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Fiends List
March 07 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
I hate the ones that send you a request over and over again...only to be rejected every time...don't they get the hint? > There is a certain gentleman on these Forums that has sent me no less than 10 friends requests...I wonder if he does this to others and this is why he gets shot down everytime he starts a Topic? > I don't have many on my friends list at all..just people from here in the Forums that crack me up each time or are wise in their words...and one guy that I had sex with years ago, but we still chat .. that's about it! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I do not understand what the hel they're thinking... maybe they think if "friends" it gives you an opportunity to chat without paying or something? I don't really know what the reasoning is behind it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We all get those ....duh You have to live with it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wishful thinking... I mean, you have a much better chance of success if you are in the right spot at the right time.... hooking up on here takes a certain amount of luck as well as invention. Let's face it, there are times when we are in the mood... or when you are in the mood for it... and if you don't ask.. you don't get!HugsS
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RHP User
15 years ago
B4 RHP, I’d never signed up to any on-line sites as a member before, aside from Facebook (but after signing up to RHP I have dropped FB pretty much altogether lol! Seems so dull now...) So when I first got onto RHP and got chatting to some peeps, we became ‘friends’, even though I hadn’t ‘met’ them (funnily enough half the peeps i have 'met' i never bothered being friends with either lol!). Because, at the time I felt the friends feature seemed similar but different to Facebook. On Facebook I don’t really chat to strangers as i see it as connecting to a network of current and past mates, and using it to simply keep up with what they r up to in their lives. But on RHP at the beginning, if I got on with someone through chat, then that seemed reason enough to make friends, as I didn’t exactly think that I’d meet every single person that I made buddies with through chat....? However, pretty quickly I realised that there really was no benefit in having a friends list that i could see? You may be able to see when they log on, but u could instead add them to your hot list, so no real difference? So I feel the actual friends’ list feature is a little pointless, unless I have missed something here? Later I did notice that the regulars did consider the friends list to be people you actually ‘knew’ but still, if you were in the forums for a long time a WA person may feel as if they were ‘cyber’ friends with an East Coaster? The cyber world still confuses me somewhat! I feel the Friends Feature actually needs to be defined to newbies... Plus pls explain what the benefit of actually having Friends list on RHP is? On FB it has a clear purpose, I am blind to it here?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Computer says noooooooooo Nope dont get it , I need to have meet , played or conversed with on forums etc etc before they hit my Friends .....fiends list. Bloody hell I dont even have Gaz on the list and I see him shopping in Newtown ! Please if you ask for my friendship please expect to root me .......simple ......oh and single boys that means you too !!!!! .....(ps before sending look to see who signs the post) Brae .....................No not the one in lingerie !!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think to some people they use them as a form of advertising hoping that someone who clicks on the profile of the "friend" will notice them on the page and have a look at there profile also. bothtogether6
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3' Please if you ask for my friendship please expect to root me .......simple ...... Brae .....................No not the one in lingerie !!!!! Mmmmm so when we gonna root seeings as I have your single profile on my friends list!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3' Computer says noooooooooo Nope dont get it , I need to have meet , played or conversed with on forums etc etc before they hit my Friends .....fiends list. Bloody hell I dont even have Gaz on the list and I see him shopping in Newtown ! Please if you ask for my friendship please expect to root me .......simple ......oh and single boys that means you too !!!!! .....(ps before sending look to see who signs the post) Brae .....................No not the one in lingerie !!!!! Just when i said (somewhere, i can't remember which thread) i never get tired of seeing the one in lingerie you take her away, you big MEANIEPANTS!!! xx Sarah
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platinumblonde69
15 years ago
I have to agree..My friends list is just that...Its people who I have chatted with and maybe met...I have a statement on my profile asking people not to bother adding me to a friend list if we have never chatted to exchanged emails....And I dont mean just one email either...lol... That also reminds me this point.....If men are members, and get to send 5-50 emails a day.....why do some guys insist on sending u flirts all the time???..I had one paying member send me just over 60 flirts....when he could have just emailed me once...and asked me the question...lol...beyond me.... But....Im guessing its too late to try to work out some people here...hahaha... Plat
