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First time with another woman
January 11 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
But I'll be watching this thread...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey babe, I have no idea what to say here except please tell me what, how, when was it for u the first time cos i soooo wanna try this!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
So are you sexually attracted to me?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some people may feel that they have been 'put on the spot', Maybe just let it be known that you prefer to meet first and play on subsequent dates if all goes well. If you feel at the end of the evening that you would like to see them again then just say "I'd love to see you again, you've got my number so don't be afraid to use it", if all is going really well and you pick up vibes that she is also feeling the same way you could always let her know that you find her so attractive you are willing to bend the rules...
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RHP User
13 years ago
then you could afterwards send a text along the lines of...next time I want to fuck your brains out...if you are so inclinedIt also helps to have a conversation that goes...I'm new to this and I'm not really used to reading other women's signals...and when you say goodbye you could give a hug or kiss to gauge the heat levels.Good Luck!
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RHP User
13 years ago
a) someone has to be the initiator (he actually said someone has to be the 'guy' but you know what I mean LOL). If she's not making any moves, she's not going to be the 'guy' so it's up to you b) slowly building comfort and closeness works a whole lot better than just diving right in. Starting with a few light casual touches, a hand on the arm when you pay a compliment, sitting a little closer than you would with a friend you don't want to bone, i.e. if you're both going to sit together on a couch sit in the middle so your thighs are right next to each other rather than sitting at opposite ends. You'll see that she's not into you if she doesn't look happy when you put your hand on her arm or she keeps scooting as far away from you as possible. If she seems responsive, after a level of comfort is established, I've had a lot of success with a simple smile and asking, 'Can I kiss you?'. People tend to relax a bit once you're kissingIt works just as we'll on shy guys as it does on women.xx Sarah
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'a) someone has to be the initiator (he actually said someone has to be the 'guy' but you know what I mean LOL). If she's not making any moves, she's not going to be the 'guy' so it's up to you b) slowly building comfort and closeness works a whole lot better than just diving right in. Starting with a few light casual touches, a hand on the arm when you pay a compliment, sitting a little closer than you would with a friend you don't want to bone, i.e. if you're both going to sit together on a couch sit in the middle so your thighs are right next to each other rather than sitting at opposite ends. You'll see that she's not into you if she doesn't look happy when you put your hand on her arm or she keeps scooting as far away from you as possible.If she seems responsive, after a level of comfort is established, I've had a lot of success with a simple smile and asking, 'Can I kiss you?'. People tend to relax a bit once you're kissingIt works just as we'll on shy guys as it does on women.xx Sarah May I also add that...it's intriguing to me, that women know women, but are lost when it comes to being with them??
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's because we're used to men, and men are simple creatures :P Seriously, tho, women use more nonverbal communication and subtext, so I'm always overanalysing and second guessing with girls unless they're the forward type like me :\
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yup we are simple....we prefer English 😛 whereas, as you say you're non-verbal....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with XS the simple thing so that there is no confusion on either side, would be after about 10-15 mins just come straight out and ask the question. Can you let us know what happened???? I am soooo wanting to met another Bicurious lady and have this experience with my partner......
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with XS the simple thing so that there is no confusion on either side, would be after about 10-15 mins just come straight out and ask the question. Can you let us know what happened???? I am soooo wanting to met another Bicurious lady and have this experience with my partner......
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
You will know if it is right! And if in doubt - just keep seeing her socially abit more
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'It's because we're used to men, and men are simple creatures :PSeriously, tho, women use more nonverbal communication and subtext, so I'm always overanalysing and second guessing with girls unless they're the forward type like me :\Miss Sarah has it in one! And yes, I overanalyse and second guess as well when it comes to women :/ Men are so much simpler to gauge in that respect.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Two examples... I am not in to ladies, nor would I call myself bi-curious but I appreciate a sexy woman and.....'why not' My guy and I arranged a date with another couple at a strip club.... as soon as I met her I knew I wanted it to be a fun foursome. The soft touching, the smiles and looks etc showed she was in to me as much as I was her. To me, it's just like meeting a guy you had arranged a booty call with... Another female I am current corresponding with to join my guy and I for a threesome is pushing my buttons too. We have spoken on the phone about what we want in a threesome and have sent her quite a few texts. I feel I already know her and when we meet (very soon!!) it will seem so natural. Don't panic about things. Things will be natural just as if you were meeting a guy. If she has agreed to meet you I say it would be ok to touch her just like you would touch as a friend. A soft touch on the arm or a welcome kiss greeting. You're on RHP so you are obviously open and adventurous.. you'll read the signs girlfriend! Good luck xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
As a respectful unicorn I would like to think I can tell. Doesn't take a rocket scientist to see apprehension in a woman's eyes/body language (or a man's for that matter) Neither is it rocket science to see if they are flirting with you and ..... OP, is this a 1on1 girls situation? Sit back, asses how she feels. It's also about YOU, just as if it would be with any other potential playmate. I haven't looked at your profile but just meet for a drink! What the worst that can happen? You both have a girlie chat about the naughty stuff you've been up to? YAY!!! NO EXPECTATIONS!!!!
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