M49 F42
Female profiles who are actually couples
February 23 2011
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rupamohan
15 years ago
Strictly speaking it is a misleading profile and most probably doesn't meet RHP terms & conditions..equally misleading profiles are when some one says- looking for cpls nd girls at the top but then somewhere in the profile they will say we are only lookin for girls.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We agree, it may get your attention at first but you soon discover that the profile is a couple ! Which is fine but why not be up front from the start. Just as frustrating as profiles that ask what we think of them without a photo ! WTF just let us check my crystal ball
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RHP User
15 years ago
A topic about misleading profiles and the first three comments are by women. Yes they are couples profiles but why is the main picture a female only? Why havent you displayed a picture of both of you? Yes I know you do have pics of the male half of the couple up there but....a touch misleading.....or just good salesmanship?
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RHP User
15 years ago
No I am not going to say what i really want to say. Last time i questioned a couples motives for masquerading as a single femaleshe abused the bejesus out of me......and I mean she went to town, she used swear words I have never heard of!Suffice to say its a misrepresentation, and the Rhp gods should shut down those profiles.Speaking of Rhp Gods.....I have been waiting patiently for instant posting privileges.....heheheI miss not having instant posting privileges......that'll learn me for creating a new profile...lol.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee'A topic about misleading profiles and the first three comments are by women. Yes they are couples profiles but why is the main picture a female only? Why havent you displayed a picture of both of you? Yes I know you do have pics of the male half of the couple up there but....a touch misleading.....or just good salesmanship? ....Someone has to be taking the shot.. I Wouldn't think - and I just looked at Hebe's profile that it is misleading at all.They have a pic of the man in profile so I would definatly say good salesmanship!! I mean thats exactly what most on here are here to do, either sell yourself best as a couple or a single. Generally speaking if a single female wants to play with a couple as well it's generally on the proviso she plays with the female element so by putting hot pic of female of the couple AND having a pic in PG gallery of man is a no brainer from where Im standing....actually sitting.. As for being a female only profile I dare say it could also be to get around the rule of paying for membership but still be able to access chat rooms especially if they become validated. Agreed though with OP I can imagine it would be frustrating.Though same can be said with a lot of profiles on here..you need a good B/S radar to sift through the genuine and the crap.
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RHP User
15 years ago
as well as single men with a couples profile iv even seen single mens profiles that say single and then when you read down he has a wife willing to play too...WTF??? RHP should be doing something about it when profiles are started or edited they go through the moderator, so why cant they stop them there before they get through??? roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
We think if you are a couple you should only have a couples profile. Not plus a single male or female. There is provision for open relationships which covers playing as a single, and options for fmf or mfm. Dont mind just a photo of one up but if both want to play photos of both are not optional we will ask for these in the first communication and will delete access to our p/g within 48 hours after they have viewed us if theirs is not supplied to us.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I know how annoying it can be. I have turned up to meet a man only to find that he is part of a couple. I have gone to meet a woman only to find she is part of a couple. Both times we had been messaging and chatting for a while and no mention of the partner.
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RHP User
15 years ago
In this little chickens books... The main profile pic is to get attention for people to want to hit on your profile. TICK The Public Gallery is to give people enough infomation about size shape age of BOTH partners (couples ) TICK. The profile description is to tell people exactly what you are about and hopefully what you are after. TICK. Anything less is a big black CROSS... P.S Mine are all taken on my humble mobile phone..no "delayed timing" on it sorry .
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RHP User
15 years ago
when "women" have a single profile.....then chatting to them they mention their boyfriend/husband who they will not play without. i'm sorry but that makes you a couple?? dont think its fair on the genuine couples who have their profiles on here, and i find it very frustating. also couples who only have photos of the female, yes no doubt she is hot : ) but i am meeting/playing with both of you not just the female. rant over LOl someone woke up on the wrong side of bed this mornnig
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RHP User
15 years ago
I dont see it as misleading if it is stated in the "lifestyle" part...See im in a happy relationship with my boyfriend, however i want to have some fun with girls, hence why I made the profile. I dont keep anything a secret from him and he knows about my profile. I have clearly stated in my "about me" and "lifestyle" that i am attached. I have also stated that IF they want my boyfriend involved, then count him in. But if you want just a one on one with me, then that's great!! But the main thing is to clearly specify what you are after. Thats what i found anyways :) maybe im just rambling....
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RHP User
15 years ago
oh and i have also had the same issue where in their "looking for" section they have female, couple.... but then you get to the "about me" and they dont want men, only girls. Not that it affects me, but i can understand how frustrating it would be when searching. I have come across profiles where they say looking for female, but you read on and they are actually a couple or are just looking for a male...
