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First Girl on Girl Experience
May 31 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
i respect your honesty and i believe this is what the forum is all about, asking for advice, or clarification on certain topics. its not so esy . My first time with a girl was very exciting, but she was a lesbian, and quite dominant,,a memory i wont forget. i think just be open and honest and tell the other girl its your first time, then i feel sure she will take it slowly.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi darls, I think it would be a wise choice to go with someone a little more experienced for your first time... just until you can get your confidence up a little. My first time was with a girl much more experienced than me and I was so nervous I was shaking for at least for the first hour! Then I think ( or like to think) that i got my groove on a little and everything fell into place.... and from there I haven't looked back......hope that kinda helps! All the best xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sounded like you had fun Northchina...i think me needs to look for a dom lesbian lol.... .... Had my first experience some weeks ago, and now i want more,but its so hard to find someone who can maybe lead the way.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'd say experiment with someone you are very attracted to and who is very attracted to you. When there is chemistry, the rest should follow naturally. Same as when you are with a man, but it is slower and more sensual and exploratory. . Have fun with it x
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RogueGeek
15 years ago
Thanks for asking this because I am in the same situation. I really, really want to be with a girl but don't know which way to go! I like the idea of being with somebody just as clueless as me, so that we can be awkward together, but then it would be great to have somebody to learn from... Would love to know what you decide and how everything turns out. Cheers, MS (the female half)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Know just what you mean Chilli. ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Know just what you mean Chilli. ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Know just what you mean Chilli. ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Know just what you mean Chilli. ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Then it will make no difference whatsoever that she is a female. . I agree with what Irresponsibility has said here. It is very much the same as with any man that you connect with. Your sexual confidence doesn't evaporate just because you are with a woman. If you make a great connection and the planets align to see you get naked together, no amount (or lack of) experience will be relevant. . The very first thing I ever uttered after my first experience with another woman was that it was softer, sensual and very very comfy. To my surprise at the time, there was not one ounce of "Am I doing this right", "Oh God, what will they think of my technique" or any other typical thought you might have with a new sexual partner ... It was just ... nice. . Oh, and Chilli, if you fall short on camels, sing out. I'll chuck in (and pay my own airfare!) . Flirty x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thank you to everyone who has responded. I really appreciate you sharing your experiences.As ridiculous as it sounds, Chilli's comment about waiting for the right girl to knock my socks off and not just experimenting for the sake of it has really made me re-think my motives. Yes of course I should be incredibly attracted to the girl - hell, that will make things much easier for me! I wouldn't have sex with just any guy - I need to find them attractive ..... so I should be equally choosy with a girl. Thank you so much for pointing out the obvious! Now.... just need to find that hottie! Bella x
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RHP User
15 years ago
My first time was incredibly un expected .. it was bloody amazing!! It felt sooo natural to me. It felt like i had a firework made of packed orgasms ready to blast off!!I wer nervous at first dont get me wrong. But as the clothes slipped off and the nuzzling on my ear lobe came swiftly i felt at ease and damn sexy!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree you need to find someone who you find really hot. My first gf I feel in lust with at first sight. I think we went on a few dates before we first had sex. She was an experienced lesbian, I thought I was lesbian but had only ever been with guys before. Sex with her was incredible and remained incredible throughout our relationship. After our first night I "knew" I was lesbian However now I find myself on the other side. After over a decade of just being with women I have started fantasising about men and wondering if I should act on this and if so how... I wonder why my sexuality is changing and if it is a permanent change. Maybe it's just because I've only had bad sex or no sex for the past 4 years... last gf our sex life dried up about 18 months before we split up and prior to that it was very mediocre. If she had been my first I don't think I would have ever identified as lesbian. So definately wait until you feel that incredible connection where just looking at her makes you wet (that was how I felt the moment I first laid eyes on my first girlfriend - after dozens of emails leading up to that first meet). I miss feeling that turned on by anyone. Best wishes
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes attraction is first and foremost then when chemistry is there it all happens naturally...check out bibrunettes' profile:)
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