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Finding couples for bi mmf fun???
September 04 2015
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
But like anything, just because you fill a description doesnt automatically get you a saddlecloth in the fuck everyone stakes. Most need an attraction and some sort of feel right connection.
RHP User
9 years ago
We actively searched for single men when we were still playing and physically you were just what we were looking for. Unfortunately the way you communicated let you down.
It's all about respect. Don't give up, just improve.
x T&SRHP User
9 years ago
Having lots of fun
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
As one half of a bi duo with a fwb on another site, I can say that it was extremely hard for us to find a compatible single bi male. As Tryst_ has said, the physical is there, but then the messages just lost our interest as we found the focus leant heavily towards the female half, and the " yeah Im really bi" suddenly changed to " I will fuck your lady for hrs, I love pussy", if I wanted a mfm, I would look for straight guys. So I dont know if you might be doing the same thing as we had found, but its just what we experienced quite a lot.
RHP User
9 years ago
Experience is what you get, after you need it!!
RHP User
9 years ago
Congrats for taking that on the chin, well played. I seem to remember various quotes along the line of "I don't agree with personal messages being made public" A comment could have been made without torching you... And should have. Hp xo Because you're worth it...
RHP User
9 years ago
Hey genuine4couple. I was keen just to experience this as a first timer and found myself considering couples who were interested but not so well matched at first. I put a lot of effort into my profile writing exactly about what I was after, but moreso, who I was after, as well as a lot about myself. It paid off in the end with Mr&Mrs C_S being able to identify that I was exactly the type of person they were looking for as well, we messaged a bit to feel it out, then met, & the rest is history. Why not try giving a bit more of yourself in your profile and see if your chances improve? Best of luck.
RHP User
9 years ago
Congrats for taking that on the chin, well played. I seem to remember various quotes along the line of "I don't agree with personal messages being made public" A comment could have been made without torching you... And should have. Single guys in particular cop a steep learning curve in here, i hope that you are judged in future by how you ARE. I wish you every success 👍🏼 Hp xo Because you're worth it...
QLDtwo4fun
9 years ago
Bi girls are accepted and wanted, bi guys are not. Guys have to be more discrete about being bi, even as part of a couple it puts off some other couples. And, it's also about definitions, what does bi actually mean. Do you mean you could be happy with either a male of female life partner, or just that your comfortable with MM contact in a group setting.
RHP User
9 years ago
hey op!
we are currently focussing on trying to hunt down at least one bi guy for ongoing mmf meets, and I can tell you that if you were in W.A. we would skip straight over your profile simply because your 'about me' section is so short...
we do understand lots of different people have different boxes that must be ticked for you to stay on the short list, and whilst vague and broad profiles may get a bit more initial attention, you may also find that the initial interest tends to progress at a much slower rate... what I'm trying to say is that by being descriptive and specific about yourself and what you are after may yield fewer cases of contact being made, but the rate at which those initial contacts turns into initial meets should go up ;)
good luck!RHP User
9 years ago
why not get a TS to join you?
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
We too are looking for genuine bi couple or bi male to join us for some fun but are finding it difficult we seem to get a few interests then try to organize a play date only to be let down
RHP User
9 years ago
We are searching for a full bi couple we find attractive, think it's more guys are scared they may enjoy it.. So hard to find
- Posted from rhpmobile
Dimeshreds
9 years ago
Most of my threesome experiences have been two guys and a girl, two out of the five have not had MM contact but I had the feeling one of them wanted to but we couldn't pluck up the courage on the first meet. Out of the other three I had regular contact with two of them and it got hotter every time.
It has only been oral so far with all the bi MMF couples but the Mrs of a couple wants to buy a strap on and I am her guinea pig as her Mr is straight so I could be in for one heck of a night!!! #lubeitup
This was only from last summer so I can't wait for this one coming.RHP User
9 years ago
What do you consider a let down? Couples looking for a bi guy tend to be difficult to organise because of time constraints. Normally bi guys are not single, and couples have to be descreet , so timing is an issue. There there is comfort thing. It is hard for a single guy to cross over a couple territory and equally concerning is a couple not landing a freak.
RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'chase_us' We too are looking for genuine bi couple or bi male to join us for some fun but are finding it difficult we seem to get a few interests then try to organize a play date only to be let down id be keen!
