Freindzone

July 31 2024

Hey everyone so my question is when I go out and meet girls and try to get to know them it goes well and it makes me hopefully and everything goes well for a week or so and then they always end up putting me in the freindzone so how do i stop this from happening and y does it keep happening is it because I'm classed as one of them Mr nice guys

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  • NeoAndTrin

    NeoAndTrin

    7 months ago

    If you speak to them in person the way you've worded this post then the long run on sentence with a lack of full stops will make you come across as desperate or even strange. It's actually a trait of Asperger's sufferers to speak like that to others.

    Best advice is to go into a date with no expectations and just play it cool. Even a bit aloof. Women love a bit of mystery from what I hear.

  • RachWandered

    RachWandered

    7 months ago

    Honestly I don’t think anyone can answer this without knowing you or the women.

    I don’t friendzone often … usually I get friendzoned and even then I’d say I get zoned … usually guys just

    I don’t have any sage words or anything reassuring to say.

    I just assume the dudes all have issues and it’s not anything I’ve done or something wrong with me.

    You’ve probably just not met your people yet

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 months ago

    Thats me to a tea.
    I'm sooooo guilty of friendzoning!
    I do it because I'm not sexually interested or see myself being physical with that person.
    I just can't go beyond 2 dates. I've tried and it makes me feel crappy.
    Once my mind is made up, I can't change it. Nothing to do with being, "Mr NIce Guy". That's a load of BS.
    It's my mind set and how I feel. Theres absolutely nothing wrong with me because I like what I like.
    Hope that answers your question OP.

    Ms Foxy

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    7 months ago

    Mate. It’s a struggle. Even arseholes think they’re nice guys. People fall in love by accident. That’s all there is to intellectualise