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February 24 2013

What's the longest that anyone has enjoyed a FWB's relationship for?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    In the case of relationship never had one with a friend with benefits. Though maybe one which was classed more of a relationship as we were exclusive - 3 months. In the case of friendship my longest is 2 years and still going. Though maybe I call these MWB. Mates With Benefits. Sorry OP......... I don't see a FWB as a relationship. If how ever it was a D/s union then I would call that a relationship as it is very personal.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    and yes he was from here..   and then we fell in love - we became partners....defacto   And that lasted 3 years   And then I ended it     It was the best of times, it was the worst of times

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Until I moved for work, we're still friends...- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    No benefits now as we are both in relationships with others BUT the friendship still remains inspite of a 20 something age gap.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    For a four year period, she was also our playmate.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    And she was from here, Another the same time from the real world and we are still friends, but as expected a bit distant due to relationships.One of the BF's knows all about what me and his girl got up to wise bloke trusting me... Her not so much a couple drinks and she gets handsy.Makes me wonder who else she has tried it on behind the poor bastards back.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    we were fwb for more than two years,it hasn't really ended ,we just haven't seen each other for a few months but we keep in touch.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    4 years

  • Hanna_ybbn

    Hanna_ybbn

    13 years ago

    Almost 5 years and still going We took a forced 'geographical' break for 2 years.Hanna x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    4 years, and still happening though not often....we will always be friends

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    .. the most wonderful people. Special folk who are close enough to shag but almost no hassles.~sigh~Nine months for my last one. But over 6 years (on again off again as partners came and went) for my longest.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    3 Years... It stopped due to her moving interstate for work.Still good friends !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I WAS married for 5 years lol :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Almost 12 years. From the 28th Feb 2001 until 29th Oct 2012 when I ended it due to another relationship. Still friends but with no bedroom benefits.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    17 years. It ended when I moved to Australia. I met her and my ex-wife on the same day, as they were friends and had gone to a nightclub together. In fact the FWB lasted 2 years longer than the marriage.It wasn't a full-on FWB as although we'd see each other socially about once a month, the sexual side would come and go, but we first had sex in 1984 and we were still meeting for occasional sex in 2001. We're still friends. we don't keep in touch very much at all but I have introduced her to Mrs SinS on one of our trips back.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Not from here was 2 to 4 times a week. From here longest so far has been 6 months of 2 or 3 times a week.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    2 yrs and she had to go to the us now looking for another special friend :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We had the first one with a couple 3 1/2 years they moved away......The second was with a single bi guy for nily 5 years then the dick went and found a G/F and she don't want him to play any more, now looking for a new FWB's

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    13 years ago

    Yes a year this week, almost perfect we are good friends and provide each other with passion that's lacking in our normal lives. No hassles just fun- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Almost a decade now.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have one playmate Ive been friends with since we were early teenagers, and have been enjoying an on again, off again sexual relationship since we were 16.   Another friend I have had since I was 17, took his virginity and enjoy an on again off again sexual relationship with him and his wife for the past 4 years.   Another playmates who I have been enjoying a FWB relationship with for nearly 3 years.   Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    for almost 12 months then the "L" word.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    11yrs.... i have a FWB when i lived i melbourne since i was 20. sometimes we would meet a couple of times in one month, other time we might not see each other for a few months.. we shared her ups and downs.. and only ended when i moved to perth a few years ago... but i get to melb about twice a year and most times catch up, so its still ongoing!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have experienced friends with benefits for nearly 2 years,meet some great couples,guys as well

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ... then I moved here. Still friends.Here I have had a few going on concurrently now since arriving (about 8 months). Easy to avoid getting into a relationship here though since they all know that I'll be leaving when my visa expires

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We didn't call it that back then....but I have a friend who I have known for 30 years and we have had sex when we were both single. We are still friends to this day. Never had a relationship. Several of his partners never liked me... With no,valid reason. My partners have always loved him but none of them knew we had been together. He recently met the current FWB and they both recognised something in the other. They are both cool with it. FINALLY!!!! Have not had sex with him in more than 10 years....but he is and will always be my first FWB!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    About 9-months, and that ended (mutually) as it became more than it could be. But I think I've learned a lot from that experience.Right now, it's a toe back in the water...Oh, then of course, is the one that just won't quit... the ex from 15 years ago who periodically sweeps through and always results in some kind of sexual extravaganza... *sigh*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ongoing and just coming up to 9 years

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Was a year, a lovely lady from Cottesloe. She would take me out regularly to Balls and events, she'd call me and say 'I need a hand bag tonight honey and If your good you can stay over!'   I was always good with her.... sigh

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'd say about 2 weeks (once sex started). After about 2 weeks it ALWAYS gets strange and sooner or later you have to have "the conversation" and it's relationship time. Hence I'm on RHP, but have yet to meet anyone on here because all signs point to 2 weeks happening again and again.