RHP User
9 years ago
Usually couples are looking to be discreet as well as organise it around their personal life constraints, such as family, work, etc.And yes, it helps to take the time to fill out your profile, especially in regard to who you are and what you seek.Agree that many of the guys who portray themselves on here as bi are stretching the truth, whilst in my experience, very many of the straight men in couples are not adverse to some guy on guy fun.Just take time to compose a decent message, be respectful and deal with rejection gracefully.It is worth the patience as when you find those great couples, it is fantastic.
RHP User
9 years ago
I've gone the other way by just making my profile about exploring bi as i've has some fantastic experiences.
As people have said the first time meeting etc can be daunting to find a compatible bi male.. with every meeting after that the fun heightens as the trust does.
Critiquing your profile - I would remove "you know who you are" and change up and take a different approach with the "I am looking for section"RHP User
9 years ago
I had a fwb that loved bi MMF threesomes, unsure how she did it but she seemed to find every bi guy there was on different sites in our area. There was a lot of fun to be had those few months. However on my own it has taken a few failed attempts and a few no shows and a couple of email ping pongs and even me losing interest a few times too, but there have been some enjoyable evenings had with couples.
RHP User
9 years ago
I have found it very hard found one great couple but lost contact with them as i went on a big holiday. Alot say they want bi MMF fun but when it comes down to it they chicken out. So Pete and Di if u are out there please contact me as i miss are fun night.
RHP User
9 years ago
We started a long time ago looking for just a bi male, what a nightmare! All we found were lying, disrespectful, unreliable, pushy and rude men, very few of whom were actually bi! Yes we heard the "I am not like that, don't judge us all by past experiences" line multiple times also. We now seek ONLY couples like us where the male prefers women but is hopefully at least curious to have some bi interaction in the mix. We then know the other lady is ok with it, get to have dinner and share some time outside the bed and both ladies get to watch, have an MMF or all four can play when we get into bed.
RHP User
9 years ago
You need a bi CD TV TS they would love the attention and are happy to please both of you. As long as they are pleased, but respect is essential and ensuring that person is safe. I'd love time with a couple like that BUT I want to be involved in the seduction, time at dinner, coffee, drinks even dancing building the tension, not just hi fuck see ya...it would not do it for me 1 of you would be disappointed
RHP User
9 years ago
Even with this kind of variation to the threesome,I'm finding it difficult to locate an interested guy,that will actually turn up, and be comfortable and mature enough to play with both ladies....!!!!
FunSexyCple
9 years ago
We are a bi couple and it's hard for us as well. Many bi curious guys are not really into another guy when you put them in the situation. We love to share cock and cum so its disappointing when a prospect finds he is just too nervous to play with the male. Good luck and feel free to message us sometime. :-)
RHP User
9 years ago
Bi guy living in Canningvale can host
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'FunSexyCple' We are a bi couple and it's hard for us as well. Many bi curious guys are not really into another guy when you put them in the situation. We love to share cock and cum so its disappointing when a prospect finds he is just too nervous to play with the male. Good luck and feel free to message us sometime. :-) Id love to meet you 2
hotmarriedcouple
9 years ago
It is hard to find. My hubby is not gay - but loves to suck a cock with me. It is a real turn on. He likes to kiss me cuckold style after I have sucked another guys cock. Hot
RHP User
9 years ago
We have had plenty of MFM threesomes, not one was genuinely bi....despite the promises.
RHP User
9 years ago
You're listed as straight
RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Fr33Spirits'
You're listed as straight
Shot down in a ball of flames ..... lolI'd say that's why OP is having issues finding MMF fun ;)AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Straight males pretending to be bi. Think they can give a dick a lick then move onto the sexy female. Unaware that they may be subject to some pain in the arse before you pass GO......
So OP, if your bi, just say so in your profile.RHP User
9 years ago
The majority of people that look up my profile, then the number that flirt or message me that are:
Straight & Seeking a Woman is in the majority compared to those seeking TV/TS etc
Who are we to judge others, there is a very small moral compass on these sites.
But there should be some rules if you want to meet
a) Don't ask someone to meet if you are not ready to meetb) If you say you are a couple BE a couple not a guy only - come on guys what girl is going to let their partner choose for her .. be more likely the other way aroundc) If you say your Bi - your bi...if your curious say so..then you will get a better match up
Ok we don't have to divulge our life but when it comes to sex we need to be honest and consider the other person. Hence my rather long winded description of what i'm after in my profile
Cheers ... enough of Alice for todayRHP User
9 years ago
Seems that the more messages and closer to meeting, the less bisexual the guy becomes.
