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Fisting????

May 13 2011

l am comfortable in myself and have experienced most things sexually. So many men l meet want to fist me as it is supposedly such a turn on. So far without success, is there a knack to it? They get close but the pressure becomes too painful. I worry that l am not relaxed enough. l do want to try but is it such a horny experience for both the man as well as the woman?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You just need to meet some men with smaller hands. :pHUgsS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I guess thats a good start Stalky, can you tell me if it is a turn on for a man to fist a lady?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hulk Hands ... i got Hulk Hands for Christmas ... funniest movie scene ever

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'wowwow09'Hulk Hands ... i got Hulk Hands for Christmas ... funniest movie scene ever Well you can keep them to yourself wowwow! This is the only time when men (or women) with long slender hand are the most wanted people on the planet

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i've only met one women who enjoyed it, and it was more enjoying seeing the guys reaction than the actual activity she said.you need lots of lube, you need to be really relaxed, like bottle of wine relaxed and the guy needs to go slow. most of the fun is just getting to the point you can get the hand in.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' You just need to meet some men with smaller hands. :pHUgsS But large hands are a sexy thing on a man...!So is it a turn on for a man to fist a woman??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Love being fisted ... I do find it a turn on...have been made to cum by it also...I do know a few women who find it very uncomfortable - even when done by people with smaller hands..its just not their thing . I do hope newstart6 that this interest in it stems for your desire to experience it and not because you feel you should try it to please some one... . Always start slowly...lube is a definate must for most women...find the position that works best for you - for me its on the edge of a bed/chair/loung etc and my torso partially reclined, others I know prefer it from behind just depends on what is comfortable for you..... . Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Lots of lube for the woman......slim hands help.....woman being progressively aroused internally... I found caressing the gspot and helping the arousal build up that way helps.....ultimately once the fist is in there is to rotate the fist lft to right and back with knuckles on the gspot.........gently , very very gently.... Quoting 'focusliason' Love being fisted ... I do find it a turn on...have been made to cum by it also...I do know a few women who find it very uncomfortable - even when done by people with smaller hands..its just not their thing . I do hope newstart6 that this interest in it stems for your desire to experience it and not because you feel you should try it to please some one... . Always start slowly...lube is a definate must for most women...find the position that works best for you - for me its on the edge of a bed/chair/loung etc and my torso partially reclined, others I know prefer it from behind just depends on what is comfortable for you..... . Kisses Focus

  • sexslaves

    sexslaves

    15 years ago

    it just doesnt happen and yes there is a knack to it

  • cbdlivin

    cbdlivin

    15 years ago

    I have to say I love fisting, luckily for me have hands that are a nice size for it. First as focus mentioned lube....there is no such thing as too much lube. You really need to be really aroused, I find being that aroused makes things so much easier. Sometimes you just have to have hours of play to get that level of arousal but what the hell someone has to do it... Also it is important the fister just does not try and force it in, just nice and sloly and things will happen in there own good time. Anyone can be fisted sometimes it can take time, but so much fun in getting there and can have wonderful results. B

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Damb... Mrs JJ loves my hands but not for fisting... say's they are sexy mans hands but sadly' I have never ever fisted. So looks like I miss out unless I can find someone with a larger than normal love nest... Damb

  • cbdlivin

    cbdlivin

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'justjuice'Damb... Mrs JJ loves my hands but not for fisting... say's they are sexy mans hands but sadly' I have never ever fisted.So looks like I miss out unless I can find someone with a larger than normal love nest... Damb Well for your enjoyment you get someone else to start the fisting with smaller hands to get her prepared for you.....am sure you would have the patience...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    cbdlivin.. Great Idea .... Trust a man to think outside the square... why didnt I think of that.... probally cause I thought it was already a closed case....thanks mate.. Now... all I need is a willing partisapant to put this man outta his misery any takers... hehe

  • cbdlivin

    cbdlivin

    15 years ago

    justjuice looking at your profile getting willing participants should not be a problem, I know I put my fist in the air ... B

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hell yeah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    No No No....What I meant was.. Im looking for a girl / woman who can put their hand up for ME to break the drought , not every other guy on RHP ... Already said Mrs JJ doesnt like it ....

