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Female chaperones for new single females

October 16 2018

So I have thought about this the last few days. As a sex positive females, in a same sex FF relationship, we both enjoy swinging...but often have wondered how it is for single women and going to an adult swinger venue for the first time. I know I probably would NEVER have gone alone or very much preferred not to due to possibly feeling like a chip on the floor (or the elusive "unicorn" as we are often referred to as) and all the seagulls seeing it and swooping in hoping to get a piece! Not saying this happens all the time but it is how many females feel sometimes, even just walking down the street and it is daunting.
So to the point - would single women who'd love to go to a swinger club for the first time feel better with fellow female chaperones?
I'm pondering offering this for when we do go to swinger events, for such women, even just to get in the door and see what it is about without feeling like that chip!

Opinions, preferably from women, please! And go...

- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User
6 years ago
You're in Perth so of no assistance to me!

But yes I've thought about it. I struggle to go to an exercise class on my own, let alone a swinger club or anything of that nature!

So yes, what you're suggesting would definitely be helpful. Though in saying that, I'm not sure even if it were available here how I'd go about it. I think it would depend on the person.

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RHP User
6 years ago
Yes, it is the logistical side that might be tricky to manage. But, maybe forming a network may help. I've just put it on our profile saying if any singles want to check out a venue and if we are available, which isn't all the time as we have lives other than swinging all the time! But just to message and ask. We are friendly every day people whobhave been on the scene only a short while, and totally understand safety concerns for women in this day and age. While most people at clubs are respectful, for a new visitor, it is always daunting the first visit.

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Freaky_Fun
6 years ago
Second time l went by myself and have since been to clubs and parties many times on my own and never found anyone to swoop on me. Maybe I'm not a very flavoursome chip. But then l don't get daunted walking down the street either.

I've taken many friends both male and female to clubs for the first time. And l think it's just as daunting for the men as it is for my female friends. Not sure they need a chaperone as such it's not running with the bulls.
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
It depends on the person because if you didn't immediately feel comfortable with the chaperone then that would be just as daunting for the single female.
In theory, i like the idea very much.

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sugar_vanessa
6 years ago
That's a fantastic idea and definitely something I'd like to try one day.
Even for experienced women I think it'd make things a lot more fun

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RHP User
6 years ago
Hey ladies! That sounds like a fantastic idea! We are a larger couple that have wanted to check out clubs and events but find it hard as we both suffer from anxiety. Going with someone who’s been before is a great idea.
It’s always nice to know someone at a party right? And its a comforting though for those very rare single ladies so they don’t feel so vulnerable.

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RHP User
6 years ago
*raises hands* we aren't slim either and we were bigger before. Much bigger. All shapes and sizes go to the clubs! No need to stress and we would be happy to go with you.

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RHP User
6 years ago
We've acted as chaperones for single women in Adelaide.
We actually did that last weekend.
We also find ourselves matchmaking, as it's a lot more comfortable for them when we've already done the screening process with the guys.
We enjoy making friends this way with no expectations and the women really appreciate it.
Our lovely Male friends appreciate the introductions too!

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RHP User
6 years ago
I have chaperone a cple and single females to our local nude beach as they have been nervous met and walked down away from anyone and kept an eye out so not to get hassled.might be a first step to assist with anxious moments and vulnerable feelings .A swingers or adults club might be a step further tried from there.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Thanks 2deluxxe and cumlots099 for the advice! We are always open to giving things a go, coz we too have a bucket list of things we would like to try. Would be great to maybe meet up somewhere for a few drinks beforehand sometime to ease the nerves (probably overthinking) and then go with chaperones from there...
It’s definitely something we want but just need some friendly faces to help us take that initial step :)

Thanks again for the advice! We really appreciate it. And love to make new friends along the way.

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RHP User
6 years ago
Unless you are supremely confident person I think it's a great idea for any first timer regardless of gender to go to a club with a friendly. As it can be an intimidating enough environment by yourself. I'm greatful for going along to my first with someone else...
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