Foray into a new world.

Hey Everybody,We've posted this on a few forums because we haven't had much luck so far.We're a couple in their 20s looking for a third female player. We've been talking about this for quite a while, and it's a major fantasy for both of us. What we're looking for isn't a swan dive into something new, instead we'd like someone to date and hang out with, and hopefully blossom that into where we're at as a couple. We've been together for 5 years, and we pretty much know we're going to be together forever.This idea is something she definitely wants and requested, and for him is a turn on and wants to see her pleased. Both of us want in on the action.We have never experienced anything like this, even through our college years. We have no idea where to start, so we did probably what everyone does at first - craigslist. We had contacted one person, and it didn't pan out. We still look but only do it mostly for practice/ideas of what people expect. We recently celebrated our 5 year anniversary in Minneapolis, and while we were there decided to try a strip club. We ABSOLUTELY loved it. We know for sure this is something we want, but are completely new and have no idea what to do.While we know this is a Swingers website, we decided to post here for advice. We have some pretty up front specifications - 21-30 years old, not in a relationship, someone who wants to date, disease free, and willing to let this grow into a relationship. Since this is a Swingers website, we know that most everyone on here are married or a couple. We're just looking for advice.Above all, like everyone, we don't want ANYONE we know to know this about us, so discretion is the biggest factor. We figured this was the safest place to start, where anonymity would be accepted.Thanks for reading, we hope this works out.P.S. Our moniker is nothing special, just a passing comment while trying to find a discreet name.