  • cbdlivin

    cbdlivin

    15 years ago

    Hosexytchilli, a worrying tale as if the safeword is used that should have been stop, what is the idea of a safe word when ignored. Agree with the Hygiene etc, as aside from handling such a wonderful location you want to take the utmost care not to cause any damage at all....The mind blowing orgsms, well with the woman I have fisted over the years has been one of the great benefits of a good fisting...Too me what is hornier than a woman haviung amazing orgasms. Lastly the size of your hands sound just downright perfect. B

  • NylonFan

    NylonFan

    15 years ago

    ive had tha pleasure of fisting several women 1 of tha most erotic an arousing expieriences ive enjoyed am in tha process of introducing my lady freind too art of fisting an shes loving it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    And just make sure they take off their wrist watch. Imagine explaining that in the emergency room...almost as bad as the damn gerbil. | Naaaa...take it for a miss. | | Go on...now try clapping.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    What a wonderful world where before you eat your Weetbix you can talk about fisiting! . I (in fact we , both miss sarah and I) have had "the pleasure" of fisting on a couple of occasions. As general guidelines in my humble experience it works best towards the middle or the end of a play session when everything is relaxed well lubed and the "I am completely horny" hormones are flowing around like water over a spillway wall! . Movements are slow and very dliberate , but once inside and over that thresehold slowly increasing does (or did in our experience) do magnificent things for our play partner. Watching some one thrive on a bed or lounge still makes my hands shake! . Have loads of fun. . Brae ....... Sarah still shaking her head saying no not me ! I have nothing to say I have nothing to say

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Great story.. Thats the type of answer we benefit from.. Always thought it might be that way. I've always had in the back of my mind that probally ( and I mean probally ) most girls / women are not physically suited for fisting.Just as there is large cocks, there are large pussies. OK' I know someone will come back with ' if babies can come through then so wll a fist. But when a baby comes through, mother nature kicks in to make it all work. A fist is coming the other way without any such assistance except for a tube of lube.Dont get me wrong.. I would love to try it, but only if its not painfull for the receiver.. If she was getting pleasure so would I.. Mr JJ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' It's also worth noting, she will never allow it again, despite how mind-blowing it was for her. She says she's worked too hard on her pelvic floor muscle tone to allow it to be eroded for a temporary thrill. You really need to ask yourself what are the risks involved to the Fistee. I know for a fact my friend's playmate is extremely conscious of hygiene and had just washed and sanitised his hands. An experienced Fister will know to do that if he has any level of regard for the recipient. Hope that helps Newstart. Chilli xx I regularly get fisted and have had no complaints about my pelvic floor muscle tone...I stil undertake my exercises regualrly (any woman would be mad not to) and dont think that fisting has effected my muscle tone at all.... . As for the hygiene - wel thats the case for any new experience...its not just anyone who gets to fist me... . Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    But that's just plain weird. Do tell someone before they finger you to go sanitize their hands? No. So why would be different for fisting? Obviously you would want their hands to be clean either way. xxMeeka

  • cbdlivin

    cbdlivin

    15 years ago

    Meeka Would love to give you an personal inspection of my Hygiene :-D.... And yes you should always be nice and hygenic no matter what you are doing. B

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I just love it!! Mr Kinkyboffin has slender hands just built for the task. The orgasms are unbelievable. We have been fortunate to introduce some other ladies as well to it. The look on their faces (and their partners) was worth the price of admission. he even fisted me and another girl at the same time whilst giving oral to the other guy( clever boy!) It may not be for everyone however . It requires patience, technique, lube sometimes, and most of all your partner being in tune with you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I love a good fisting... I would recommend the experience to any women & if your man's hands are to big, start with a women Mmmmmmmm yum

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i love fisting its the best sex around when my man does it and he has truckie hands yummie lol Even better and im feeling even more horny i get a touch of anal as well now thats a good night of hard core sex

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    theres no 'trick' to fisting. theres no 'knack' at all. the womans either into it or not, and the mans either patient and gentle enough or not. lube and arousal are the keys. and no rushing........nice and slow..... the results are incredible....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i am fortunate to have small hands and a big appetite for fisting.i find it more thrilling and intimate than penetrating sex only.i would love to give you a demo seeing your not too far and i head your way often. tastes change as we mature as we know and i would love to taste you xxx crazy mexican

