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GONE !! GONE !! GONE !! :(((
September 02 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Boobalicious, you certainly don't need cement on your cornflakes. By what you have said, you have shown that you are a sensitive and caring person who appreciates other people. There should be more people on here like you. Since participating in the forum's, I feel like I have built a rapport with certain people and it is sad to see them go, but I am sure they have their reasons. There will be other's to fill the void. Keep your chin up. Chris xxx.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nice question! Personally, being an introvert and not reliant on others, I seem to be able to take a step back, rather than involve myself with the people emotionally. After being in chat rooms for years, I find that real life has to take precendence over the online fantasy we build for ourselves sometimes. People either seem to be themselves for once, scaring themselves away by admitting the truth or are false in the first place. It is like life, until you spend some time with someone and you can read between the lines, you really don't know if you want their involvement in your life. It sounds to me that the benefit of the doubt you give to all is hurting you? I would suggest taking the information, assimilating it without emotion and adding to your understanding to learn more about you. One day, you just might find that rare few that satisfy all your needs without opening yourself up to hurt? If you know yourself, you know the world and the dependancy ends... My opinion, take it or leave it! :-) Casper74
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Try and "HARDEN THE FUCK UP " They will be back.......They allways come back " Evil laugh goes here"....... Ummmnn......Love and peace and stuff ....Tam
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RHP User
14 years ago
I manage to keep in touch with out of RHP. I know. It does get a little sad when someone leaves. But hey, another will take thier place. You know Focus just slipped quietly away as well. We buried her beside Roxxy.
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RHP User
14 years ago
HotSexy Chilli, PBG, Roxxy, Krissy and now Focus. I feel an emptiness too Boobalicious and I was especially saddened to see an empty space where focus's picture once appeared. I understand the need for time out. . . .I do hope they come back . . .don't HTFU Boobalicious, you are lovely as you are. WPG
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't have any attachment to any folk on 'ere but if a "real world" friend were to move away I would miss 'em like crazy. NO cement needed you're just human (and no doubt lovely with it)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thank you all except TamWorthGuy69, I'll pass the message on to BoobsFC ;) Chris such kind words :) I think though I am struggling to live life n the moment like I used to and I often dwell on how things were, is it an age thing? Or maybe it is that on my last myers Briggs test I got 100% as an extrovert, and as CAsper spoke about his ease with on-line being introverted, maybe I should stick to non cyber networks!? Casper, you need to break your opinion into simply, numbered easy steps for me to follow to reach enlightenment on how to get to my nirvana (this could sound sarcastic, and is a little, but I still like what you wrote, but I am not quite on top of it all?). I have been told I have the wrong approach on the quest to 'know'' myself. I have ALWAYS been 100% on knowing what I don't want and take steps to void those areas in my life, which is a negative view. Instead I have been given advice to instead find out what I want and approach life that way. I don't know what I want though, it is a harder question I think?! Ok that may not make sense?! Love that line from Bridget jones diary, "I love you just the way you are." awwwww perfection!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Were two of the most eloquent and diplomatic posters, they could both create such awesome and what seemed to me as original threads over all sorts of topics. I loved all he helpful advice and support from Focus, as well as a big "Welcome" to the forum feel with her attention to all newbies, and for knowing what she wants and not be afraid to express abd defend it! And my Sexy WA hottie Chilli. She had an amazing knack to post an answer so insightful that I fell in love with her brain! If there was an award for the perfect answer to a question, reckon she'd be hard to beat! 100% of thermos she posted after me, I had the urge to delete my post and write next to hers. Boobs agrees and can never quite deliver the answer as succinctly as ms. Chilli. I shared her opnion a lot of the time, but lacked her flare in expressing it. I miss them!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Naw Boobalicious, i understand completely. I'm a "feeler" too. I get dreadfully attached to people (on an appropriate level). Focus will be back i'm sure at some point. Most of us at some point have to take a break from here. I have found it's helpful if you get to meet socially if you should have the opportunity and keep in touch off the forums, actually make some friends. Doesn't hurt so much when they vanish. Most of them do come back though. Mr Casper (sounding VERY aspergers there :) makes a lot of sense. I'll tell you a little story to demonstrate how attached we can get to someone but the online world isn't a real world. I found out that my husband had been chatting online to this bird on the other side of the world, they had never met. This was not a problem by the way as we have an open relationship and he can talk to whoever he wants BUT she "fell in love with him" and had plans to move over here with her kid in tow and live "happily ever after" on her 3rd marriage! Bahahahaha!!!! Needless to say i had to show her the door. I sent her a letter saying, amongst other things "you don't love my husband, you just think you do for various reasons including the fact that your second marriage is crumbling and you're trying desparately to not be alone. I understand that but it's not going to be with MY husband. You love someone after actually spending time with them and if you're really lucky, years down the line after washing their endless line of socks and jocks, preparing and serving their meals. putting up with their crazy shit (and them putting up with yours in return) and sharing a life of high highs and low lows together........ you still love each other? That's how you love someone honey. NOT online where you've never even met him. That's fondness, attraction, excitement, flirting but not REAL love that takes time and if you're fortunate and work bloody hard at it grows over the years. It was then that i was less polite and told her she was out of her mind if she thought that I was going to allow her to walk into my family and my childrens family. BUT....i do understand how people can get dreadfully attached on line, i really do. I think we have to remember that cyberspace is not a real world, it's a pretend world full to the brim of fantasy. The real world is day to day. Meeting people in person and forming relationships/friendships. Knowing/learning/understanding who they REALLY are. xx Kitty
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Were two of the most eloquent and diplomatic posters, they could both create such awesome and what seemed to me as original threads over all sorts of topics. ... I shared her opnion a lot of the time, but lacked her flare in expressing it. I miss them!....I agree and they are sadly missed .. as i said before .. the TURKEYS may have cause a few to leave the forums .. Snow and Focus being the most recent losses .. one because of the Turkeys .. the other .. for her own reasons possibly .. ..
