RHP

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Foreplay that lasts for days

September 20 2012

I love the mind sex that goes with the physical act......the thinking about sex all day, knowing me are meeting that night, or in a few days.......Essentially it's an extension to foreplay. With that in mind I recently bought a book titled 365 ways to turn him on, you then flip the book over and it has 365 ways to turn her on. It started me thinking about the little things i've done over the years to turn my partner on, the little things that you do to extend the foreplay over an entire day or days. I'd love to hear what others have done.

Comments

  • razor2000

    razor2000

    13 years ago

    Thank god for mobile phones is all I an say

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    teasing and tempting via phone, mobile, internet, has long been our way of keeping the fires burning...as has been the leaving of notes, letters and even trinkets of appreciation.... flowers sent for no reason other than as a way of delivering a suggestive note, surprise outing that lead to Hotels or Airports, expensive perfumes delivered by courier, home cooked meals, even fine wines, soothing lighting and sensuous music...all are forms of foreplay that can begin days before actual play... we employ all these, and more..... much much more....lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I so wish I cold find a partner and emulate what you two have xx Quoting 'mikeandshel' teasing and tempting via phone, mobile, internet, has long been our way of keeping the fires burning...as has been the leaving of notes, letters and even trinkets of appreciation.... flowers sent for no reason other than as a way of delivering a suggestive note, surprise outing that lead to Hotels or Airports, expensive perfumes delivered by courier, home cooked meals, even fine wines, soothing lighting and sensuous music...all are forms of foreplay that can begin days before actual play... we employ all these, and more..... much much more....lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'razor2000' Thank god for mobile phones is all I an say Agree Texting and attaching pics can be fun foreplay while one is at work or away

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    the messaging,the texting,the phone calls,are very erotic and build the anticipation before you meet...and then it happens....the ''clang'' ,the wrong thing said that is just a wrong step,leading to nothing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I think nothing turns someone on more than if you genuinely care about them, or even just genuinely desire them. This is reflected in everything you do, sexually and non-sexually, such as being attentive with calls/texts, and being affectionate. That is massive foreplay in my opinion, and only serves to make things hotter once the time for "real" foreplay comes along. Of course it does help if two people are in a relationship, or if not, they need to be suited to each other on a number of levels.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'sassyme' I so wish I cold find a partner and emulate what you two have xx lol...thanks, but we both had a few 'false starts' of our own, it took us a lifetime to realise we were well suited, in spite of knowing each other since the mid 70's.... we learnt our lessons along the way...