For all you kinky fuckers........

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Firstly, I choose not to intelectualize the reasons why something feels good to me. There seems to be no point in doing that, indeed thinking about it isn't as stimulating as the letting go and the just doing part. Maybe it's an escape... a retreat from consciously motivated logical action. It feels good, therefore I do it. Simple really. I suppose the reward is dopamines... nature's built in chemical response to stimulate the happiness neurons.I like to feel emotionally content, happy and sexually satisfied.Nor do I find it helpful or pleasant to attempt to attribute all my sexual interests to early childhood experiences, for instance. Thinking so, does not change anything and provides no solace or guidance. I prefer a more asian approach.. Budhist/Taoist thinking would have me accept it as part of my nature and move on. That's reasonable no?HugsStalky

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  14 years ago

  Handmaiden: I have a few.... *grins*   BUT.. you have told us a few things you DON'T like.. tell us one or two you DO like and we will try to psychoanalize ... Well, WE might not.. BUT, I certainly will.. :)   Curiosity killed the cat... Well, as long as everyone thinks that, I am safe from conviction :)   caveman. x

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  14 years ago

  There is an erotic thrill to a secret life, when you know that aspect of the self is for the most part hidden ,hidden to all but a select few who you meet on your sexual journey.To discover parts of yourself which perhaps you had never even guessed at,which may have been hidden even from yourself. Women in particular have been socialized to repress so much of our inate sexual nature and to be able to explore that is a kind of spiritual liberation,x H

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  14 years ago

  ... not sure I can relate anything back to an early childhood experience and pretty much share Stalky's sentiments on this one. I just revel in the tingles that envelope me ... KK xx

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  14 years ago

  I dont have many kinks or fetsihes per se. Mine are all relatively tame and vanilla. I enjoy giving oral sex because I enjoy recieving oral sex, although the two are not always mutual. I also get immense satisfaction of having the power of manipulation during oral sex, a real smug feeling of achievement when the man orgasms.I like to watch. Voyuerism if you will. I can actually do this completely detached but normally it fires the imagination as to what the other person may be feeling and what it would feel like for me. I have analysed any and all aspects of my sexuality so feel free to have a go yourself...remembering that you only have the written word by which to go on and that may not even be accurate. Stalky you are misunderstanding a little or maybe I did not add enough information. Early childhood was meant to be one example. Many of our sexual experiences can and do have thier beginnings in adulthood. Like on the point of orgasm and someone inflicts just a little pain and just like that...you realise that the endoraphins or dopamines or whatever being released in a rush are more intense during pain. You start to experiment with BDSM.I am not of the mind that It feels good so therefore I do it. Otherwise society would be in utter chaos and I guess noting the number of incidences in recent years as to teens wanting to know what it was like to kill.....so they do....is a result of this sort of thinking. Kink...thankyou, I can understand the desire for a closer bond and trust.

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  14 years ago

  You know that late night, chocolate you had in the fridge and you put it in your mouth and go mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.   I like cum on my face and breasts, maybe because of safe sex ,now we cant have that lovely feeling of a guy blowing his load into you.   I am a tactile person, my lips are sensitive so its kissing and the taste of cum on my lips I love. I like cum on my breasts, I tend to leave it in there all day and walk around with a smirk on my face   Though once I got it all over my black top, and someone said what is that? I looked all innocent and said ohhh paint, you know what a messy artist I am.   Why? I think some of it might have to do that , I was giving head before I had sex,and was taught well by a guy. It never occurred to me to spit it out. Though sadly it never went the other way, and I was to naive to work that one out.   All I know is that I got a lot of attention that way, and I was starved for attention at that time in my life. So I was the good girl, when I was being the bad girl. Hmmmm where is Freud when you need him?

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  14 years ago

  im assumung that woman that are gushers and squirters ,,,,,,,,,,,,dont call it watersports ,,,,,,,,,,,?????????? is there a difference ????????????

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  14 years ago

  Quoting 'catherine_ts'im assumung that woman that are gushers and squirters ,,,,,,,,,,,,dont call it watersports ,,,,,,,,,,,?????????? is there a difference ???????????? Water sports usually is refering to urination. Pissing on someone or being pissed on.

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  14 years ago

  When an uncontrolable sexual desire to be with another person confuses the senses to a point that can reverse ones reactions to stimuli. Hot can be cold, pain can be pleasure. Not something taught but something wonderful when learned.

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  14 years ago

  Quoting 'Hesione' There is an erotic thrill to a secret life, when you know that aspect of the self is for the most part hidden ,hidden to all but a select few who you meet on your sexual journey.To discover parts of yourself which perhaps you had never even guessed at,which may have been hidden even from yourself. Women in particular have been socialized to repress so much of our inate sexual nature and to be able to explore that is a kind of spiritual liberation,x H find myself relating to your thoughts 'Hesione' .... haven't done a lot of kink myself, pretty much zero.... then again i was never open to the idea of it either..... i've changed since then, the time is right in my life and i want to explore what it does to my mind, and not see it or judge it as weird or dirty as i would have in the past..... happy to let myself go purely for the experience. I have nothing to lose really...... finding the right partner is a big part of wanting to experiment as well.... it needs to be comfortable. Obviously it's sexy to play out any kink fantasies this partner may also be into.... even if it is at my own expense. Then again i might actually like it.....

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  14 years ago

  OK fair enough... I'm also guided by a strong believe in staying on the right side of the law.... so, within those limits, if it feels good, I just do it.I did appreciate your question, but the thing I enjoy about my kinks is that I do just let go, I am not intellectualising, I try to go to a place where rational, logical, mindful calculations are shut down and I swish a free liberated brush across my sexual art... if I moan, growl, say something stupid, I really don't care... my goal is a mindless euphoric mental oblivion... enjoying my other senses in contrast to the conscious, alert, concise, paranoid, skitzo, dillusional, dissociative being that I sometimes am.HugsStalky Quoting 'Handmaiden' Stalky you are misunderstanding a little or maybe I did not add enough information. Early childhood was meant to be one example.........I am not of the mind that It feels good so therefore I do it. Otherwise society would be in utter chaos and I guess noting the number of incidences in recent years as to teens wanting to know what it was like to kill.....so they do....is a result of this sort of thinking.

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  14 years ago

  Has to do with peptide~peptide locks in the brain. Personal preference is just that - personal and ever changing. . Like your fav colour and all the reasons it's your fav. In ten years that fav colour will have likely changed to a new colour. Does not mean you don't like the old fav colour(weak peptide lock), just that a new (updated information) colour takes your fancy now(stronger peptide lock). . Now apply that logic to anything, even sexual preference. . Dr E.

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