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August 20 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
If the behaviour written in profiles and observed in forums is any indicator, most guys are all to eager to meet at the drop of a hat (or skirt) when that time suits them. Perhaps those less than suitable times have a more easily explained reason. ..... they're busy..... or married.... or busy being married. 3 2 1.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
We agree they would more then Likly be married ? In saying that but the girls (single) are just as bad as the boys here sadly
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have to ask...why are you focusing on continuous texting for and in a hurry to meet??I don't see this as just a "SEX SITE"..unsure where you got that from??Sure it's a 18+ site, and advertises as a swinging site however, we are adults and so is meeting at the pub.Maybe they have a life outside of this site, married or another person has caught their eye, they work or this site is not all the bees knees to them??Like I have said beforeIf the American President of the USA can run a country and make time for his family, then there is NO such excuse for "BUSY"!!If they are into you, they will make time."one week you are the person getting the attention, then next week nothing!"It's not playing games it's just how it is - The Hunting Game!I say NEXT, move on and don't focus solely texting.GOOD LUCKFOXY
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madotara69
12 years ago
We do not have the time for all the men who want to meet Tara, sorry Us. heheThough there is some sexy people here that we could easily become friends with, it is a sexy site.Even if we were to attend a meet and greet, it would be out of character to offer a fuck, it would be more in character to chit chat, get a bit sloshed and let things happen as they happen.Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you're over texting... TELL THEM! I do....I say something like "I am over texting, phone chat?" if they say YES...that's a good sign...if they say NO or I am busy...simple just leave it, say OK.....FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
If they say they can't or busy...move on! don't waste your credit. :) Foxy
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Plain280
12 years ago
Thats telling em straight, for the life of me a quick chat, a meet up to check the chemistry and away you go.Whats so hard and if there are doubts tell the truth and start again if need be.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think my question has been misconstrued. What I find annoying is the promise of a meeting, the promise of a call... Then nothing. If interest is lost or was never there in the first place, why bother replying with these promises? That's what I mean by playing games. And it's not me personally, but my friend... And I can't explain why this has happened. My personal experiences have been positive... If we have agreed to meet or contact, we have. And most people I have met or spoken to agree this is more a sex site but that's our opinion. Sorry for any confusion.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry to hear about your friend.Most of us have had this experience one time or other..They are there one minute and POOF ...GOOOOOOOOOOOOOONE!For some people it's all about the fantasy in their headsThey know they are never going to genuinely meet.It's the THRILL for them and that's all it is.RHP mantra........NEXT!!Your friend deserves better.FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
as I see it,is that this site has many facets,and is different things to different people. Through the forums we know that there are a few who delight in being here,all their encounters are only ever positive,marvellous and amazing. They are also very good at marketing themselves to their target group. There are men and women here, who are only looking for sexual encounters,there are others who are looking for a whole lot more and will not compromise,and then there are the''two bob each way'' lot who will settle for the former until they find the later. The forums provide an avenue for marketing,an exchange of information,advice,tips,and humour,banter and an opportunity to connect with people,who in the real world,there would be only a faint chance of meeting. As in RL,people have their agendas,play silly mind games,blow hot,blow cold,...no pun intended...change their minds frequently about who they do and don't want to meet....and sometimes they simply are a figment of someone's imagination.....a fourteen year old boy or someone who is a catfish.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Look it up on the net and you will know exactly what Freya is talking about.It's worth watching..be an eye-opener!It's scary to know that the person you may be talking to IS NOT WHAT YOU THINK!Foxy
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madotara69
12 years ago
How the heck did you know I was a 14 year old boy. Your good!!Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wish it was as easy as you say . Weve being trying to organize a sexy night for weeks now. we find a couple or two , make contact swap messages ,it all seems great till you try and organize a date. first ,both parties need place , we cant host at the moment we have flatmates. we both work and study , so we have to organize a time that both me and my partner are free and the other couple has to be available . Then, we plan a sat night and relatives turn up in the last minute lol arghh . Now we are free this sat , and all the couples we contacted are gone lol I think well just go to a swingers club its easier lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love your work!! Some of us have other lives. Straight, vanilla, closeted. Haha lots of variables. We'll play when we can!! Gypsy💋- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
that's a new one for me...what do you mean?
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RHP User
12 years ago
They like to just..........talk??? Not everyone on these sites wish to meet and fuck......- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are times when from first contact to sweaty thrusting is less than an hour, other times it can take years and countless text, chat, and communication.I can approach someone with my own interpretation of what they are like, but as the communication continues I work out that she is not quite what I thought. I find it hard to just disappear, I find it hard to be rude, nor can I embrace someone that is not what I want. What do I do as while I try to just become friends, I dig a hole. I would be a fool to avoid that situation because then I would not get anywhere, and how strange, sometimes the more I open up my scared crazy soul with intent to repel the more I entice and attract. There are some that get off on the idea, especially guys. You can precisely tell the moment they have wanked of and blown. With time I have learn now to spot that and just turn off.Then I am ashamed to say there are some were its just WOW OMG you are perfection, I am so terribly attracted. I turn and run as I do not think I can ever be monogamous again. But each phone call text or whatnot fills me with joy. I reply with thoughts of keeping it alive, but knowing full well I am too fragile to ever meet.OP you will just have to deal with it. Sometimes you win, sometime you are left high and dry (I mean wet) but if you don't try you will never get what you want. Why play games? LOL to hone your skills, because we are human and can't help but play. There are very few who do so with malicious intent and in a busy playground there are plenty that enjoy the game of life. And really if you are upset at the non avent, why play chasey if you have something better better to do. You can't alway win and say now you're it. Its a game after all and you are in it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some people simply do not have it in them to actually BE who they want to be or even acknowledge who they actually are. The game has to play through to checkmate for their self delusion to be exposed ... You'd hazard a guess that their true motivation was the thrill of the chase and a little self affirmation at being "chosen" ?Time to drag out Dr Spock again .."After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing, after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true"In so far as conversations that seem to be going well but then getting stale and stumbling when suggesting to meet would seem the natural progression - It's a fine line and suggesting it too soon can be a deal breaker so perhaps the men are simply erring on the side of caution ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
You can only control your behavior and not the behavior of others..So you could stop texting and not facilitate it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks all for your comments. I am no longer friends (if we ever were) with the subject of my rant. Your insights have helped me move on... As some wise people on here say "Next!"
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madotara69
12 years ago
I am in my space ship, orbiting the moon. I left my fucking calculator at home and every time I add up the trajectory figure, I fuck it up and sling shot back to the Moon again. I am starting to get a bit bored, I have got my binoculars and you all look great. I also have got my Dolphin torch, and if you look up at night and see a flickering light, That is me, so if you know Morse Code, I would dearly love to have a chat.I am just about past the dark side of the moon now, maybe I will make it back to see you all this time.Mado
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madotara69
12 years ago
can someone tell me what 6+4+8=
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RHP User
12 years ago
Happy times with weighs left in your wake, miss Leela
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