Fantasies. Talk about them or be quiet and score?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  For us, it's all about the communication. We're open enough that we talk about our fantasies with each other. It can wind up a bit confronting, but we take it all in the spirit of communication and try not to judge each other by it. After all, being different is what makes our relationship interesting :)!Fulfilment is a different matter. We're lucky in that we're fairly open, and neither one of us will balk outright without taking sometime to consider a fantasy fulfilment request first. But while it's nice to have a fantasy fulfilled, we're more appreciative of the fact that we trust each other enough to talk about it, then ask about it, in the first place. So far, we've done the nude photo shoot, some light bondage, FF, FFM ... so now we're looking to fulfil our next fantasy :)!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  hi in response to your post to me fulfilling my fantasies is very important. it is hard to talk about your fantasies with people, but talking about it in a very open and honest way i think is best. i have a fantasy of having a bi MFM and some groupe sex and i  am no closer to reaching it as it currently stands lol. i think it is impoertant to talk things through with your partner and even try and get them to open up to any fantasies they have, they might suprise you!

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  jandv

  16 years ago

  There are still some things i would like to try, 1. Get a guy who knows about photographyto photo my wife with my camera. 2. Try a gangbang. 3. get a nice guy over to service the wife while i am at home. LOL 4. Go to a couples party and see my wife go off with another couple. 5. Find a couple that play in different rooms (never tried that) Or find a couple that could be FWB's.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Talking about your fantasies helps, even if you can't fulfil them.  A very high percentage of sexual activity is above the neck in my experience, and talking about what you do want can make other things even hotter...I've got a few left I'd like to try, but I don't know when/if I'm likely to get the chance.  Still, not moping about it... life's pretty damn good anyway :-)CheersAllWork

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Well I told her about me wanting to share her with a younger man. She was abit shocked and eventually came around to the idea and we had our first mfm on 1 August! She loved it and now is looking for the second one!! Took me 18 months before and now shes keen! So fantasies can come true!!! And with abit of luck keep coming true!!!   J&G

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