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Falling in love
May 03 2014
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Seachange73
12 years ago
post, Ms Q. i choose lovers based on the possibility of connecting on so many levels. Fulfilling our needs and wants and desires. For long term, no but will not rule it out regardless where we meet. Serendipity is wonderful if it happens. I never plan to fall in love when i meet people. Just too hard and creepy for me and for the other person. Lol. First meets are always difficult as it can be apprehensive, full of excitement and some level of anxiety. I always start off the meet as slightly reserved but never cold. I just take my time to observe mannerisms, body language and dress sense. Lol. I am open to all possibilities of having a great connection with a person, leading to a friendship and maybe more but I would take things a face value at all times. I want to ensure that every minute matters and when I am with a person, I like to treat them as though they are the only one that exist in that moment. maybe it will not lead anywhere, maybe somewhere. Que sera, sera.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I fall in love very rarely, and very deeply. These days I rarely do casual, no strings sex because without deep emotional connection it feels incredibly hollow. I find that feeling more overwhelming than simply going without.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Takes a long time for me....but when I do - in a typical taurean fashion - I'm balls deep lol pardon the pun. Do I avoid it??? Nahhh.... Do I look for it??? Nahhhh... But I am open to it consuming me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissBishere
12 years ago
And yes I have made choices in the past to avoid the possibility of it happening. Which really is silly when you think about it because you don't really know who you will love and who you won't and without really getting to know the person you can't say for certain that you would fall in love with them. I say I'm not looking for love but I don't know what my future holds so I live in the now and just enjoy. Missb - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can't believe how quickly some people get in and out of relationships. Sometimes it seems they have just left one and have jumped into another. It took me 3 years to get over my marriage and even now over 7 years later, love avoids me. I would love to be in love again but I don't go into meetings thinking they will be the one, what ever happens happens. I feel like I am waiting for a stand out. To me, everyone seems the same. Same wants, same tactics, same attitudes, I am looking for....different.
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RHP User
12 years ago
one is my husband .I met a lovely married man and we fell head over heels in passion and love. but I left him, I really did not think that for the hard grind when things are not so sexy and glamorous he would be there. My husband I fall more and more in love with every day. 28 years and he still makes me feel special plus he has been so understanding about RHP and yet he does not want other women. I am a very lucky girl to be in love with such a man.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've fallen in love with my NSA booty guy as has he.
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RHP User
12 years ago
To me most people out there know or have an idea what they want. However, it seems that they are not sure of what they are able or prepared to give. I have many reasons to shy away from love. To lock myself up and hide from all those emotions that love brings...both good and bad. It would be easy to fall into the category of the "why me?" group, who spend most of their time focussing on their hurts and expecting others around them to feel the pain too. While there is time to grieve, I believe that the heart gets stronger with each and every experience...whether it be good or bad. I think we are somewhat conditioned to think of ourselves first which inevitabley takes us away from the joy of giving....giving to that special person a piece of you that no one else knows or can ever experience. And in this giving, there is always the risk of that person taking it away and not coming back. But what do we choose to focus on? The possibility of the loss of that precious thing we are giving? Or the honour and pride of being able to experience the joy of giving to a person you love something that means a lot to you? A lot of the time it's the thinking of "better play it cool just in case it don't work out" type...but what joy is in that? Only giving so much just in case. We people have many reasons for the masks we put on. We all have lives filled with reasons to be careful. I just wish when it came to love, people didn't treat it as a game so that if and when we do ever get the chance to be in love, we don't need to worry about getting hurt....instead to enjoy fully the thing that everybody longs for deep down.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Love addicts and love avoidance's. Meaning some are addicted to being in love all the time and those who avoid being in love just like the Black plague. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm neither. I don't fall in love easily, but I like it when it happens and don't fight it. If the feeling isn't mutual, I walk away. Luckily that hasn't happened here. Q, my lovers are men I like and I've got great chemistry with. I've never considered picking a lover based on the fact I couldn't fall in love with him, for the same reason I don't do NSA. I need there to be something more than just being sexually attracted to each other.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Hopeless at it Miss Q Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Like the word fuck is used universally randomly negatively positively to much and taken out of context abused disrespected appreciated little and misunderstood therefore your question is to complex and vast for its simple answer !!