M55
Fuckbuddies?
September 10 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't know that they're frowned on as such. Yeah sure, some people like something more than a bit of tip and run.Then there are people who the old tip and run works out just right for.I imagine there are more blokes than girls who are into a bit of the old tip and run,though I wouldn't of thought that there was any lackof women, whoA) Have no time in their busy careers for any type of relationship.or/andB) Have intimacy issues.Not getting the type of interest you where hoping for?Cheers Felonious
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razor2000
13 years ago
I much prefer a FWB but not sure if that's any different from a FB? To my mind a FWB is someone you do stuff besides just fucking, Friday night nothing on and you get a call....dinner,movie and a a nice romp beneath the sheets or maybe they need a partner to goto a event with so you accompany them there. If you can't make it when they ask there's no tantrums and arguments.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I find the word quite crass and vile, makes one seem cheap and nasty. I prefer friends with benefits not so in your face, fuckbuddies lack class and style. What you mention still happens just the name has changed.
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RHP User
13 years ago
To be honest, I haven't tried to get any interest yet.... trying to get a feel for the place.Tip and run... :) I'm not talking one night stands - a longer term thing - literally Fuckbuddies
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RHP User
13 years ago
.....with what others have already said. I think the preferred term these days is 'friends with benefits'. I certainly do not frown upon such a thing. But in my opinion there are few that completely understand the concept.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wasn't talking about Ons Newscrew,thats different again, but as far as I know, the only involvement you have with a FB is to fuck them, all about the sex babe, there's no official time limitinvolved, though some may have self imposed limits to prevent emotionalentanglements.FWB, friends with benefits is quite different, you do all the normal stuff you dowith friends/mates but you also have sex, you have and seek a degree of emotional entanglement, and take an active interest in the other person beyondsex. Though not quite to the extent of being bf/gf.I guess there could be all sorts of shades of grey and blurred lines though.Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
13 years ago
Damn!! Im in trouble then. I have been known to have a few FBs at a time, a few FWBs and the odd one nighter as well. Just depends on my needs and mood. It all depends on how you define FBs or FWBs...for many the terms are interchangeable for others there are set criteria to determine whether one fits into FB status or FWB status... Not much help I know Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
Fuck buddies still exist lol But for me FB and FWB are two different things. I agree with RAZOR2000 and FELONIUS.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think they are two VERY different things. The main difference is the intimacy level and the emotional attachment. A FWB is someone who is in your life, knows some of the intimate details......a friend who you happen to sleep with , they would probably be in your life EVEN if you weren't sleeping with them...and yes, you do other activites together besides just sex. FB's on the other hand....it's ALL about sex, you don't see each other aside from the booty calls, no activities out side of sex, they might not even know a whole lot about you and there is minimal if any emotional attachment or intimacy. and then there's lovers.......my personal favourite!
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ConsentualContrl
13 years ago
Quoting 'karynb' I think they are two VERY different things. The main difference is the intimacy level and the emotional attachment. A FWB is someone who is in your life, knows some of the intimate details......a friend who you happen to sleep with , they would probably be in your life EVEN if you weren't sleeping with them...and yes, you do other activites together besides just sex. FB's on the other hand....it's ALL about sex, you don't see each other aside from the booty calls, no activities out side of sex, they might not even know a whole lot about you and there is minimal if any emotional attachment or intimacy. and then there's lovers.......my personal favourite!I have to agree with miss karynb,The level of communication, feeling and emotional content is very different between the two.Though as stated prior some dont quite grasp that and either the communication between the 2 parties is not understood in reference to boundaries set.I feel its best to be honest straight up before the meet so both understand what eachother is after so neither is misled in thinking otherwise :)CC
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RHP User
13 years ago
FB = FWB = SB ! ONSIf I'm going to share my self with someone more than once then I'm going to want some other connection as well. If not (!) it's just a One Night Stand and I suspect they may be what is going out of fashion.To me a Fuck Buddy, Shag Buddy, Friend With Benefits are the same thing. Something treasured and special but not a life partner, wife or girlfriend.Some times I think people split hairs on words and phrases to allow them selves room to look down their noses at others?I'm tempted to take the "trick question" option here..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its not a trick question :) I've read a bit on the site and honestly thought it was worth asking cos I found quite a spread of opinions.Glad to know there are also quite a few which match mine though ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
not sure how that question would trick anyone either
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RHP User
13 years ago
I certainly don't look down my nose at anyone who chooses to have a FB, FWB or a lover....each suits a different time and life situation. I've enjoyed all three at various stages...sometimes they've started as FB's and moved through the levels of intimacy to become a lover, sometimes that intimacy just never develops and it's just about having a regular and safe place to scratch that itch, sometimes it's not appropriate to prgress beyond FB's. Each experience brings its own pleasures and benefits.
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RHP User
13 years ago
A question that when answered by someone can get them into bother..A sort of subtle trap..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'karynb' I think they are two VERY different things. The main difference is the intimacy level and the emotional attachment. A FWB is someone who is in your life, knows some of the intimate details......a friend who you happen to sleep with , they would probably be in your life EVEN if you weren't sleeping with them...and yes, you do other activites together besides just sex. FB's on the other hand....it's ALL about sex, you don't see each other aside from the booty calls, no activities out side of sex, they might not even know a whole lot about you and there is minimal if any emotional attachment or intimacy. and then there's lovers.......my personal favourite!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Newscrew :) Thanks for your Topic...I pretty much agree with the Majority .. If a guy wants me to be his FB then he doesn't care who I am anyone will do he just wants me to be his Prop cum bucket so he can get his rocks Off! and Bugger Off! I'm not a whore If he wants to treat me as 1 then he pays me for my time Abilities He couldn't afford me anyway .. My Preference is a Lover in this Instance someone I've Connected with on every Level before hand it makes for some very Amazing Sensualy Sexually sizzling Encounters that do Continue.. I enjoy the Company of FWBs too they have a different feel The Friendship is the main priority the Sexual Intamacy is the icing ...The tend to be more sensual in Nature but Sexual too just not as sizzling ..mmbut both are awesome I Love them!! Cheers Lu :) PS Hun if you want any chance of attracting FBs FWBs then you need a Face Pic up or face shoulders Pic.. no food or beverages in them either..
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razor2000
13 years ago
Good point karynb about the difference between the two. Got to disagree with you madamgragonfly just cause someone wants to be a FB doesn't mean they want to treat you as a cumdrop and plenty of women opt for that too not just guys. The main reason for it I've found in most cases is time related,so many people are so busy with other stuff that they don't actually have time for a relationship. Sad but true. I've had a few that we just used to meet up for sex and sometimes drinks or dinner and always had respect for them and vice versa. If everyone had to be in a relationship to have sex then there'd be a lot of frustrated people out there, and there's plenty enough as it is at the moment.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oi awsomedeb send me a msg
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RHP User
13 years ago
Madame Butterfly.....i choose my FB's....not the other way around....i don't allow myself to be used like a "whore', I'm speaking of consensual sex that suits both of us...it's not romantic, there are no flowers and hearts....but it suits a need at that time, it's safe and it's respectful on both sides of the equation.
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