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RHP User
15 years ago
And decided to spend some time trolling through the multitude of female profiles on here looking for a female playmate...and in the short space of time I did this (before becoming disenchanted) I found at least 6 of said profiles...and reported them. . Now as far as I am aware (and please correct me if I am wrong RHP Gods) the 'Gods' dont mind so much if the single profile is mainly looking for fun without the their significant other joinging in (as is the case of Mf_4_f) but do have a problem if the profile clearly states that she/he is only willing to play with their significant other involved and especially if there are pictures of both up in the profile. . If it worries you that much just report them and let the 'Gods' deal with them. . But as Roxxy said its not just females, I too have come across single male profiles that have the same issue . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' . Now as far as I am aware (and please correct me if I am wrong RHP Gods) the 'Gods' dont mind so much if the single profile is mainly looking for fun without the their significant other joinging in (as is the case of Mf_4_f) but do have a problem if the profile clearly states that she/he is only willing to play with their significant other involved and especially if there are pictures of both up in the profile. Kisses Focus Not into reporting people untill they upset me enough. But anyways: What is the difference between a single profile but you are a couple looking for a bit on the side without your partner. And a Couples profile with a open relationship....same thing we reckon. If you are in a commited relationship you are a couple.......we reckon they should say it as it is....but reporting nah cant be bothered who cares.
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rupamohan
15 years ago
I guess everybody will have own reason.. we prefer to provide ONLY info that is sufficient to get expected response. We may provide more info if we are not satisfied with the response.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Romancefor4' Quoting 'focusliason' . Now as far as I am aware (and please correct me if I am wrong RHP Gods) the 'Gods' dont mind so much if the single profile is mainly looking for fun without the their significant other joinging in (as is the case of Mf_4_f) but do have a problem if the profile clearly states that she/he is only willing to play with their significant other involved and especially if there are pictures of both up in the profile. Kisses Focus Not into reporting people untill they upset me enough. But anyways: What is the difference between a single profile but you are a couple looking for a bit on the side without your partner. And a Couples profile with a open relationship....same thing we reckon. If you are in a commited relationship you are a couple.......we reckon they should say it as it is....but reporting nah cant be bothered who cares. Not at all . One is looking for some solo action on their own the other is looking for some fun with their partner AND on their own . If you are looking for fun on your own then you are 'single' in that you are wanting to play solo/alone....when I go looking for a female playmate to play one on one with I dont care whether they are married or not...but what I dont want is to find a seemingly single female profile (using the search criteria) and find a couple...if I wanted to find a couple I would search under that...I dont look at single as in not attached in anyway I look at single (on this site under these criteria) as being someone who wants to play on their own...marital status comes under relationship in the lifestyle tab . hmmm did I make sense??? probably not...lol . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' Quoting 'Romancefor4' Quoting 'focusliason' . Now as far as I am aware (and please correct me if I am wrong RHP Gods) the 'Gods' dont mind so much if the single profile is mainly looking for fun without the their significant other joinging in (as is the case of Mf_4_f) but do have a problem if the profile clearly states that she/he is only willing to play with their significant other involved and especially if there are pictures of both up in the profile. Kisses Focus Not into reporting people untill they upset me enough. But anyways: What is the difference between a single profile but you are a couple looking for a bit on the side without your partner. And a Couples profile with a open relationship....same thing we reckon. If you are in a commited relationship you are a couple.......we reckon they should say it as it is....but reporting nah cant be bothered who cares. Not at all . One is looking for some solo action on their own the other is looking for some fun with their partner AND on their own . If you are looking for fun on your own then you are 'single' in that you are wanting to play solo/alone....when I go looking for a female playmate to play one on one with I dont care whether they are married or not...but what I dont want is to find a seemingly single female profile (using the search criteria) and find a couple...if I wanted to find a couple I would search under that...I dont look at single as in not attached in anyway I look at single (on this site under these criteria) as being someone who wants to play on their own...marital status comes under relationship in the lifestyle tab . hmmm did I make sense??? probably not...lol . Kisses Focus Focus What I was getting at is a couples profile with the open relationship box ticked means both members of the couple will play without their partner, the same as a singles profile. So if for example you were looking for a lady to play with without her husband you would search .....singles ladies etc but also couples...open relationship...seeking females. The only difference really being the single profile a relationship is possible a open realationship = just play / sex isnt that naughty and sexy! yukie lol! Defination of open realationship = A committed couple who play as singles without their partners. Defination of swinging = Committed couples that have sex with others with their partners present. What this thread I reckon is complaining about is couples trying to get double the advertising for no bucks.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mf_4_f' I dont see it as misleading if it is stated in the "lifestyle" part...See im in a happy relationship with my boyfriend, however i want to have some fun with girls, hence why I made the profile. I dont keep anything a secret from him and he knows about my profile. I have clearly stated in my "about me" and "lifestyle" that i am attached. I have also stated that IF they want my boyfriend involved, then count him in. But if you want just a one on one with me, then that's great!! But the main thing is to clearly specify what you are after. Thats what i found anyways :) maybe im just rambling.... No criticism of your profile intended so please do not read it that way but you do raise an interesting point in that your profile states 'IF' in regards to your boyfriend.To some, the word 'IF' may indeed imply that your preference is for your Boyfriend to join your play and the use of the word 'IF' is to hide your choice/preference. May seem a long string to draw but when reading profiles of that nature I and Sheba often think 'so they want their other involved' before we think 'their other will be involved if we ask'. Hope that makes sense.But that is in the reading and given the very nature of sites like this that often lead to scepticism to many it would not matter how clear your wording in that situation, fault will be found.