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've spent the last six years believing I was deeply in love with a man who I've had an on again off again thing with on his terms, I've destroyed potential relationships with good and decent men based on believing I loved another. But recently I've begun to question if I've ever loved at all and if it's just something we convince ourselves of because it seems appropriate that we should say we love. Given that I can freely involve myself in intamacy without even caring for a man, maybe love is just a word I use but not actually anything I'm capable of. I never imagined a life without love, but I have found myself content in one. I don't seek it, but I don't avoid because I'm no longer sure it exists. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think I have ever truly been in love. And I don't see it in my future either. There are very few people who I thought I loved, but we were never IN love. Guess it's just not on the cards for me. So therefore, no, it's not a consideration when choosing who to be intimate with.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean72' Like the word fuck is used universally randomly negatively positively to much and taken out of context abused disrespected appreciated little and misunderstood therefore your question is to complex and vast for its simple answer !!! - Posted from rhpmobile Love is something where it can not be told, only shown and felt. Fuck it feels good.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I never get to choose it, it chooses me. I've been in love with those I shouldn't have, and never got there with those I should. Not an equation. Just another sensation. RA
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love Like the word fuck Can be random universal and at times just luck Its abused its confused with this single word lust Its negative its positive And like the word fuck It can be taken out of context Therefore confused with lust Its appreciated little Misunderstood very much So the question of love is far more complex Do you mean love a person Or just love great sex When i think of love its not a word like fuck Not a craving to quench your thirst like lust Its simple its pure In fact you cant even touch But when love is in you You feel it so ! No no not in your crouch ! And one things for certain You can never have to much!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Falling in love....as I consider loving someone to be quite different..I mean that dizzy breathless feeling,the being subsumed by the other xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm a glass half full person so am I'm a fall in love easily person. I have the opinion of why fight it as it's our relationships that what makes the world go round and add fulfilment to our lives. Sure you can get hurt, but anything in life such as love, driving a car or breathing all has an element of risk in it and if we shy'ed away from the potential to be hurt we would never leave our house ever.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's only happened a handful of times but when it has I fall madly, deeply, crazy in love. All consuming, my world is them. An emotional maelstrom. Geez it's been a while. But I can also love people easily, not the consuming 'in love', but can easily love people and care for their feelings and well being. As a dear friend that I truly care about, whether or not intimacy is a factor or not, I can easily say "I love you". Freaked a few people out in my time - fucking hippy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Time to watch Moulin Rouge again... "The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return." I don't fall in love easily but when I do it is a wonderful thing. I hope one day to share that special feeling again. As for lovers, I chose them based on whether I like them as a friend not as someone I love. That isn't to say I can't come to love them if they are the one for me and I for them but there are varying degrees of love. SG
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean72' Love Like the word fuck Can be random universal and at times just luck Its abused its confused with this single word lust Its negative its positive And like the word fuck It can be taken out of context Therefore confused with lust Its appreciated little Misunderstood very much So the question of love is far more complex Do you mean love a person Or just love great sex When i think of love its not a word like fuck Not a craving to quench your thirst like lust Its simple its pure In fact you cant even touch But when love is in you You feel it so ! No no not in your crouch ! And one things for certain You can never have to much!
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RHP User
12 years ago
i want to really fall in love and he said why "fall" in love why not be in love? Hmmm I want to be in love feel it tast it experience it again....its like phantom in the night. However my love has to be free open and wonderful. not hurting and squizzing my chest...it has to be so wow I cry out of happiness and sing, laugh and joke all day long. I say come one Love show your self I am waiting. Where are you??????
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madotara69
12 years ago
Tara I wake to see her dreaming Eyes closed peaceful smile Is it me and our miles? Is it her and me the meanings Or of adventures in other time someone, another, not of me? A pleasant feeling wells with rhyme She is free, she is not mine I love her dreaming all the time Peaceful smile, her heart defined Humble to me it is us Our time the adventures Rough lumps and bumps Comfort, cares and lust She lay there dreaming in love With me the man Who sees her as one Her own, her self, her fun Yes special she I love Dreaming fine no not enough Life for her I must Dreams not just dreams Dreams are just She lay next to me Peaceful and smiles Eyes closed peaceful and free Oh it is, clear and precise Tara she is and means to me Everything so it just seems I lay there awake with a smile To see the dreams showing our miles It took five minutes to write it and twenty years too show it. And from Tara twenty years too know it. Mado Tara xx (in love )
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Dryphuz
12 years ago
I've fallen in love before having a relationship twice, once unrequited and once requited. And once more i was with someone for a few months casually, before i woke up one day and realised how much I'd miss her if she was gone. I'm always on the lookout, but its been a while since I've fallen in love. I expect that these days I'd have to do the casual dating thing first, because i don't spend enough time with any female friends to fall before dating ever again.
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