RHP

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Females receiving oral

September 17 2012

I'm very curious... Had an encounter recently where the girl did not want me to go down on her at all. It wasn't a body image issue or anything like that. She just says she doesn't like it. Fair enough. But it did put me off her though as I love it. My question is, is that a rarity or more common than I thought? I haven't come across it before. Cheers

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It's a deal breaker for me too. Can't live without it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Because it never did anything for me, until I found a lover who really knew what he was doing, really listened to my moans and groans, and really loved it. Amazing. Even then though I would still get impatient for penetration. I was 36 before I learnt to love oral. Don't be put off by one woman, most women really love it :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    she has a very sensitive clitoris and previous lovers haven't had the right technique.If you are still interested in her talk to her about what it has felt like for her in the past,perhaps she would respond to a gentler approach. Some women have the thought that cunnilingis is ''dirty'' and some women think that masturbation is ''dirty'' ,it seems ridiculous but these attitudes still exist.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    A deal breaker, but I would feel like she was missing out. Wouldn't push the issue though, have to respect her wishes.Cheers Felonious

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13' she has a very sensitive clitoris and previous lovers haven't had the right technique.If you are still interested in her talk to her about what it has felt like for her in the past,perhaps she would respond to a gentler approach. Some women have the thought that cunnilingis is ''dirty'' and some women think that masturbation is ''dirty'' ,it seems ridiculous but these attitudes still exist.   Yes my partner took a while to get into it, maybe have a chat and ask her how she wants to handle it, tell her you enjoy it.