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Quoting 'looking2try3' Computer says noooooooooo Nope dont get it , I need to have meet , played or conversed with on forums etc etc before they hit my Friends .....fiends list. Bloody hell I dont even have Gaz on the list and I see him shopping in Newtown ! Please if you ask for my friendship please expect to root me .......simple ......oh and single boys that means you too !!!!! .....(ps before sending look to see who signs the post) Brae .....................No not the one in lingerie !!!!! Just when i said (somewhere, i can't remember which thread) i never get tired of seeing the one in lingerie you take her away, you big MEANIEPANTS!!! xx Sarah I have to say with the comps from Gaz and Fi I may just take more man shots and put them up of me ............ Sarah (my Sarah) honey get that camera out its time for the money shot ! It also seems to stop silly single boys offering to root us ......... heheheheheheheh ....little old me hmmmmm oh baby your not too big your not gunna hurt little old Brae are you ? Brae .........looking for his Tripod!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yeah Im guilty here sorry guys. I just signed up and am trying to figure the site out a bit and I thought it was similar to facebook I guess. I wanted to test the site out before committing to the costs and it doesn't really give you many options other than the 'add as friend' or 'flirt' so I thought that must be the done thing. I need to earn the etiquette on here a bit so I do apologise, feel like a bit of a tool now!I will stop it now! Thanks for the heads up!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Romancefor4' We all get those ....duh You have to live with it. Now who's the forum-fascist?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'bothtogether6' I think to some people they use them as a form of advertising hoping that someone who clicks on the profile of the "friend" will notice them on the page and have a look at there profile also. bothtogether6it makes sense to advertise but advertising on its own doesn't really get you anywhere if you don't follow through, if they never try to talk, what's the point of advertising?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3' I have to say with the comps from Gaz and Fi I may just take more man shots and put them up of me ............ Sarah (my Sarah) honey get that camera out its time for the money shot ! It also seems to stop silly single boys offering to root us ......... heheheheheheheh ....little old me hmmmmm oh baby your not too big your not gunna hurt little old Brae are you ? Brae .........looking for his Tripod! careful about putting up a butt shot tho, I've been told it attracts even MORE boys. hmmm.... Maybe i need to put a nice man-ass pic up next time i'm after some new boys....xx Sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have no friends at all on my friends list, which is a choice of mine. I assumed that all those boys asking to be friends was because it gave access to my PG or something like that. Now that I have read it doesn't I cannot possibly imagine why they'd be sending me requests.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just today I had two friends requests from couples profiles, which is odd because couples are normally very upfront with a message or at least a couple of flirts first . Seeing how I don't have in my profile that I even play with couples, a friend request with nothing prior isn't really the norm. But neither of these sent any sort of feelers out first, I dunno maybe they're new? Spose I can't whinge, I don't say I absolutely DON'T play with them. Hmmm I've a left a door open somehwere there LOL. . . Sarah let me give you some boys It's either that or I'm going to get RSI replying to my mail
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RHP User
15 years ago
getting "lucky" here requires a bit of luck - it's like digging for gold, you need some skills and also cover a lot of territory... so some people would just stick their pick all over the place and hope for the best... others will measure up and weigh up how to go about it before sticking their head up... we're all different in the approach to the ladies... and sometimes the bad boys are what girls like best :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
its just another form of trolling.... we have 3 or 400 waiting for conformation on our friends list....never going to happen.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Can't say I bother adding friends to the friends list, or accepting invitations from ppl I've never talked to, honestly don't see the point, if you talk to those ppl often enough, you really don't need them on your friends list, you obviously have ways of contacting each other. *shrugs*
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RHP User
15 years ago