Mrs OpalRHP User
9 years ago
Its just as hard for a bi guy to find a couple that enjoy watching two guys sucking cock and receiving anal
RHP User
9 years ago
Its just as hard for a bi guy to find a couple that enjoy watching two guys sucking cock and receiving anal
RHP User
9 years ago
Hotmarriedcouple we are in the same situation hubby is not gay and apart from sucking a cock with me has no interest in guys at all it's a shame there are not more couples in Australia that can except that straight guys can enjoy helping their wife suck a cock without being attracted to males. We have found that the USA and Europe are years in front when it comes to involving this in couples play
cbdlivin
9 years ago
The issue of finding the compatible bi guy to bi guy in couple, so many dynamics to be considered.
As a bisexual guy, I am sexually attracted to hard cock, like playing with a good hard cock but I am not attracted to guys, as a forum member said to me once sexual attraction vs romantic attraction I like woman and in a MMF I am very happy as get to play with a nice cock and a nice pussy, and sometimes further depending on how horny things get.
With the couple both the female and male have to be comfortable with you as a bi guy, and like you enough to want to play. If one does not it usually is a disaster. Then of course finding out the level of bisexual play between the guys, and this is driven by the couple, you are the third wheel of second cock, depending on how you see it. It might just be sucking cock or there might be anal play, and that needs to be clarified...a bit of a party downer sliding a cock into an inviting arse when there was no invitation.
Of course if the bi guy is more orientated towards males, sometimes a reminder not to ignore the female as I have heard happen, everyone deserves the same attention and everyone should feel totally fucked at the end.RHP User
9 years ago
So true white opal. It's amazing how many will just say one thing but turn out to be something else.....
mixtures
9 years ago
Is there couples here who genuinely seek a bi guys as I am seeking them also.
- Posted from rhpmobilecbdlivin
9 years ago
Quoting 'mixtures'
Is there couples here who genuinely seek a bi guys as I am seeking them also.
- Posted from rhpmobile
You are really hoping with that line...Bi girls for couples are called Unicorns because they are rare and do not seem to exist, this of course is the issue of supply and demand lots of couples wanting bi girls and a finite number of bi girls who have the choice in their hands.
BI guys and couples, there are quite a few couples looking for bi guys but here you could call the bi guys locust as the swarm in their multitude around the couples and here the couples are limited so they get to choose.RHP User
9 years ago
Me and my wife have the same problem to what most of you are, we had a mmf threesome we both wanted to do this but the guy who met with and almost all others interested in meeting us are more interested in putting one through my wife Than they are about playing with me as well, it's never split its quite frustrating.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
9 years ago
Giggles at willow coming out 😇
RHP User
9 years ago
Lol at coming out. I was never in. Haha.
twowithnolimits
9 years ago
We find it interesting that people seem to have so many problems, the number of bi men on here is huge!! That includes the 50% of straight guy who don;t want to scare of a nervous woman or couple.
It is certainly the case that some try it on to get to the woman but some careful correspodence and a willing ness to put your foot down will take care of that..
Happy hunting/playingRHP User
9 years ago
As we have read a few replies on here, this is our experience.....
We put a date on date finder saying we are looking for a bi male to join us, there was only going to be mm bi fun while Mrs Two_who_wan2play only watched... no participation. We received about 12 messages from a range of guys, most stated in their profiles that they are straight..... nothing in their profiles said anything about mmf bi play. A few stated that they would fuck Mrs Two_who_wan2play, well a lot of guys don't know how to read and are only interested in pictures. We are now not looking for a single bi male, but will look for bi couples so from the lack of respect from a few , other single guys will now miss out on us sharing each other with them.
Mr Two_who_wan2play had been on here for a few years as a single bi guy before meeting Mrs Two_who_wan2play, and had some great experiences, unfortunately, as a bi couple, we have only been disappointed with the way guys think that they are god's gift and didn't bother to read our profile.
If you can't make a date then don't select interest.... We found that about 3 that selected interest in our date where not even in Perth and had no intention of being able to make it yet still wanted to see our private pictures.......
We suggest to any single guy that is bi, bi curious, or experimental, to express that in their profile and be honest... come on guys, we are in 2016 not 1916....... Bi, gay or anything in between is more accepted now that a lie will ever be.....
Oh and btw genuine4couple, you have straight stated on your profile under Intimate details. Why would a couple looking for a bi male even consider you when that is not what you are saying..... To us, from reading your profile, we get the impression that you only interested in MMF and not MMF Bi play.RHP User
9 years ago
Agree with you on the high percentage of guys here (and on other sites) that will contact and say they are bi or curious. And also agree that a little communication weeds out the dreamers. Ask them if they are a top/bottom or vers and get the reply,"i dont mind if a guy sucks my dick, as long as theres a woman there too." Lol. That happens way too often.