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RHP User
15 years ago
seriously, do you have nothing better to do with your time than winge?sometimes circumstances change, sometimes its a matter of being lazy, does it really matter?does the whole 3 seconds it takes for you to click on to the next profile really cause you that much stress?im married and looking for a girl for my hubby but i want someone i like, so i have a single profile clearly stating its for my hubby..im pretty sure no one is 100% honest in their profile, maybe consiously or not, when you take and post only pics from above only your hiding something, if you dont have face pics, your hiding something, no pics at all, umm hiding something.so get off your high horses, its a fun site and for some people its about living a fantasy!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
What I was trying to say is that for me a 'single' profile doesnt actually mean relationship available nor does it reflect relationship status just that they want to play on their own and not with their partner involved (if they have one) - one on one - a couples profile says I either play only with my partner (we come together) or we do both - either on our own or together....I thought the problem the OP had was the 'single' (ie solo play) profiles who are actually couples who dont play seperately . Well thats the way I interpret 'single' profiles anyway...nothing to do with marital status more to do with the number of people involved... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
I see where you are coming from, That would have to be female logic at its best! I am married love and live with my partner, but I am single because I play without my partner. Thats Ok, I learnt my lesson years ago I said to a couple, "Whats the idea of ticking the box sex with others" When you dont. Got a ear full and told to f.... off! etc etc
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'erzulie101' seriously, do you have nothing better to do with your time than winge?sometimes circumstances change, sometimes its a matter of being lazy, does it really matter?does the whole 3 seconds it takes for you to click on to the next profile really cause you that much stress?im married and looking for a girl for my hubby but i want someone i like, so i have a single profile clearly stating its for my hubby..im pretty sure no one is 100% honest in their profile, maybe consiously or not, when you take and post only pics from above only your hiding something, if you dont have face pics, your hiding something, no pics at all, umm hiding something. so get off your high horses, its a fun site and for some people its about living a fantasy!!! It is not CLEARLY stated at all...it is in the last line of your profile! You say nothing about whether the girl is for you as well ... so, I think you should just get a male profile for your man or if it's for both...then a couples profile should be made! As you stated yourself...."when you take and post only pics from above only your hiding something, if you dont have face pics, your hiding something, no pics at all, umm hiding something." Then why are you "hiding" your husband? Plus...you have no face pics either! I also see the frustration in chat alot from both men and couples and single girls looking just for girl on girl action! If you are a Couple...then make a Couple's profile! I know many guys that have left because of this very reason...alot of women are actual couples and they find it a waste of time! That is very sad, as these guys are genuine and are looking for genuine single women! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Romancefor4' I see where you are coming from, That would have to be female logic at its best! I am married love and live with my partner, but I am single because I play without my partner. Thats Ok, I learnt my lesson years ago I said to a couple, "Whats the idea of ticking the box sex with others" When you dont. Got a ear full and told to f.... off! etc etc Its Focus logic and I am told that that is a very scary thing indeed...lol...hmmm do have a question for you though - how do I filter my searches to include couples in an open relationhip?? Cause I cant seem to find that - would help open my options up a little .... . I wouldnt call a person in an open relationship single just that they have a solo profile....ehhh dont want to confuse the masses too much more than I already have.... . Kisses Focus (single both in profile and in life)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I would have to agree with funloving your profile is very light on information especially that this is about your husband...if it is for him solo and not for you why not create his own profile and you go through the profiles with him giving your opinion - wouldnt this also be doing the searching with him...at least the women you approach then wouldnt be nearly as confused as I am sure they are now.... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Focus, Advance search Couples seeking women Sexual Sexual Interests open relationships / play We had open relationship / play ticked for a couple of years then we learnt what it meant and then unticked it because we allways want to play same room together as a couple. I would imagine others might have open relationship ticked thinking it means open minded,,,lol like we did! Am sure that can be covered on the 1st message.....good luck.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Romancefor4' Focus, Advance search Couples seeking women Sexual Sexual Interests open relationships / play We had open relationship / play ticked for a couple of years then we learnt what it meant and then unticked it because we allways want to play same room together as a couple. I would imagine others might have open relationship ticked thinking it means open minded,,,lol like we did! Am sure that can be covered on the 1st message.....good luck. because that sexual interest doesnt show up on my screen...sigh...looks like I will have to go back to the hard way of seeking out solo female profiles... . Thanks for trying though guys - appreciate it . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
who cares?If you dont like it...report them.If you cant be bothered reporting them...shut up.JMO...BJxxx
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