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Gangbang experiences?
September 09 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
As variable as any other sexual encounter. What has been the case (99% of the time): Guys being polite and respectful and doing their best to please the woman. Variable as to how they start, proceed and end, and the ratio involved. Some start sensually with massages or group foreplay, others are "right into it". The woman's interests vary as to what she is up for eg anal, DP, DV etc. Even though you might be doing the same activities, everyone is real and are not pornstars. Experience and abilities will vary and men will have their own issues regarding staying erect, becoming tired or being in a crowd. Also linked with the lady's wishes, as to how it ends. Some will come quickly at different points in play (usually in condoms), some more than once or sometimes not at all. What matters is the lady getting what she came for and the men doing their best to help. But you have to be vocal about what you want; generally the guys will be up for it (capable or not but we will try, eg certain positions) but they may not ask/offer things as part of wanting to appear polite and respectful and not thinking of themselves.
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RHP User
10 years ago
From the moment we walked through the front door at the hosts home it felt wrong. No atmosphere at all a bunch of older gentlemen ( of which age is not an issue ) sitting around watching football. Hardly inspiring for the Miss but as neither of us had attended a GB before we were unsure what to expect so we let that slide. Then when the action finally got started ( by Miss and her GF ). They bought out a mattress for the middle of the floor in the lounge (very classy considering there was a room with a set up queen bed in the spare room ) We told the host of the Miss rules of coulds and could nots one being no anal. I guess we assumed the host would pass theses rules on but live and learn. Ok so we persisted along and after two men who really did try but could not get her over the edge along comes the third and after about 2 minutes of going at it pulls out and tries anal. She politly tells him no and well things proceed. Then going along she turns over to doggy and straight away he tries anal again. This time she tells him no more. Then ok of we go again then all of a sudden the host goes " yeah go on feed her that cock ". Really wtf um yeah thats really respectful so that pretty well killed it. Yes we both understand its a GB and its several men having sex with one lady ( which was part of her fantasy of which i was happy to help organise for her ) but really we didnt think a need for that kind of language or degradation for anyone involved. So all in all it has left a sour taste in Miss mouth and me well i think next time it will be more of a thing we organise ourselves and not let someone else half ass organise it. Also when did 8 or 10 man become 14? Sorry if i appear upset really i'm not. Just bitter that my ladies fantasy night turned out badly. Leason learned about trusting someone else with your fantasies. Mr and Miss Twosomeplus - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It sounds like a bit of a nightmare! Out of curiosity, do you know the host well? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
you summed it all up in your last sentence. Perhaps take the extra time to vet "interested" parties first to see how they intend to play, as well as laying down the rules quite clearly. Meet a few at a time at outside venues and see what you think about them, and what they might think about sharing with some of the others. Sorry it went pear shaped, but with many people involved unfortunately it can be a case of too many cooks....Looks like you just gotta be the ones in charge. Tall
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QLDtwo4fun
10 years ago
You need to be with people you can trust. Either because you know them or because you know the venue or organiser.