And I also can agree with two_who_wan2_play that during early communication, the "yes Im an experienced bi guy" starts chatting about how much they "love pussy, and can go down for hours...." Lol. And they dont bother asking anything about the male who factors in as half the deal here. Thats my own personal screening warning that it wont be a great experience.So keep looking. 😁cbdlivin
9 years ago
Quoting 'willow_2'
Agree with you on the high percentage of guys here (and on other sites) that will contact and say they are bi or curious. And also agree that a little communication weeds out the dreamers. Ask them if they are a top/bottom or vers and get the reply,"i dont mind if a guy sucks my dick, as long as theres a woman there too." Lol. That happens way too often.
And I also can agree with two_who_wan2_play that during early communication, the "yes Im an experienced bi guy" starts chatting about how much they "love pussy, and can go down for hours...." Lol. And they dont bother asking anything about the male who factors in as half the deal here. Thats my own personal screening warning that it wont be a great experience.So keep looking. 😁
A very true statement, of course I also would like to see pics of the guy as well. The couples profiles with both bi that only have pics of the woman can be just as frustrating when you are here for cock as well :)RHP User
9 years ago
I would love to meet a nice coupkevto play with who enjoy both giving me a good time and helping me learn more about sucking cocks and being a sub slave
RHP User
9 years ago
It's been a fantasy of mine to indulge in a bi-mmf encounter. Anyone in Perth looking I'd be happy to lend a hand and whatever other body parts may be required.
Hit me up.RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'danny_brown86'
why not get a TS to join you?
- Posted from rhpmobile
Absolutely the best of both worldsRHP User
9 years ago
we seem to find plenty of guys, most turn out to be straight. we know that finding bi females is never on impossible. as for bi couples well they seem to be same as dinasours..... extinct
RHP User
8 years ago
ITS SO DIFFICULT we're getting a headache looking for bi males anywhere near our age it SUCKS ( or... doesnt suck ;) )
RHP User
8 years ago
Sounds like we should chat
RHP User
8 years ago
Older head ache free lol
RHP User
8 years ago
Love to try full bi mmf...really like to get fucked as wifey sucks me while my ass is filled by hubby. Who's keen to chat??
RHP User
8 years ago
Love hear about your mmf experience. Hubby really fill the guys ass good?? Or hubby have his filled?? What's wifey get up to??
RHP User
8 years ago
For Bi's? ;)
Quoting 'Deviants_Ri_B'
ITS SO DIFFICULT we're getting a headache looking for bi males anywhere near our age it SUCKS ( or... doesnt suck ;) )
For Bi's?RHP User
8 years ago
We have the same difficulty as others, we have been messed about by lots of armchair players, dreamers wankers and serial pikers; and met men who misrepresent themselves one way or the other, and mostly ignore the male (more common) or the female (less common) according to their sexual preference. In one case the visitor seemed to think his role was to demonstrate his male dominance by taking control and vigorously fucking each of us in turn.
Our preference is for all to be involved at once, other couples may prefer the female to watch the men, or other variations. As discussed above, clarity about how you like to play, and some detailed discussion about previous experiences before meeting may help select the right person, though there isn't always time for this before a meet if you are travelling.
Genuinely bi men who are into men and women equally do seem to be hard to find.
Many men seem to discover (rediscover?) their sexual interest in other men in middle age, (see the Biaustralia site) so that may explain why the younger couple above have found it hard to find a playmate their own age.
Having said all that when it comes off, eg him-in-him-in-her and all cumming at once, it can be magic!RHP User
8 years ago
It's because any couple that has a bi guy will be frowned upon and shunned by other couples,it's almost as if the male of other couples is scared he may get a taste and like it, then afraid he won't be a man anymore ,you can tell the homophobe couples, there the ones with
I'm straight! In big letters on their profile, the are reminding themselvesRHP User
8 years ago
.....who has never had experience with another male it is terrifying but exciting at the prospect. Like I've said in my profile I am keen to experience but I have no idea if I am going to like it. I definitely know I want to suck some cock but I've tried a bit of penetration on myself with a dildo and I didn't really like it so I think it would just involving lots of sucking at the moment. I've been trying to get the attention of some Bi couples but it's hard work even getting a response.
RHP User
8 years ago
I am a bi guy and it seems hard to find cpls
RHP User
8 years ago
i agree, as a bi guy it is hard to find decent couples.
