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First straight mfm threesome or gangbang
May 29 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
In all seriousness going straight to gangbang is pretty full on if you have never had any group action and you and the BF haven't sorted out your boundaries. Why not attend a gangbang as an observer and see what it's like. See if the reality is for you or not.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well MFM is our main kink we love it. There are no rules no boundaries except safe sex and "no" means no. As for positions look at some MFM porn for ideas, its actually all pretty straight forward stuff from the "spit roast" to DP. The "safe word" is juvenile crap, if either of you don't like something then say " hey I don't like that", or if the Mrs needs a break then say "hey I need a break", or " you better put a condom on that" Hopefully you are both very comfortable with cum flying everywhere cause that is what happens. Ideally you as a couple should be giving some light direction to the +1, ie; you can spank her harder, she loves to bitten hard etc, it helps a lot. Kissing is a must, there is not a lot hotter than your woman going from one to the other. As for a starting point stick with a few MFM sessions to get comfortable with having an extra male. Then those males you are comfortable playing with can join you in a gangbang. Oh and last of all make it a long session like 5/6 hours at least, as the first hour or so involves a lot of talking, flirting and most importantly kissing. Best of luck
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Katkat
10 years ago
Haven't found the right person yet sort of did but looks he's attached already oh well might have to wait for the right person later someone who I will feel comfortable with, respect, also pleasure me to max! 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeah gonna do mfm first . Bf has mentioned two rules so far the other guy cannot kiss or lick me and once off with a guy no repeat performances :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The repeat performances I get as that is my rule with the wife (that and safe sex), however the kissing and licking rule signals warning bells re jealousy, hopefully that's not the case as that'd make your little venture into a train wreck
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
Ensure that you fully communicate your feelings before starting . Establish any boundaries , rules , likes / dislikes and concerns that you , the female , may have . It's not just about your bf having rules for what others may / may not do to you , but most important you must also have a say and establish your own set of rules. If you don't want to do something then ensure that he / they understand that NO means NO. If you don't want to kiss another guy, then don't let anyone force you to . Establish YOUR own pace . Don't let anyone tell you how long you need to go on for. Remember that this is generally always about the woman . What the woman wants , pleasuring the woman , but also ensuring that she feels safe and not simply used and treated like a piece of meat. Jumping straight into a gangbang situation, as beginners, is quite risky as a lot could go wrong , as the more people that are involved , the easier it is to lose control and for example one of the guys may end up kissing / licking you in the heat of the moment , and then this might freak out your boyfriend and things could then go pear shaped from there. Perhaps first start with a gentle MFM 3 some with someone you have carefully vetted and briefed on your combined ground rules. Remember it's not just about your boyfriend having a good time, but most importantly you need to have a good time. All too often, in swinging, it's the guy that pushes the girl into it . Don't let that happen to you . - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
No kissing, no licking /oral and no repeat performances ? Does he have something to fear ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I read the "BF Rules" --I would suggest ... "Don't go there..."I reckon he MAY be a little insecure about it.. and it may not end too well.....Just reading between the lines....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'shba2727' Yeah gonna do mfm first . Bf has mentioned two rules so far the other guy cannot kiss or lick me and once off with a guy no repeat performances :) - Posted from rhpmobile With those rules it sounds like you are there just to suck and be fucked.....nice.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Personally we don't have an issue with the no kissing with extra males.Mrs Adelaide finds kissing intimate and she has no desire to be intimate with another male, when we have a extra guy it's purely about sex not intimacy licking, is essential though, however when it's a female we are entertaining it's both sex and intimacy as we know females enjoy both (not all of course). However, OP's partner's rules ring a few alarm bells, while he is entertaining the idea of a MFM it sounds like he has some trust issues which may rear their head during the course of a meet. I'd suggest more talk, then talk some more and maybe go for a drink with another guy with no play and see how the boyfriend reacts. Definitely don't jump in a gangbang for your first experience as it's not for everyone and if he is even remotely jealous his head will explode. There is nearly nothing worse than seeing a jealous partner at a party or club, ruins the night.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Having concerns is normal! Don't let everyone freak you out. But it's definitely good idea to take it slow. Go to some sex events and clubs or parties and see how you feel about the scene. You don't have to commit to anything which reduces nerves and the pressure to perform. I have heard that Saints and Sinners events in Melb are good. Have you been to that? Or some of the local swingers clubs?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sounds like there are quite a few spoken or unspoken ''rules'' being put in place even before your get there or make an attempt to start. For both of you, you've ''got to want to want it'' or it's a bit like driving your car over a 100 metre cliff and expecting a good result. Easy does it and a healthy discussion may well be in order. Old axiom? If your can't talk about it you sure won't be able to do it. Be well.....