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RHP User
10 years ago
.... sounds charming :/ .... not
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Hottie1
10 years ago
And I want hubby to organise one for our anniversary 😈 Granted, the ones I've been involved with have been with one specific organiser and he is brilliant!! The men have always been respectful, really minding their language, till I asked them to be a little 'rougher'. I actually don't mind the dirty talk, I am there to fuck lol:) only once has the 'residence' been ordinary, other times it's a very classy unit that is rented out. I don't mind having cum on me but I find the men wait for some grand finale of simultaneous cumming (it's not a porn movie guys), so much so, it's to their detriment. I have left a GB and many of the guys hadn't cum because they were waiting for the end! I don't do anal at these events or rarely at parties, so yes your wife's boundaries should be respected and her wants should have been clearly communicated to all present, before you got there. The host should have been far more respectful of that. I've learnt a lot from the few I've been to and I know specifically what I'm after and I clearly outline what I'm after, if the guys don't meet that then they don't play with me, simple! Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ag4mg92' I find the men wait for some grand finale of simultaneous cumming (it's not a porn movie guys), so much so, it's to their detriment. I have left a GB and many of the guys hadn't cum because they were waiting for the end! Yes and no. There is more than one thing going on in that kind of situation I think. No it's not a porn movie, but pretty much everything else that goes on in a porn movie happens in real life too (eg "spitroasting", double/triple penetration, DV, double blowjobs), all of which I've been a part of. If a lady likes or doesn't like any particular activity, that's her preference and not necessarily related to whether it's in porn or not. I do have a favourite repeating event I go to. At the last one, one lady took such happy endings from at least 10 men (but not necessarily all at once), with some guys *cough* coming twice on her. Another regular turned up to the previous party just to be covered in cum, without otherwise playing as such. So of course guys get some ideas from porn but so must do women. The other thing going on sometimes is sensitivity. I don't know how many other guys I speak for here. Personally, I need a lot of ongoing intercourse time to get to orgasm, especially so with condoms (and I've rarely actually come inside a condom). And only once I've came from a blowjob. In a relationship, I've been known to be too tired to get over the line during intercourse even bareback. But by hand I can do it more reliably, as men are used to it and know exactly what works. In a gangbang scenario, individual time is so limited (obviously because the focus is on the female) that masturbation might be the only way they can finish (nerves might also come into play). So it's not that we might be "waiting for the end" or that kind of fantasy, but waiting for such an opportunity at any particular time. But other people's opinions in past threads have been that men wanting a happy ending (especially in a gangbang) means they are thinking of themselves, not of the woman.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'TwosomePlus' Just bitter that my ladies fantasy night turned out badly. Leason learned about trusting someone else with your fantasies. Mr and Miss Twosomeplus - Posted from rhpmobile I have been to venues that I haven't returned to based on the "variable" qualities of the other men. And I've given those venues more than one visit and talked to as many regulars as possible about their other experiences, just to make sure it wasn't just a bad night. So maybe you had a bad night, or found a venue with an inferior vetting process. My favourites are those that are private invite only, or those that screen their men properly. And at those events I have never seen an issue. But they are either held less often or harder to get an invite to. Obviously some are advertised via other sites/mediums. My advice is to keep looking around, and try not to let a bad experience get you down and discourage you from trying again somewhere. Were you in Vic I would have much better recommendations for you.
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cbdlivin
10 years ago
It sounds like you had the worst kind of experience, which is the fault of the organisers. I have organised a few myself over the years for friends and my late wife and attended others that have been great and a few that made me turn around and walk out. A good gang bang has one rule at the top its about the woman and what she wants, everything comes after that. Getting a good group of guys who are relaxed in a GB scene and want to be there for the woman's pleasure is great to get. Rules and limits are laid out before starting and any breach is unacceptable. I will say the rules can change if the woman wants something changed, and that's the only person who can do that. For me personally for the GB's I organised I met the guys first just to assess them over a coffee or drink, or guys I knew might recommend someone they knew would be good. For my wife especially I wanted her to have a great time with no issues. Anyhow if you do a GB again I hope you get the experience you are looking for. Bryan
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Hottie1
10 years ago
But when the gentlemen involved are whispering to me that 'they are waiting till the end, they want to see me covered in cum' , there was no guessing, they wanted the show and we know that rarely happens IRL. Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
It does rarely happen, and they might be missing out on other fun by expecting or waiting for it unnecessarily, but well worth it when it does happen in my opinion :p ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've played one on one a few times without getting there as I've alluded to. To me, it feels kind of selfish to say to them at the end something like "umm *cough cough* hello, do you mind taking care of something?". So that's why I like playmates for 1on1 or for gangbangs that really like cum, as it's then actually in their interest that it happens :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Guys stop sending messages. Miss Twosomeplus here. I can assure you I won't be even considering a gangbang again. You are wasting your time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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