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Fetishes...
December 07 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
Every now and then you do something so regularly it just become a little vanilla...I am sure your toys will make a cum back soon enuf. LC
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nup ..your wrong. It really turns me off now. sweetpetite41
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RHP User
15 years ago
You are going to have to find a new interest then I suspect :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
sad to hear it because its one that Im curious about :P but I dont think suddenly not being interested in something is a particular problem as such... as long as youre finding other things that keep you interested and excited...it would be a problem if you lost interest in it and then had no idea how to get the thrill that it gave you back. But even then its just a matter of experimenting with new ideas or rediscovering/reinventing old ones and soon enough Im sure you would find it again...LS
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RHP User
15 years ago
Why is it a problem that I do not want that thrill back? I am happy with my choice and I know what I like n need. LC Bonfire? Ermmm.. Think you over fantasizing there. sweetpetite41
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RHP User
15 years ago
To throw the toys on LOL
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not that particular thrill.. Just a sense of enjoyment... If you're happy, you're happy. It's all good :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
All my post is about how that does not thrill me anymore and have others had fetishes that to lost a thrill in. Not about LC fantasy about how many strapons he thinks I have that i need a bonfire for it...Seriously silly ..... Or me losing any other thrills in my sex life. Which I have not! sighhhh sweetpetite41<<<< wonders if people can stick to the original question asked?
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have to say that has never happened to me. I have expanded certain things but never lost interest in the base of the fetish. I can not imagine it happening to be honest. LC
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think a fetish is only a turn on when its forbidden or very naughty. Once its part of a rootine it is just that routine.But on special occasions you may find it (fetish) will get you to where you want to be.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't think that losing interest in one thing is any less likely than discovering a fetish that you previously had no interest in. They're both forms of growing and refining one's sexuality.Hi MsValkyrie - any thread that has "fetish" in the title is bound to catch her eye before too long...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Snowshoe'I don't think that losing interest in one thing is any less likely than discovering a fetish that you previously had no interest in. They're both forms of growing and refining one's sexuality.Hi MsValkyrie - any thread that has "fetish" in the title is bound to catch her eye before too long... haha! there's really no talking my way out of this one, is there? erm... i was just passing through? though i do have to say, sweetpetite, if you are looking at selling your strap-on, i have lost my best strap-on dildo and have just found out it's $140 to replace new... let's do a deal lol! back on topic... personally, i go through fetish phases... i might lose interest in one for years and years, and then something triggers it again and it returns. so you might not have lost this one forever?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MsValkyrie' though i do have to say, sweetpetite, if you are looking at selling your strap-on, i have lost my best strap-on dildo and have just found out it's $140 to replace new... I sincerely hope that the explanation of how you lost it is more complex than "the strap came undone". I'm picturing some poor guy wandering around with a bewildered and constipated look on his face...
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have a couple of fetishes that come and go. Sometimes it gets a bit "same old" and the thrill fades for a while. I simply move on and concentrate my fetish efforts elsewhere. When I eventually go back to it the old familiar thrill comes back too. Leave your strapons in storage and don't throw them out as you may need them again. I have to admit, doing guys with a strapon does lose it's thrill after a while.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have to agree with snow on this - have gone through many fetishes, some have stayed with me and others I am completley turned off by now. I think that exploring these things was the best thing I could have done, and it has helped me to understand my body, sexuality and mind a lot more. I feel sorry for those who don't allow themselves to explore that side of themselves! Only trouble is, once a new level is reached, it can be harder to find new things that you are excited by and enjoy doing .... I find that revisiting old fantasies/ sexual outlets can be a thrill all over again if left alone for long enough though.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sorry girls...Was about to throw them out.. but will take the advice to store them away for a lil longer. I never did it much.. Was quite fussy on who would get that thrill from me.. Never a case of doing it too much. too little really. lol.... Annoying part is that I do know of a couple guys who are no longer interested in meeting me again as I have gone off it.. Selfish of them? Hard to answer as we are all here to explore our sexual desires. I posted this as I was tired of getting messages form guys asking would i do them as they had seen some of my old posts about strapons and MMF bi.... when I tell them I no longer am into that.. They reply...Ohh, Well thanks for letting me know and what a pity. Ermmmm.. wow! Is that all I am good for for these men? Feeling used when I get those messages ..hahahaha..:P sweetpetite41 xxxxxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Like so many things in life, fetishes come and go. One day they'll do it for you and the next they seem passe. But do yourself a favour and never say never again. There will come a time when the urge returns and you'll be looking in the back of the cupboard for that strap-on. In the meantime, enjoy looking for new fun ways to play. T x
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RHP User
15 years ago
I wouldnt take it personally...especially at that first point of contact. Alot of people here are searching specifically for fetishes to be filled. So it makes sence then that you are not the type they are looking for if you no longer do what turns them on. Depending on the connection with past & current lovers, I would possibly be dissapointed that they were no longer interested. But that said we are looking for couples...so if a couple broke up we would quite possibly remain in msg contact as friends but I doubt that sex would be on the menu since we are specifically looking for the couple experience...Of course that is broad...it would depend on the couple ect... And yes one month its quite possible that I will go gaga over anal...only to be off it the next week. Or screaming when he licks me a certain way..only to shrug him off the next time. lol. We are women & whimsical! Mrs H xx So if I see any second hand strap ons in the local paper...I know who to call! lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mrs H ..Your a funny one! ...Ohhh dear please don't start me on anal... I luv it ! .. I am never whimsical with that.. .. huggies sweetpetite41 xxxxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sweet, Yep the others are right sometimes we can do a fetish to death or maybe after many sessions we realise it isn't ever going to give us the thrill we thought it would or maybe you just peaked with it once you pushed 14 inches of 6 inch thick dick into some poor brave (well dirty and kinky) mans bum and watched a tear roll down his face as he whimpered "gentle gentle please be gentle" you had got to the "been there done that" stage. Agree with Mrs H had a partner who just knew when the time was right for anal for her would go wild during it and absolutely filthy after it but then the next day (well for 6 months) if you went near her bum with anything more than a finger you were risking castration) definately by invitation only lol It's all about the phase of the moon or pull of the tide and the right combination of 2 people QG
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RHP User
15 years ago
But I was deadly serious! lol hmmm you go girl!!! Sounds like you have plenty of other fetishes to 'float your boat'! As for me Im afraid QG, that I am probably alot like your female friend...its amazing how something can have you screaming down the roof one night...yet be annoying the next! I am really starting to feel sorry for you blokes...I mean you have this big sticky out thing that we just have to suck & its usually pretty obvious if we are doing it right. But us girls have one tiny little pearl, with lots of other crevaces & things nearby. And its not one stroke fits all....one night we like this, next night we like that. Then add in the fact that different women like different things...It really is daunting!!! Or is it just because Im new at it? Mrs H xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
MMM maybe i should not comment but if you have grown out of this fetish,leave it.Hell i cant understand why the two male playmates would not want to play,cause you wont fuck them in the arse.Sounds like you have been working too hard to please and not getting the needed time you like"shared time"mmm yeah you could have more of what you like with a straight guy for a while as it seems you know a lot of bi guys.As straight guy wont say,"hey my turn now,you fuck me"right when you want to be taken selfishly .Its your right to do as you like and any limits known or newly found should be respected.Dont throw the strap on out its cool still for lots of other play.Tell the two guys that are damn selfish to go fuck THEMSELVES. Have fun and remember to love the good guys/bad guys here then tell them to go fuck themselves.You have said you want rid of this fetish and i will detonate it for you ............BOOM .........and its gone.Its what you wanted DETONATOR.x
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