Excuse me and sorry about the lack of etiquette that is required, I have only just joined and don't yet know (or is that have the skill) the flow of this site, as mentioned earlier in this thread having come from social networks as fb, the add friend can be a little confusing, on the other so fore mentioned network its all willy nilly and anything goes, a complete shambles, so you expect this to be the same, duh how wrong am I. Thank you for clearing this up for me. I will now go back and take this on board and be courteous and considerate, as we are required to be to make friends person to person! I'm sure I am not the only person on here who does not know how you should correctly conduct himself on this site ( there isn't a manual is there?) so don't go too harshly on them. So thank you sincerely for the offerings on this thread, has given me much food for thought On how to conduct myself and why not to be disappointed if I do not have my friends requests accepted immediately( fuck now I have to go back and start conversations lol!) Thank you :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
lets fuck then
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'weLIVEonce'lets fuck then I'm going to assume it was an open invitation and stand out of the way so i don't get trampled when all the boys flock to your yard for a bit of that milkshake ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Pleaser949'Excuse me and sorry about the lack of etiquette that is required, I have only just joined and don't yet know (or is that have the skill) the flow of this site, as mentioned earlier in this thread having come from social networks as fb, the add friend can be a little confusing, on the other so fore mentioned network its all willy nilly and anything goes, a complete shambles, so you expect this to be the same, duh how wrong am I. Thank you for clearing this up for me. I will now go back and take this on board and be courteous and considerate, as we are required to be to make friends person to person! I'm sure I am not the only person on here who does not know how you should correctly conduct himself on this site ( there isn't a manual is there?) so don't go too harshly on them. So thank you sincerely for the offerings on this thread, has given me much food for thought On how to conduct myself and why not to be disappointed if I do not have my friends requests accepted immediately( fuck now I have to go back and start conversations lol!) Thank you :-) Nah, that is not fact, just opinion, unless someone can point it out on a RHP Rules page that I have missed? I am with Stalky and a couple others here, on a site like this it can be used as positive advertising in a few different ways, when I find people I like, I look at who they have in their friends list as I am quite likely to want to get to know friends of friends, with like for like interests, or validations etc as opposed to people that I have less info on, our profiles don’t give away much, especially when most are from ‘insert the template here!’ Also, if i have some friends in my friends list, it can simply indicate a sample of the type of people I like, so those people looking at my profile can get an idea of who I go for. And other than the friends list, if you post in forums, stories, comps, etc the more exposure the more likely people will find you, so you have a greater chance of finding your ‘favourite types’ win win really? I don't think we should feel bad because we firstly didn't know that some of this community think it is only for 'personal people i have met, type relationships' I think it is down to your own interpretation here... or even if it isn’t, tough, i still see it more beneficial to use it as ‘helpful extra info and bout me and others!’ I think that this site all about free expression anyway, I am so sick of RULES! lol!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' B4 RHP, I’d never signed up to any on-line sites as a member before, aside from Facebook (but after signing up to RHP I have dropped FB pretty much altogether lol! Seems so dull now...) So when I first got onto RHP and got chatting to some peeps, we became ‘friends’, even though I hadn’t ‘met’ them (funnily enough half the peeps i have 'met' i never bothered being friends with either lol!). Because, at the time I felt the friends feature seemed similar but different to Facebook. On Facebook I don’t really chat to strangers as i see it as connecting to a network of current and past mates, and using it to simply keep up with what they r up to in their lives. But on RHP at the beginning, if I got on with someone through chat, then that seemed reason enough to make friends, as I didn’t exactly think that I’d meet every single person that I made buddies with through chat....? However, pretty quickly I realised that there really was no benefit in having a friends list that i could see? You may be able to see when they log on, but u could instead add them to your hot list, so no real difference? So I feel the actual friends’ list feature is a little pointless, unless I have missed something here? Later I did notice that the regulars did consider the friends list to be people you actually ‘knew’ but still, if you were in the forums for a long time a WA person may feel as if they were ‘cyber’ friends with an East Coaster? The cyber world still confuses me somewhat! I feel the Friends Feature actually needs to be defined to newbies... Plus pls explain what the benefit of actually having Friends list on RHP is? On FB it has a clear purpose, I am blind to it My points just don't seem that valid now.. crap (should have re-read my first post b4 doing a second! live and learn..)
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