M49
For the Ladies
July 10 2021
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The_kiss
3 years ago
A descent message of more than a couple of lines that validates you've read my profile without making assumptions from viewing my pic's, add some humour to it and I'm totally up to respond, sometimes even just to have a descent conversation and a laugh (as in chat) and it may not go any further but a nice change from the 3 worded messages of "Hi, how are you" or "You wanna fuck" hitting the block button especially from no pic profiles and ask me's :/
Kokoflamingo
3 years ago
Some respect, a bit of humour and no lazy text typing. " Wot U up 2, Ive a monsta cock 4 U" doesnt really cut it.
teamaj2
3 years ago
A message that is respectful , more than three words long , shows that they have read our profile and are matched to what we are seeking . I also agree with Koko , some humour doesn’t go astray .
We don’t respond to ‘Your pics made me horny and I be in your area later today ‘. Yes , that is more than three words. It lacks respect and shows they did not read our profile .
Good luck Ax
RHP User
3 years ago
What makes me respond is pressure, regardless if it’s good or bad I’ll reply because people whinge so much about those who don’t. Thanks a lot, jerks 🤣
RHP User
3 years ago
What makes me WANT to respond is decent conversation or the hope that one might occur at some point. I’m just not a “hi, let’s have sex” kind of person.
Freaky_Fun
3 years ago
People that have completed their profile and aren't married.
MsSuperFoxy
3 years ago
What makes me respond?
My mood. (Ranges from respectful to sarcasm to ignoring/blocking to reporting),
Sometimes, I'll think "yeah, I'll touch that one", other times "I ain't touching that!".
We ladies know, guys are proud of their cocks and think about sex 24hrs a day, 7 days a week and adore women's body parts, but they forget a respectful conversation, manners and being humble is all it takes. Degrading a women's body part is not ok in 1st messages (or profile names), neither is tacky pet names. Yes, we can be proud of our body parts too, doesn't mean we want our curvixes pounded all day long. Cheap, vile talk, doesn't mean we want that either.
Be warned, We choose who we have sex with, not you (meaning those sending vile messages). 😉
Ms Foxy
NewVicCpl
3 years ago
Definitely not a library full of dick pics. Mrs NvC
Missb4u
3 years ago
It is one thing that makes me respond. Every message is different. Generally if I’m interested I will reply.
RHP User
3 years ago
I am not currently looking however when I was, I would always check out the vision first, then the profile, then if I was still interested would read the message. Not just because the physical attraction has to be there, but pictures can be all revealing, sonetimes mismatched or obviously deceptive. The messages, if read, would then not have to be clever or funny or anything really. I guess really horny, slightly kinky or certainly confident, up for outdoor play, shy and retiring is not my thing
RHP User
3 years ago
As for turn offs, poems, fictional fantasy stories (lengthy, yawn), fruitcakes, run Forrest
RHP User
3 years ago
Good on you for doing your research. Someone who lets me know they have read.my profile. I’ll check the age and the pic if they have one. All dick pics bring a smile to my face and are deleted. Something cheeky, polite, honest. I love it when a man likes curves.
RHP User
3 years ago
I can’t believe how some fellas are so rude. If you get a thanks but no thanks reply with a quick thank you and have a nice day. Not hard at all. Keep your dick pix to yourself unless asked. Being an owner of a dadbod I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but I’ll offer something the younger guys can’t.
RHP User
a year ago
"Hey" ain't gunna cut it. Something smart, witty.... that stands out from the rest.
AussieKisser
a year ago
Yeach I've tried with "Hi how are you" to now adding more nice comments about them and mostly nothing not even open the message either. Pretty sad when your being not rude or anything. I'm happy to just chat even at times and see if we can connect. Any tips I'd be very appreciative
RHP User
a year ago
@vincebaby
Great you ask this honest question.
There is a clear expectation that creative approach is expected and it is a daunting task, after a while of no responses and no indication of why.
Good to see some constructive and helpful answers and thank you to those understood that, and helped.
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