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
The rules are a concern as they can be an indicator of insecurity and/or jealousy. What concerns me more is what an earth is in it for the bloke? He can't kiss you, he can't go down on you...what the fuck is he meant to do??? Unfortunately it is not only what you two want, but what the other guy wants as well. Oh ok...answered my own question. ..fuck you and leave. You will find many that will rise to that challenge....but how do YOU feel about those rules which basically set you up for being a fuck and go? Don't even think about going near a gang bang until you have sorted some of this out...and bf has gotten used to seeing you with other men.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Negotiate your own rules. If no licking or kissing is ok with you... Then that's your experience and your rules. Many people on here don't post on the forums but will send you private messages saying they are compatible with what you are seeking :) as you explore your boundaries further and get comfortable with your sexuality you will find you will probably loosen your boundaries and explore more. We wish you the best of luck on your journey Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
We too have a wonder on the rules that have been set of no kissing or licking. When we looked at this we asked, "What no kissing", and then we read, "what not licking either...." We obviously like to have kissing and licking in our meets, which we must say we have never experienced together so far, only separately....but hoping to experience. We would like to ask......Is it you that wants to involve other men or is it your BF? If it is you that has suggested this, and BF has set the rules then we agree that there could be some jealousy you should both talk about first that you will need to iron out first before you jump into your first "other" experience. We also agree with some others here, that perhaps you should attend an event as an onlooker or try to see if you can request to be a watcher in another couples mfm, where there is kissing and licking just to see the body language, expressions and comments from those participating. If after this, you find some things that you just don't like......talk about it. If the rules still stand, then this will be something that you both must agree to and like.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'MsJonesy' What concerns me more is what an earth is in it for the bloke? He can't kiss you, he can't go down on you...what the fuck is he meant to do??? Unfortunately it is not only what you two want, but what the other guy wants as well. Oh ok...answered my own question. ..fuck you and leave. You will find many that will rise to that challenge....but how do YOU feel about those rules which basically set you up for being a fuck and go? my thoughts exactly
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RHP User
10 years ago
He explained it more like keeping those two things between us - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dont go down this path. Your bf isnt ready mentaly. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Paradisepair
10 years ago
I find your boyfriend's rules a bit odd, I get the no kissing but no licking confuzzes me a bit. If you're clear and up front before you head to the bedroom everyone knows what's expected. It's important to search for the right respectful guy and to give respect to them. They're gifting you as much as you're giving them something... Or that's how I see it...
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HotandBig
10 years ago
Just from my experience by being with many great couples and having the opportunity to explore the amazing sexual intimacy by being included as the 2nd Male is an AMAZING Experience each and every time.. LOVE IT! I find it that Couples which explore this side and include a 3rd person or more are more likely to have a stronger relationship and be more honest / open with each other than regular couples that do not explore this side of sexual experience. Also there sex life is AMAZING As a Couple!! This is from my angle and perspective! The Only thing is that couples do need to feel confident enough that there will not be any jealousy by having another party involved. I usually have never ever met a couple that has been jealous of each other .. so all PERFECT from my end. Hope i have helped in some way. xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
We finally did it :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
You aren't really going to keep us all in suspense like that are you? Details! When, how and with how many for starters. 😜
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