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You hit the nail right on the head. No tricks... Nothing magic .. For the lady who has a generous pussy, and the man who has smallish hands, this would be great fun and very erotic. But in the reverse, if the lady has a smallist pussy and her man has large hands its not gunna work to well. Not that Im talking through experience except the time I did try, I got to 3 -4 fingers and that was it. Mrs JJ was just so uncomfortable and has never really wanted to back there again. So Im still yet to experience the pleasure. I think my hands are only just above average but will never know until I get to a pussie able to take them.. Something I have on my 'to do ' list.. MrJJPS.. I have never had my hand (or fingers) on or in a pussy I felt was big enough to even try ? Maybe I've just found the wrong type of woman. lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'justjuice' You hit the nail right on the head. No tricks... Nothing magic .. For the lady who has a generous pussy, and the man who has smallish hands, this would be great fun and very erotic. But in the reverse, if the lady has a smallist pussy and her man has large hands its not gunna work to well. Not that Im talking through experience except the time I did try, I got to 3 -4 fingers and that was it. Mrs JJ was just so uncomfortable and has never really wanted to back there again. So Im still yet to experience the pleasure. I think my hands are only just above average but will never know until I get to a pussie able to take them.. Something I have on my 'to do ' list.. MrJJPS.. I have never had my hand (or fingers) on or in a pussy I felt was big enough to even try ? Maybe I've just found the wrong type of woman. lol it has to be about her pleasure, first and foremost.its not about 'generous' pussies or small hands at all, its about trust and arousal........ if its something that you want, but which shes not 100% comfortable with and keen to explore, its just never going to work. there's one very important ingredient that is absolutely necessary for success, and that's her AROUSAL, without which, its doomed. its also about slow, and well lubricated, and communication, and trust, and patience, and perseverance, and tolerance of some discomfort, and arousal, and its about HER, never you, always about her and how she feels. if your wife doesnt want to go back there, then respect that and move on, let her tell you if and when she'd like to explore more........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    No one is more respectfull to a woman than I. There is no way I would do anything to any woman who was not consenting or comfortable with whatever it was we were trying to do. Fisting is not one of the most important things on top of Mrs JJs list and there is no pressure from me to do anything she's not comfortable with and never has been.However' I still think there are woman with more ' generous pussies' than others, the same as ther is guys with more generous dicks than others. Just as you cant put square things in round holes, not everyone is suitable.Im not overlooking all you had to say to achieve the said results.. makes total sense... I just havnt came across the right girl yet... lol..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    But it's something that I'd love to do and would be a big turn on...I guess it's more something I'd like to tick of my list of to-do's one day ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It happened to me for the first time yesterday and OMG! It was fantastic! I had never wanted to even talk about it before but there had been hours of sex and all of a sudden he had half his hand inside me... it felt amazing so I decided to try it - he went very very slowly and with extra lube although I was as wet as anything... We ended up doing it twice and both times I came hard... Bit tender today but its something we'll do again.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Andraxx'But it's something that I'd love to do and would be a big turn on...I guess it's more something I'd like to tick of my list of to-do's one day ;-) Maybe there are two things you could tick off your list if you came to visit me.... lol...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Its alot like anal. Time, patience, consideration, timing, lube, lube ,lube. The attraction for me is seeing a woman getting soooo aroused, so wet, completely lost in the moment and in total ecstasy. Theres nothing perverse about it. Its incredibly personal and intimate. The most important factor, as with almost every forum, is the right partner or playmate.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    OK, so I'm not a bloke. However, I have fisted a woman before and oh my god yes, it is a HUGE turn on.The lead up, the foreplay, the wetness of the lube (if required), else the wetness of her cunt, the moaning and writhing as you tease and torment her and play with her g-spot, slowly putting more fingers in, working hand in and out, up and til that point where she's pushing against you demanding you shove your hand inside her. Right. Now.And then, once the hand is in, if that g-spot pressure makes her gush everywhere in front of (all over) you face, well even better.I still have a scar at the base of my twat where I tried so hard to get an exes hand inside me (he does have Hulk! Smash! hands) and it just never happened... was a lot of fun trying though even though going to the toilet for the next week hurt like a MF.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I will just follow this thread and note the guys who like it. Cause I don't ... Never have n never will go there... Just saying.. sweetpetite41