Finding people to talk to

December 15 2024

So being newbies we say hi to different people but 90% we get nothing back not even a sorry your not what im looking for message or anything. Is this normal? Or an i missing somthing. ?

Comments

  • Pangolin28

    Pangolin28

    a month ago

    Well you two have a great profile and so good to see both of you in your photos. I think everyone here gets the nothing thing back I know I do constantly. But there is so much to choose from and peoples have there preferences. Absolutely nothing wrong and you are not missing something as far as I am concerned with your profile. But sometimes it takes a while to connect here. So just keep at it and I am sure it will happen for you. Many here also believe that a no reply is a no interest which I think is a bit shitty. But that is just my opinion. The age gap between yourselves may also put some off, who knows. So good luck to the two of you and I hope you find what you seek

  • Pangolin28

    Pangolin28

    a month ago

    Sorry forgot to say. Jump in the chat room as that will help people see who you are as people

  • Primal_Curiosity

    Primal_Curiosity

    a month ago

    Yeah. Digital dating is all about selling volume so yes is a yes and everything else is a no.

  • seekandplay

    seekandplay

    a month ago

    It’s very normal. Let me give you an insight into what it’s like getting messages here: puts a photo up of just my legs…. Gets about 400+ messages as a new comer. Am I going to reply to all of them? Unfortunately not. By absolute chance, I found my little gem of a man amongst the hundreds and hundreds of messages sitting in my inbox. You’ll need thick skin in the world of RHP, but keep at it and you’ll get there! (This is also under the assumption you’re sending respectful messages to begin with. If not, that’s a whole different response!) Good luck!

  • AdventurousEmily

    AdventurousEmily

    a month ago

    Your profile is great and really shows off your personalities, so I doubt that's the issue. As others have said, it's probably just about the volume of messages people get. We get everything from "hey" to dickenisan novels and we just don't have the time to reply "no thank you, but good luck" to every single message, as much as we'd like to.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    a month ago

    What's normal?
    Yes, people don't have to reply.

    Ms Foxy

  • friendseeker

    friendseeker

    a month ago

    This site is full of fakes and time wasters. There are genuine lovely people here too. I know as I have met them. It is harder for people in the country. Be verified. Only choose to chat to verified profiles. Aim to meet in person as it sorts the chaff out from the wheat. Best of luck x

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    a month ago

    No reply is a reply... They're not interested.

  • ReyandJean

    ReyandJean

    a month ago

    IRL is the go

  • Ex007

    Ex007

    a month ago

    1 no response is a response we all get it just move on.

    2 you live in Kingaroy people don't often travel unless it to the city for play dates.

    3 there is nothing in your profile about you travelling to or go on a city break to meet people. E.g. We will be in Brisbane from the**to the **

    4 there's no mention as to if you can or are happy to host.

    Generally, people like to have a no-pressure meet and greet a week before any play dates. Being a way away from the coast would make this difficult. When there is already a large portion of people to play with on the coast maybe people just pass your profile by as being too hard logistically.

  • justlookcat

    justlookcat

    a month ago

    very hard to find geniune people that like to keep the conversation .a lot of teezes on those site or people who only get excited watching pics they lost not ours

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    a month ago

    Just wanted to say, I have been on here for awhile and there are alot of time wasters, just want some fun but can't get it, just not liken that, some only want to have fun in the morning or daylight, it's not my thing to do.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    a month ago

    Honestly 90% of people on here are either fakes or flakes.

    We hate the mantra of "no answer is an answer" it's toxic bullshit used by selfish people to avoid accountability. The only up side is that you wouldn't want to play with these people because they don't bring anything to the table.

    Honestly your best bet is to start attending events. It's what we are doing because we are tired of all the people who couldn't communicate openly and honestly with a gun to their head. Meeting people in person puts everyone in a better position to get to know each other and decide if everyone wants to move forward.

    Some tips to help you online though.

    Only talk to verified accounts
    Don't show any nsfw pics until you've done a quick video chat with everyone involved to show that everyone is real. Most "couples" here are just husbands whose wives have no clue.
    If they give excuses as to why they can't video chat, chances are they are lying. We just tell them... "ok, let us know when you can do it" and we leave it there. None have reached out to organise a video chat after that.

    Sorry you're having your time wasted. Just so you know if you messaged us we wouldn't leave you on read. You seem pretty genuine which is a rare thing here.

    Good luck in your journey.

  • AGuyCalledMax

    AGuyCalledMax

    23 days ago

    Having looked at your profile I would say that finding another couple means basically all 4 of you need to be attracted to each other. We gave up responding to many because from what all the men had written was extremely dull, meaning if there was no connection.
    Have made an amazing connection with another couple though, but that was out of 100s. I’m sure you want quality over quantity. I’m sure you’ll find your people soon.

  • Ellie67

    Ellie67

    22 days ago

    Hi, new to this site but unable to verify my account as it says i have to change my camera settings. Means i cant reply to messages that I've wanted to & possibly why this has happened to you... Any advice welcome.