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Feeling truly desired
September 28 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Summed it up well....Love is an irresistible desire to be irristibly desired......xxQ
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6exxy
11 years ago
What you speak us a connection where two people meet. It is more about sharing each other energy and soul than the act is sex. When you have this you each need to understand how special it is and hold on and cherish it.💞
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RHP User
11 years ago
Never been truly desired above all others. Must be a nice feeling.
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6exxy
11 years ago
You remain hidden. I do Realize that is by choice but it would be nice to know who the lady posting is 😀
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Never been truly desired above all others. Must be a nice feeling. Come 'ere and let me give you a great big hug... Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is. Wonderful, actually. Sad to lose it. Hard to imagine finding it again. Rare I think - but that's why I raised the topic, to find out about the experiences of others. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Never experienced true desire sure my husband loves me and I him but desire???? Hmmmmm - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
been desired to the exclusion of all others...in fact it would probably make me feel emotionally claustrophobic, xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
because I have no desire to be subsumed by another xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is a beautiful thing when it us heart mind body soul and from what I have seen so very very rare and yes yearned for. The grand passion. Only 1 person has awoken me enough to drop my inhibitions, and I could not say that we touch all the bases of heart mind body soul, and that in itself is both Thrilling and terrifying - that there could be more to a connection whether it be this person or another. 6exxy you are very right and that is how I see it right now. Scary scary as well as a beautiful gift. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is without a doubt the ultimate and truly intoxicating on all levels - mind body & soul! Having experienced this most definitely contributes to my refusing to settle for anything less in that sense.
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RHP User
11 years ago
to have felt desired by a select few men and maybe that is why I am finding sex so unfulfilling now. I yearn for that desire. One was my ex husband, I don't doubt that we desired each other until the last few years but we did maintain very regular sex even though that feeling seemed to have subsided in the end, we still enjoyed it. The other 2 were short affairs but the chemistry was electric and it was like being the only 2 people in the world at the time. Daily life was like walking on air and all my cares seemed to disappear. It was like a perfect little world for a while, and that was just from the sex. Outside of bed there was no real relationship.
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RHP User
11 years ago
think of it this way,it's all just a chemical rush.....that's why it is so addictive,that's why people crave it....take some time out,do other things that you enjoy...easy for me to say I know....hugs xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Same same :) It's a downside I think - once you've experienced something like that it's difficult to accept less and not common to find it again. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The feeling is intoxicating and very hard to let go of.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Absolutely! I must be glowing because I feel not only desired but also loved. The look in his eyes from across the room says it all, to the soft touch of his fingers along the inside of my wrist in a movie theatre, and the unexpected, "Have I told you how beautiful you are", even first thing in the morning with my morning hair lol and the sweeping kisses he sends me in public, always makes me blush with desire :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
You just know...it's unforgtable. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'tulips4u' Absolutely! I must be glowing because I feel not only desired but also loved. The look in his eyes from across the room says it all, to the soft touch of his fingers along the inside of my wrist in a movie theatre, and the unexpected, "Have I told you how beautiful you are", even first thing in the morning with my morning hair lol and the sweeping kisses he sends me in public, always makes me blush with desire :) - Posted from rhpmobile That is so lovely for you xo
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RHP User
11 years ago
In addition to being the most inappropriately used saying ever: I have found more often than not, that people who have said to me "it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" is generally said by people that have not experienced it and is quite possibly the worst thing that can be said as consolation. The loss & associated grief is unlike any other and quite literally soul shattering to the core. I don't think it can be understood or even fully explained to someone that hasn't experienced it. As much as I think it is a beautiful thing & am grateful to had the experience, there's times when I think I would have preferred not to so that I wouldn't know what I was missing - but having said that, it is not something that I crave as I have since learnt not to be dependent on anyone else for my own happiness regardless. I don't necessarily think that it is a rare thing though. For any number of reasons people just don't have the opportunity to fully explore a connection and allow it to be all that it could be. Could be timing, could be that the connection is too overwhelming and one or the other walks away out of fear or simply due to circumstances beyond their control.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can honestly say that I am both desired and deeply loved by my husband every day. And vice versa, I am a fool for that man. We have more intimacy and an almost absolute lack of control around each other that is way worse then we when we were 16 years old. That feeling of rushing into the house after we're finished work, breathless and heart pounding because you simple must taste that other person and feel their lips and tounge. Mid life crisis at its best lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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him_and_me
11 years ago
Here's a hug for you, Kiwi. Like any pain, I guess it can't be understood properly if it hasn't been experienced. I have felt deeply desired at times by various people and it has been an intense experience, exciting, arousing and a little unsettling. I replied to a thread some months ago to say that feeling desired is a powerful aphrodisiac ... I wonder if it is the same for others? I don't think I've ever been desired at the exclusion of others though, except maybe by my Mr Him in the days before swinging. Lol. x Me
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree it's a powerful aphrodisiac. I assume some people get - and frequently seek - the massive ego boost of being desired like that eg having others lust after them intensely, without necessarily feeling the same lust in return. For me, it's an aphrodisiac if we both feel the same way. Being desired like that, and desiring equally in return, is the thing that creates the real magic. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you for talking about the pain of loss the way you did. I've only experienced that kind of intense grief once (so far, fingers crossed) and it's been a real game changer for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Unrequited love was the hardest to bare but it's even worse for requited but impossible love. I guess this includes the scenario Kiwi mentioned where someone walks away because of their fears. If you have a beautiful soul you will be more desirable than just a pretty face so here's to all the beautiful souls out there...
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RHP User
11 years ago
@Kiwibred, whilst I agree that "it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" is used quite inappropriately (yes, I too am guilty here) it does have some valid meaning for some people depending on their perspective of life.I have at times felt desired and felt desire for the person involved... the loss of that desire which at the time was directly equated to love was soul crushing however in my own masochistic way I appreciate the pain almost as much as the prior joy as it is a reaffirmation of the love that once was and reminded me that I am only human (even bad experiences can help a person grow). I would rather have 1 year of love than a lifetime of loneliness if I had to deal with heartache at the end of the year (Queue Queens "One year of love"... don't look cause this song makes me cry)... In answer to the OPs question: "Regardless of definition or experience, do you agree that feeling truly desired for YOU (not just as a warm body) is intoxicating and brings out the best in you?"Yes, I love the feeling of being desired and yes it brings the best out in me (I think).When out at a club or party where there are writhing bodies the desire is lessened... unless I know the person and have a deeper connection with them, in which case my desire for them often makes everything else around fade into nothing as they are the focus of my world at that time.In a One on One encounter (Dinner, conversation, sex etc) if there is desire and that desire is reciprocated then the world is in perfect balance and the time could be classed as perfect. SG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Love your post :)
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