RHP User
8 years ago
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Hey people's online dating virgin here, up for grabs #1 flower lol question is tho how use gonna go bout owning it ;) mess, meet, feel complete that easyRHP User
8 years ago
I'm a body builder and I train an gay gyms. I'm married and I have a group of friends that always give me and my wife attention. I have a great set up I love big and muscle and found this works for me
RHP User
8 years ago
Very difficult! Never mind Bam loves his strap poundings ;)
TwoPlus
8 years ago
We are an adventurous, experimental real couple. We have been on RHP off and on for the last 2 yrs. We want to put these questions out there for all to read and look forward to any and all feed back.There are thousands of people, male and female on this site and other sites looking to enhance their sex lives in some way. You read ones profile, find that it suits your needs. You acknowledge with a wink or message…you spend the time messaging them, exchange phone numbers, text mess, then nothing, go figure. We find it confusing and frustrating.We've met with men, ok, photo's can be deceiving, they start talking and it's nothing like how they represent themselves via message or their profile. Why is it so hard to find a single male play mate?It's reminds us of the dog chasing a car, catching it and then they don't know what to do with it or a fishing expedition, just when you think your about to land a good catch…bang, its gone! Is it just us or do other couples and singles experience the same?We're an open book, very honest and very real as opposed to a number of false and misleading profiles we've come across. Look forward to and will appreciate any thoughts and or sugestions. Have a great day guys xx
RHP User
7 years ago
Was in a couple which we had some varied experiences, sometimes a guy having bi on their profile but just being into the girl when the moment came around.
As a single bi guy now I hope I can be able to make sure that when I find a couple wanting to explore and have a true "all in" experience that will not disappoint. :-)
Happy to help where I can ;-)RHP User
7 years ago
I am a single Bi-male and have never had trouble meeting couples for Bisexual fun. Arrows club in Sydney is a good place to hang out. i was there 2 nights ago and had sex with two married Bi couples, two BBW females and a single girl with a tranny friend.
RHP User
7 years ago
I’m bi and live bi mmf and couple play.
Currently looking for bi men to join me and my bi good looking male play friend!!! Msg me!
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Exceptional looks and or drugs.
Anything less and the chances are below 10%. Sad but true.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Hey, we're a couple looking for an mmf(bi) in Sydney.
If there's some bi guy ready for some action, let us know :)
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I'm from Sydney and very interested in what you're after :)
useme69
7 years ago
Quoting 'Cosmical'
We actively searched for single men when we were still playing and physically you were just what we were looking for. Unfortunately the way you communicated let you down.
It's all about respect. Don't give up, just improve.
x T&S
Sounds like he missed out on a good thingRHP User
7 years ago
I'm keen..
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Straight male here I’f couples interested
Tina_Femme
7 years ago
I had met a few bi couples more than 10 years ago at the local kink club. We were just friends and would see each other when out. Fast forward 9 years and one night one of the couples asked if I'd be interested in playing, of course I said yes.The date was booked for the Friday and another couples house. Low and behold, they were the other friends... we had a 5 some and we all played and that was 4 years ago now. We sometimes still get together for a raunchy night.Moral of the story? Not everyone is on dating/hookup sites, some are right under your nose
BiAsianBottom
7 years ago
If any couples in Vic are serious about finding a bi guy for a MMF situation message me as I have been fantasising about this exact scenario. I'm fit, eager and easy going. My pics can be provided if requested.
RHP User
5 years ago
thats a hot combination
RHP User
5 years ago
feel free to contact me if u want a chat
RHP User
5 years ago
If anyone finds two bi guys that are attractive and lovely please send my way. I have one more fantasy to fullfill and then I’m done playing
RHP User
3 years ago
Hey there. I’m a Melbourne bi guy. I think going to bi friendly clubs is a good way to meet. I’ve had some fun doing that. Otherwise just relax and be polite and friendly. It might take longer to find a couple but it’s all good. Better to find the ones who want what you have to offer.
Lookingforreal
3 years ago
I can’t even find a bi male let alone 2. I would LOVE to be in a mmf relationship
blix_and_queen
3 years ago
Just have to keep trying.
RHP User
2 years ago
Just be patient. Keep putting yourself out there and be honest about your desires and always respectful. The openminded couples will find you.
RHP User
2 years ago
You need to be patient. Bi couples can be choosy and should be. Be honest about what you want and with time you will find the couples for you.
Bicuckple60
2 years ago
From experience...guys say they are Bi, however, when it cums to meeting up with a Bi couple they seem to chicken out!!
RHP User
2 years ago
I’m soo keen on a threeway
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