe !XxMeeks

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I have had this happen to me a few times. I have even met with a couple for coffee, but they were busy and had to rush off and go do things and they said will get back to you. The conversations continued, sms, and it was the guy saying if you meet with me first we will have a threesome. Have had other guys say I have to check you out first and play with you before my wife does. I am not worried about some things happening in a threesome but I enjoy threesomes not one on one. Now it is only if the Wife/Partner wants to play because of these guys pretending to be a couple interested in a threesome.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Browsing ladies profiles I have seen so many gay or bi guys but have no idea why most of all the gays

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Yes I think there trying to be straight

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well this works both ways and I have to laugh. I've had guys hit on me and tell me they will play with me if I can find a woman too. Do they think I'm a closteted straight man?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That you adopt a meet first (in a public place, with both parties attending) play later policy. This can be a good way to weed out cunning people who think they can spring a quick "I'm available and nobody else will know" arrangement upon you. As above if you can weed them out before this by having a cam or phone chat with the male and female, even better, but if the female is aiding and abetting the male in his sly plan then this isn't always foolproof. I would never go to someone's house first off, if they are dishonest enough to be trying to pull this off, you could find yourself in a nasty situation one day, not often heard of but also not impossible, men can get raped too.

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