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RHP User
14 years ago
You are getting too attached Booba! Sure I am sad to see them go but it just means that there is room for more to come :) xxMeeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
....and we should live every day likes it's our last. It might just be. | After that we become worm food. Everything has a life cycle. The end. | Celebrate the life and don't pay homage to the loss. That's about you, not them...same thing at a real funeral which should be a wake if we liked them. Get naked and root like rabbits...it would have made them laugh. | Please pass me a can of citrus flavoured TFU and a double Popov vodka chaser. | Thanks, I'll have another one..now let's party.
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RHP User
14 years ago
People come, people go, people cum people go.......infinitum.Farewell to people who have moved on to other things. Hello to new people.
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Thank you all except TamWorthGuy69, I'll pass the message on to BoobsFC ;) Reply Tam.....Lol, well maybee i do deserve some wrath for telling you to harden the fuck up !, It was only tongue in cheek i assure you, and it's nothing that i wouldn't say to mysef , if i thought i was getting to deep or emotional.......Seriously, I suppose it's only natural to share deep thoughts and laugh with forum friends, and when they go to miss them.....!!!!!!.........Anyway I formally kiss your bum and apologise,......And yes i would realy do that !....given half a chance....lol...... for being so blunt ! Love and peace Tam
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RHP User
14 years ago
Oh dear ........... I have been here a while now seen people come and go and of course my favourite be reborn ! Hello goodgrlz ....... hmmmmm that other chap now who was his name Gazpacho41 ?? was that it ? ......... You may know him now as ......... Just a very naughty boy!.I don't mourn their loss , rarely , they contributed moved on and are .... I like to think .... having a dandy time on another web site or better still living a happy and full real life...Hope they come back by all means , there is always room for more. But welcome newbies like they did see now its your turn welcoming them. .And Tamworth guy ............ Welcome back mate nice to see your 6 pack again ! I got it..Brae ......... Ok I miss , miss sophie .......... Just the flirting !
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Letsgetcrazy09
14 years ago
Shania Twain did a lovely version..........lol Oh Boobs, yes some are just sentimentalists aren't they. Some are just plain tied up in their own little world and could care less about anyone but themselves. All parts of life, whether it be real flesh and bone type life or whether it be cyber life, brings with it a continual learning. Some have been here in cyberland and imparted things to us an gone on to other things, maybe they will return, maybe not. Certainly some do come back and some use different nicks when returning. Do we feel a loss with them not around? I know I do. Some I have personally met and so when they leave the void their absense creates is possibly felt a little more than those that were only cyberland buddies/sparring partners. Sure there can be a lot of bull flying around, however there can be some real helpful advice too. To those that have contributed in uplifting my life, a sincere and heartfelt thankyou, if they have been and gone then hopefully they pop back in occasionally and have a peek at the forums, to those that have contributed in a negative way, well thanks anyway - there have been lessons learned from you too..... Life really is like a box of chocolates aint it folks JMO Lets
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3'Oh dear ........... I have been here a while now seen people come and go and of course my favourite be reborn ! Hello goodgrlz ....... hmmmmm that other chap now who was his name Gazpacho41 ?? was that it ? ......... You may know him now as ......... Just a very naughty boy!.I don't mourn their loss , rarely , they contributed moved on and are .... I like to think .... having a dandy time on another web site or better still living a happy and full real life...Hope they come back by all means , there is always room for more. But welcome newbies like they did see now its your turn welcoming them. .And Tamworth guy ............ Welcome back mate nice to see your 6 pack again ! I got it Awww gee mate thanks....good to see yours, and you to ! .Brae ......... Ok I miss , miss sophie .......... Just the flirting ! Yes I miss Miss sophies flirting to..............And I miss......Xmiss Honey...her bondage stories !!! Hmmm It's funny how they have miss in their profile names.....and we miss them Hmmmm !
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi honey!!!! mwahmwahmwah!!! (rapid fire kissies) xx You are and always will be the most delicious bad man i know Quoting 'looking2try3'Oh dear ........... I have been here a while now seen people come and go and of course my favourite be reborn ! Hello goodgrlz ....... hmmmmm that other chap now who was his name Gazpacho41 ?? was that it ? ......... You may know him now as ......... Just a very naughty boy!.I don't mourn their loss , rarely , they contributed moved on and are .... I like to think .... having a dandy time on another web site or better still living a happy and full real life...Hope they come back by all means , there is always room for more. But welcome newbies like they did see now its your turn welcoming them. .And Tamworth guy ............ Welcome back mate nice to see your 6 pack again ! I got it..Brae ......... Ok I miss , miss sophie .......... Just the flirting !
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